WomanOfRace:


I'm sure the part I said " be yourself, be good and go about your business'' covers everything. That's the only extra mile i can go....anything else, I will be faking it.

NigeriaKitchen:

NigeriaKitchen:

Life na wa and this op might be an olosho frequenter , forming relationship guru when him dey single

Toks2008:


Ironically, this is not about men in general but marriage ready mature guys because this set of guys don't reason like other guys in general and even the randy ones among them still think about settling down but the problem is that they have not seen that lady that is good enough to make them take that bold step.

vicky85:
Please who is a man on Nairaland..... Lol.... Financial ko, Independence Day ni..... When you meet the man who loves you, if you are not a good cook, he will not let you go for one minute.... If All these qualities are the main thing, then, we will not have Singles in churches again... All Nigerian men are 419, if you are Adenugas daughter, they will propose to you second day they met u. THERE IS NO STANDARD FOR FINDING A WIFE IN NIGERIA OR ANYWHERE.... If you are an independent lady, you are homely, you are God fearing... Please, Zero your mind to to impress any man, cos, if you are nobody, they will not marry you... Hello World... www.justpyenews.com

pweetychyka:


hahahahaha see u... if u didn't cry wen mum gave birth to u, she wouldn't have taken u home
and moreso, cry no dey kill man pikin

Omotayor123:
If a man wants to be with you, Even If you don't lift a Finger, He will never let go.

But If he doesn't, If you look cook all the food in the world, buy all the gift and do unimaginable things, He still wouldn't propose.

Same goes with Women.

Abeg no disturb yourself, trying to force/lure a man to propose.

royalemperors:

lol, see you!

How is your day going?

pweetychyka:

very well thank u...

royalemperors:

Good to know.
Let's chat on whatsapp, I have stopped using Bbm.

pweetychyka:

I currently don't do whatsapp

chumakk:
I didn't read. You said marriage is scam so why should we try to marry again

MVLOX:
True.... Afta more than 27 years of staying on my own and running from babes wahala, I finally surrendered to the most special babe in my life(she comes afta my late mum cha) having known her for like 14 years I had no choice but to fall for her afta seeing all the 5 qualities mentioned above and more self.... God willing the deal will sealed in the coming year... Expect my prewedding photos....''Wink''

zolapeperenpe:

Abeg,make i queue behind you.

Kentrasso:
i do wonder sometimes.... what made men look out for.
sometimes you're worried that they may think you're after their success and you want to withdraw. at the same time they seem interesting and you want to stay in touch. Do successful guys assume things about people? how do they know if a lady is real or a gold digger?

Missmossy:
Makes some sense, some of the point aren't valid though. Marriage goes far deeper than these. Some married men have wives who possess all these qualities yet they cheat on them every now and then.

chloe9191:
Interesting topic! You end up the same case as I did. LOL Let's me tell you my story. We've been in a serious relationship (and also living together) for 7 years. We've spoken about marriage and both want to, but he still hasn't done it. We've spoken about our future including children and where we'd live. I'm tired of waiting and have told him this before. It's been two years since I've said I'm tired of waiting. He still hasn't popped the question and I'm sick of waiting! What do I do from here Should I make him move out until he pops the question? I don't want to be the one to pop the question. EVERYONE including his own family has been asking for years when we are going to finally get married, including his father (who is a tough pill to swallow). He knows to ask my grandfather, take my best friend and mother to help pick out a ring, knows what kind of ring I want, etc. We've even planned a hypothetical wedding. What the hell is he waiting on? I have tried: Dropping hints, telling him, planning hypothetical wedding, 3 month separation. I think it was caused by: Absolutely no clue. He says he wants to.

In his defense, some guys just do not get the whole proposal/marriage thing. He said he wants to marry you so bypass and ring shopping and just begin wedding plans. You want to get married then you might have to literally plan it all and he will show up. Now I have a ring but never got a big proposal. Instead, my husband bought the ring and basically handed it to me and said let's get married. Then I planned the entire wedding with the only input from him being what time does he need to show up. This is not because he did not want to marry me but rather it is just not his thing to be focused on planning events.

Set a date, book a hall with a deposit and let him know. Maybe he is stalling because he thinks he can't financially afford marriage or a ring but tell him that you just want to be married to him no matter what. Start with small wedding plans and gauge his reaction. You might be surprised that all along he just needed a bigger nudge from you in the right direction. This might mean that you go pick out the rings together and there is less fanfare in a proposal but if you really love him then you will accept those challenges and look at the brighter future with him.

Omotayor123:

No point missed..

I am talking about men Generally.!

Theyveedo:
This man again

Toks2008:
There are basically 5 things any responsible mature unmarried man wants in a wife and they are

1.A woman that is sexually pleasing to his eyes.
2.An excellent cook
3.A GOD fearing lady.
4.A very romantic lady.
5.A financially independent lady.

Toks2008:


Wish you well bro...but remember to tolerate her imperfections.

vicky85:
Please, Zero your mind to to impress any man, cos, if you are nobody, they will not marry you... Hello World... www.justpyenews.com

danwilliams4u:
wat type of shit is nairaland turning into; everybody is now turning to a luv doctor.

Toks2008:


Please I beg you...leave cheating out of this...a man could still cheat on you even if you are a hot billionaire with an angelic face and virtue ...strange but true.

A man could die if you leave him yet could cheat on you...it's a mystery you should not bother unraveling

Missmossy:

Lol... It is well.