saltnsugar:

She was not sorry for what she did but was sorry that she was caught.She was not aware that she is not preggo for 5 months? Common bro!!!
If you didn't find out she would have pin the baby on you. Forgive her but let her go because you will never forget whenever you see the baby and you will never trust her or treat her well even if she become a nun.Men are egocentric.You will always have the image of another making love to her in your mind.
If you keep her you will become the most miserable man on earth because you don't know who is aware.Every comment about cheating women will remind you of her actions.
Her story is not true she kept a friend in 9ja(co-worker i guess).It takes two to tangle.Random sex occur with condom but sex with a regular is majorly without condom.
I am sincerely sympathetic with you because she has distroyed your life of love and trust.You will find it difficult to trust again.
FORGIVE HER AND LET HER GO.Let your family know the reason for your actions,she can tell hers if she want.
Cheers

ehie007:

story looks like nollywood, fabricated,

boyzone01:

I am a young man in my late 20s, who struggled to get all I could to be a man and promised never to hurt my wife in no form.
I dated wife for two yrs before marriage. she was a very caring girl friend, loved by every member of my family before and after the marriage.   
TROUBLE:
I left the country to further my studies in America while my wife was pregnant for me but she lost it while I was in the state after four months trying
to get her to join me. I tried harder for her visa because of her situation and always come back after each exams to see her.
She eventually got the entry visa to join me. Meanwhile the last visit was 10 months before she joined me as we were sure she would be joining soon but
due to some delays at the embassy. All along I was giving her the same salary monthly like in her office.
SURPRISE:
My wife was already over 5months pregant when she joined me. I never noticed this but got to know after two months with me (making it seven months) when we
visited a doctor for a pregnancy test. The scan revealed its 30 weeks (seven and half months)old. This means she got pregnant for someone else within the that
period we were apart.  I didn't do anything in the hospital but got home to discuss the meaning of the period and its implications.
She denied all this that she doesn't understand but later confessed it was a night party with her friends from the office that made her have sex with a guy
she met at the party. she got to realise she was pregnant only when she was coming to join me. All the was slap her twice and realised it wont solve
solve the problem. I walked out of the house for some hours and when I came back I found a letter which
Read's Dear boyzone, I deeply regret my action and will like you to find a place in your hearth to forgive me. You have done nothing to deserve this.
May God provide you a good wife that will not bring shame to you and her family
I quickly called her and she came back to the house later. I asked where she was heading as she doesn't know anyone here and she said she wanted to kill her self
and at this point she already took some drugs with spirits to terminate the pregnancy and also kill herself if possible. In minutes she started feeling the pains in
her stomach  from the effect of the drugs. I took her to the hospital again and was quickly treated and told to be admitted.

ADVICE:
Your advise is urgently needed. Feel free to advise me if I'm wrong at any point as well.

madam L:



YOU ARE TRULY NOT A GIRL.First pregnancies could be concealed forever. Some of the time, they start showing shortly before delivery.

texazzpete:

I have seen tons of pregnant ladies at 5 - 7 months, and there's no way in hell you can conceal a 5 month pregnancy from an intimate eye. Use your head for God's sake, she's supposed to be his wife and will definitely spend enough time naked with him. How do you conceal that?

Pregnancy showing just before delivery? You do know how big a baby is, don't you? Just asking.

Cock and bull story, really amusing seeing all you folks helpfully offering advice. Nigerians LOVE to offer advice

texazzpete:

I have seen tons of pregnant ladies at 5 - 7 months, and there's no way in hell you can conceal a 5 month pregnancy from an intimate eye. Use your head for God's sake, she's supposed to be his wife and will definitely spend enough time naked with him. How do you conceal that?

Pregnancy showing just before delivery? You do know how big a baby is, don't you? Just asking.

Cock and bull story, really amusing seeing all you folks helpfully offering advice. Nigerians LOVE to offer advice 

chiozor:

@poster, can you note the difference between the response of female and male in this NL,
I bet you if you are in her shoe, she will not blink an eye to jilt you off.
my advise:
calm down and cool her down. pet her, support her. i had preg woman needs good f.uck, f.uck hell out her if not using your d.ck and style to terminate the bastard, maintain good relationship. tell her that you people will go home to meet your parents, that you were invited, buy one ticket for her and return ticket for urself. then when u people MMA in Lagos, tell her to wait her while you get a taxi, you knw she is heavy and will like to stay a place, then leave her there and use the next flight to come and continue your life.
forget emotion, later years this will cause whala for you i tell you
bye

newbride:
Please i beg you think of the child in her as yours. Even if you want to throw her out please give her where to rest her head till and after the child is born. please for the childs sake help her and let her be comfortable and if after a year or 2 you still can't get over it then let her leave

No one is prone to such mistakes in this life. Life is too short. Yes she made a mistake. Let he who has never cheated on her partner on this site cast the first stone at her and lets see how many people will be left.


Everyone has skeleton in their closet. Please forgive her i wont say forget yet cos it will take time but yuo'll defintely forget soon. Plus you don't knwo what this child might become in future

THE AMAKA:

okay this may be a "little" off topic, but why do some posters post threads asking for advice but never log back into to see the the advice being given or said.
or maybe its a person that already is on NL and just made that account, as not to post from the account that everyone already knows them from.
so they made that one, posted the topic, then logged back into their former one to see the replies.
it makes sense.

but if thats not the case, WHERE IS THE POSTER TO HEAR HIS ADVICE!
why do some people like to post and run away?

THE AMAKA:

okay this may be a "little" off topic, but why do some posters post threads asking for advice but never log back into to see the the advice being given or said.
or maybe its a person that already is on NL and just made that account, as not to post from the account that everyone already knows them from.
so they made that one, posted the topic, then logged back into their former one to see the replies.
it makes sense.

but if thats not the case, WHERE IS THE POSTER TO HEAR HIS ADVICE!
why do some people like to post and run away?

PurestBoy:

Pls deceive her and put her in a plane back home, she's a bitch and not good for u