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11 Things You Should Never Do For Your Lover by sauta(m): 9:47pm On Nov 25, 2016
We understand quite well that men would do anything possible, go the extra mile to please and satisfy any woman they are interested in. However, most times men act so childish to go about this interest.

It is not bad to please a woman but over doing it makes one st*pid. As a man, you must be smart enough to read in between the lines to know what’s favourable and what’s not.

We are not saying you shouldn’t be romantic, it is a good thing to be romantic but not to the detriment of yourself and you should know that just because something might be done in the name of love does not make it the right thing to do and these are the few you should try as much as possible to avoid or never be tempted to do for a woman, regardless.

1. Commit a crime for her: Obviously, we all know where this will end you and by the time you will be back, someone might have taken your place. Never allow anything to push you to steal in order to please your woman because if she later finds out you actually stole a gift for her, she might drop you, unless of course, you are in it together like Bonny and Clyde.

2. Go out of your way to provide for her: No one is asking you not to please your woman, but doing it to the extreme is what you should avoid. Some men put themselves under unnecessary pressure because they want to see to the basic needs of their partners. Some men pay their women’s school fees and do everything they could for them. It is pathetic to know that some of these women still walk away after the men must have invested in them. This is really not fair; in order not to nurse a feeling of rejection, it would be best to do things out of the goodness of your heart and not because you want to please her.

3. Give up your dreams for her: It is no longer love when you decide to give up your dreams and aspirations because of a woman. You should not stop living because you have found love. While you are in love, there should be a synergy between the two of you; you should have similar life goals and objectives in order to have the best out of that relationship. There have been cases where men lack the will to live because the women they built their lives around left. Do not make silly life choices because you are in love.




4. Buy her a house/ car when you don’t have one: Common sense should tell you, you should build your dreams together but not favour her and think of yours later. Building a house or buying a car for a woman when you don’t have one yourself can make you is wrong in every way. When she finally jilts you and lives in it with another man. There are many men still biting their fingers over this.

5. Fight another man because of her: Fighting because of her doesn’t prove anything. Two things are likely to happen, either the person beats you to a pulp and end up in the hospital or you will beat the person and end up in jail, either way, you don’t win. Unless it is for self-defence.

6. Reject your family because of her: A family is everything and no matter what, you can’t reject them because your woman doesn’t like them. It will be very dangerous on your part to reject your family all because of a woman.

7. Change your appearance: These days, men take pills or hit the gym all because of a woman. You should not do all that because of a woman. She may have your best interest at heart, but you should only improve your appearance because you want to.

8. Being over-submissive: It is nice to be sweet to your woman but always learn to set the records straight and don’t try to always appear weak to her and succ*mb to all her wishes in the interest of pleasing her. Truth is, women actually hate weak men and will prefer you’re sweet and sour.

9. Starve yourself for her: Never forfeit your food for her, at least you can share but to give all to her and go hungry, that’s not love, that’s st*pidity.

10. Die for her, literally: So many men have committed suicide because of a woman. What’s the sense in it when you’re finally dead and gone. Live to fight another day.

11. Yeah! I will leave this place for you guys to add yours. If you have any thing a man should never do for a woman, kindly drop it in the comment box below…

Re: 11 Things You Should Never Do For Your Lover by DaddySLY(m): 9:49pm On Nov 25, 2016
op..if say u dey here... i for give u one bottle grin
Re: 11 Things You Should Never Do For Your Lover by herzernIsHere: 9:50pm On Nov 25, 2016
Re-cycled undecided....

Read this same article on Romance section....two months back.....
Re: 11 Things You Should Never Do For Your Lover by dingbang(m): 9:50pm On Nov 25, 2016
OK.
Re: 11 Things You Should Never Do For Your Lover by ObioratheBully: 9:51pm On Nov 25, 2016
The realest nigga wrote this..



What is truth if not this?
Re: 11 Things You Should Never Do For Your Lover by elskillful: 9:53pm On Nov 25, 2016
Only a sex addict will do those stuffs.





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Re: 11 Things You Should Never Do For Your Lover by ever811(m): 9:58pm On Nov 25, 2016
despite this warning...... some guys will be....

Re: 11 Things You Should Never Do For Your Lover by 9niceguy(m): 10:13pm On Nov 25, 2016
I agree with all but number 9 though

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