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Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Onyiridike(f): 10:04pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Before now I've always blamed this on the economy. I thought many young men who are graduates are yet to secure a well-paying job and those who are into business are not doing well. However, I know up to 4 men in my neighborhood who are between 34-38 years and are financially stable but they are yet to marry. According to them, getting a marriageable young lady in Nigeria is more difficult than getting a federal government job. In my church, I have witnessed ONLY 2 weddings in 3 years and there are a lot of financially stable young men in their 30's. What is wrong with our young men? How come they can date our girls, sleep with them and cannot marry them? I think our girls should stop sleeping with men who are not their legally married husband. You have given them everything. Why would they want to marry again. You sleep with them, cook for them, wash their clothes, tidy their house and you are not married to them. It does not make sense to me. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:09pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
![]() Let me ask you, do you see marriage as an achievement or a task/responsibility? 17 Likes |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by rosieluv(f): 10:11pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
reasons y some gals dnt lyk to do chores for deir bfs 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by godfrey01(m): 10:15pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Come marrry me...... You think say marriage na beans...... Its not about money Sometimes... Only God knows when me i go marrry because I never even enjoy the days of my youth at alll, still at the starting point.. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by divinehand2003(m): 10:15pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Onyiridike: They babes get their needs met in return. Besides, the culture of marriage is gradually taking a downward slide nowadays especially amongst the whites. Marriage is no longer valued in the western world and this is creeping into Africa. Numerous celebrities here in Nigeria have so many baby mamas and it seems it is what is trending at the moment. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by divinehand2003(m): 10:20pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Can you see why men develop cold feet towards marriage? 10 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Officialkenshin(m): 10:20pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
With una ugly ass face. Only ugly girls complain of marriage pro. |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by afanide: 10:21pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
They want to build houses, buy cars, have investments b4 they get married. The truth is, they have not seen the right one. Believ me if you do, u wouldnt hesitate even if u re leavin in self contain..... Except you have Marine wives ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Onyiridike(f): 10:23pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
divinehand2003: It is sad that we are trying to emulate western lifestyle. I just cannot understand what I'm seeing. |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Onyiridike(f): 10:24pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
divinehand2003: You are funny. |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Onyiridike(f): 10:27pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
afanide:You may be right. Also, we need to work on our character. |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:29pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Op.. iro lonpa... you are a lier.... U just dey look for front page..... oniro nla... All of una go just dey come up with lies from the pit of your asses becos of front page.... lying liars |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Onyiridike(f): 10:31pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
OBTSubtle: It is a responsibility. |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Onyiridike(f): 10:35pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
brudiga: My dear what I wrote their is nothing but the truth. |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by VeryBigYam(m): 10:35pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Must you wait for a man to marry you? can't you take him to an expensive date, buy him a diamond ring, kneel down and propose, pay his groom price, take your family to his village, buy 50 tubers of yam, 12kegs of palm wine, a big cow, 2billy goats, 20 baskets of kola nuts, damn, even buy 21 packets of chalk, the feather of a white eagle and so much more....Yeah that seems easy... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Onyiridike(f): 10:41pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
VeryBigYam:This is Africa |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Onyiridike:Girl, God bless you, but if you did.. You wouldn't put up that post.. |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
na by force...Abegi ![]() |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by peterdrury: 10:45pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Having investments, good jobs or business and being pmatured age wise is not a prerequisite for marriage. Cook, wash, feed and give the best styles during sex to a man is not also a criteria for marriage. When the "need" for companionship is not in a man, you can't force it in. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Onyiridike:Its not usually about the money, it's the responsibilities most guys aren't just ready for. Fact is most young guys that are married today where forced one way or the other, could be family, religion or pregnancy palava. Me personally am not getting married in the nearest future, the idea of a woman disturbing my life about coming home is not just my thing. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by goldman777: 11:02pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Onyiridike: Op abeg wetin concern u if a man.decides to bleep his life away abi u neva marry dis shuldnt be ur bizness op 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Ifakiland(m): 11:14pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Onyiridike:So cos u sleep with ur bf it means u av given him "everything" ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Paseus(m): 12:15am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Why e dey pain u? |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by genearts(m): 12:17am On Oct 07, 2016 |
We need to slow down our population growth. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Paseus(m): 12:20am On Oct 07, 2016 |
brudiga: ![]() brudiga: |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Burgerlomo: 1:44am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Trust me, you will see a mass marriages when the exchange rates is 1-1 that's if possible, and not in this recession ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Frankraj: 3:05am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Onyiridike: Do you think men are stupiddd ? A man can take you to hotel or club buy drinks worth 50k and Bleep you and buy you lastest phones and other expensive gift but he will never marry you . do you know why ? No man will like to keep a materialistic girl or marry her because he knows a wife material will never want his man to be spending too much money . And Nigerian girls are cheaters because of there love for money they can fuckkk any man willing to give them money .I hope I have answered your question 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Onyiridike(f): 6:51am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Ifakiland: I am not single |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Ifakiland(m): 7:47am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Onyiridike:U need to help d man ure with and be single....ure hurting his destiny 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Onyiridike(f): 8:57am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Ifakiland:Your wife will surely hurt your destiny. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Nobody: 9:49am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Onyiridike:. o now this is Africa abi..when it is time to respect the man as d head of the family its not Africa.dem go claim feminist. some don't want to cook or wash for their boyfriends.. how do you convince him you're wife material.. na to dey ask for money to do meaningless shopping.. in the end if a guy sees what he's looking for in a wife and he's capable of supporting a family.nothing go stop am..but if he sees bad habits that can't be changed in his girlfriend.. na to wait for wife material o..no man wants to die before his time 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Many Nigerian Men Refusing To Get Married? by Ifakiland(m): 10:06am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Onyiridike:I probably won't marry....cos u gals are destiny spoilers! 2 Likes 1 Share |
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