ikp120:
Never spend on a girlfriend until she spends on you.

Never really fall in love until she is dead in love with you, but act as if you're dead in love with her.

Delete her phone number once she begins to really misbehave.

Treat her the way she treats you.

Never date a lady who tells you not to access her phone but you can lick her pussy.

Never build your life around her because no lady is worth it except your momma.

vivaciousvivi:
1. A cute face could hide a dark heart
2. When you pray and you have a conscience, learn to listen to your own advice
3. Never trust a Yoruba guy they are truly #YorubaDemons
4. Regardless of circumstances, always try to have closure so you move on

Diplomaticbeing:


Come on! Such philosophy cannot take you anywhere. Only conceited people holds such a whack principle, because they are always full of shenanigans themselves.

Embrace altruism and conscientiousness. . . Giving in your best without greed and dominance, and being a realist at the same time without allowing a bullshit under any sentimental guise. Just imagine the feeling of walking out from a meaningless relationship happily, all because you know within yourself that you gave all your best but didn't lose anything yet.

MrMarvelous:

As chairperson of right ladies that you are now. Clap for yourself.

A personal car is not a must, but a personal house is even the first thing to get. If things get heated, where are you gonna do the do? Your friends crib?

Masikay:


Why don't you take your own advice and work with your brains? Do you have any idea why I think some guys are stupid? No. No you don't.

damesilver:
Put God first before everything else.

Give up unreasonable expectation.

Be the first to do the right thing. Do not wait for the other person.

Trust in the power of intuition.

Love your partner as you love yourself.

Respect them as you would love to be respected.

Do not do anything that will later oppress them.

Do not let familiarity breeds contempt. Refuse the temptation to take your partner less than esteemed.

Always act in such a way as you would meet a new person for the first time.

Do not cloud the sense of individuality. Enhance the sense of separateness no matter how close.

Let the word of God be your priority, your guide, source of strength, and your ultimate standard of living.

Do not see your bodies only as an object to be marshalled for the purpose of sensual gratification.

The physical body must be equally respected like the soul, it must be seen as something inviolable and not to be lustfully exposed in order to entice.

It is a temple of a higher power. Keep it pure.

Be humble; be teachable and be willing to learn.

Always remember that whatever you sow you must reap. What you do for your neighbor you do in reality only for yourselves.

sisipelebe:
Never to put all my eggs in one basket.

doll912:


You didn't learn anything. No woman is worth it?? Your dad felt your mum is worth it or maybe not(cos I don't know the circumstances in your family). Oh and those little sisters of yours ain't worth it too. You sound like a teenager tho.

aragon4realz:

seems like we are on the same predicament lol,my girl is hot as hell,but she is too dull don't even know how to bleep,she doesn't even engage on conversation,she doesn't even know how to apologize that worst part of it

Yewandequeen:
I learnt to never love a guy than what he shows and also to never be too committed.

Men ain't to be trusted.

like me .

Akuneshiobike:
U nailed it just at the rightful spot...u too much bro.

Eberex:
What can i say? I once dated a girl and even proposed to her. She accepted but after two weeks she called to say she cannot accept it. Reasons best known to her. I collected my ring back. But remained friends, since i aint the type who let such issues disturb my peace.

Fast forward to three years. She is back in the picture, but i'm already in a serious relationship. And to worsen it, she is a friend to my girl on facebook and yet she still comes and hang around me.

Meanwhile the devil in me is telling me to have my own pound of flesh. Pretend to accept her back and dump her too. This was a girl i loved, and even did almost everything to make her happy and comfortable.

Eberex:
What can i say? I once dated a girl and even proposed to her. She accepted but after two weeks she called to say she cannot accept it. Reasons best known to her. I collected my ring back. But remained friends, since i aint the type who let such issues disturb my peace.

Fast forward to three years. She is back in the picture, but i'm already in a serious relationship. And to worsen it, she is a friend to my girl on facebook and yet she still comes and hang around me.

Meanwhile the devil in me is telling me to have my own pound of flesh. Pretend to accept her back and dump her too. This was a girl i loved, and even did almost everything to make her happy and comfortable.

AngelsAndStars:
Gbam.. I met one in illorin where I went to do some projects. spent on her just for fun sha, cos we met co incidentally in a hotel where I go chill out after work

came to Lagos, months later she was asking me for money that she needs it, that she used her transport fair to buy wedding cloth. WTFK

after posting her she was still calling me, on one faithful day I was around Alaba international and no access to site for my work I was angry and almost frustrated drinking my 4bottle of star

the idiot called me. see as I vex. called her told her I have the money but I can't give her, I told her it will be stupid of me to give her the money. b!cth.... and she had a bf(i even doubt)

awon werey

Masikay:


Why don't you take your own advice and work with your brains? Do you have any idea why I think some guys are stupid? No. No you don't.

firstking01:
COMPATIBILITY..this is just all you need for a long lasting relationship or marriage...ok, just imagine your spouse liking everything you like, your fantasies is her fantasies...you have a high body count, she too has a high body count...you love pounded yam, she loves pounded yam...you love to pray, she loves to pray too...where disagreement and quarrel wan from come??..


I usually counsel people to marry because they have similar traits and believe both in religion and other aspects of life with their supposed spouse or fiancy...don't just marry because you have feelings for that person cos feelings or love will fade away with time.

yemsai:
U af vex ganni o..lol

stubbornman:
Never go on a long distance relationship with an Olosho

Delete her no. Immediately and block her on all social media

Nobody bleeps a girl better ,So when its your turn to fvck remove sentiment and bleep her like a devil

Sometimes take the pain and go tru her phone with your right hand and a LIFE SUPPORT on your left hand

Never let a girl weigh you down, move on before she does!!

God punish my Ex

Majesticniyi:




Lol. It was o. My current babe still get scared when she hears the name Lizzy (my ex) though she knows I have nothing to do with her again....the connection we had was just too strong. We connected on all levels since we think alike as engineers. Truth be told tho, the clash between what Igbos count as respect and what Yorubas count as respect is just too wide. it caused major issues. Yoruba mums and Igbo dads ehn....

As per the career thingy, she's even more obsessed with her career in engineering than I am. We just won't have worked if we got married. She's a Petroleum engineer while I'm a mechanical engineer...both usually deal with being away from Ur family a lot or shift based. Difficult choice to make but we had to make it for out children. What more?

GentlemanUnltd:

And who are you to question me?
The thread topic didn't say we should question one another.

madjune:

You sounded so opinionated and thus misleading the impressionable.
That's why I questioned you, dear.

AngelsAndStars:
Gbam.. I met one in illorin where I went to do some projects. spent on her just for fun sha, cos we met co incidentally in a hotel where I go chill out after work

came to Lagos, months later she was asking me for money that she needs it, that she used her transport fair to buy wedding cloth. WTFK

after posting her she was still calling me, on one faithful day I was around Alaba international and no access to site for my work I was angry and almost frustrated drinking my 4bottle of star

the idiot called me. see as I vex. called her told her I have the money but I can't give her, I told her it will be stupid of me to give her the money. b!cth.... and she had a bf(i even doubt)

awon werey

Preetiex:
In Love think with ur head & not ur heart.99% of men are cheats

butanep:


That is how most of them are... they just see you today and find a financial burden to put on your shoulder when they don't even know how you like your life.

I once meet a lady sometimes last month in a wedding reception. Average looking tall lady. I went to meet her and chatted for few minutes before we exchanged contact. I took her so high with charisma. On the monday of it, we were just chatting and I asked hope you have eaten? She said no that she has no gas in her cooker. Then I asked her go get gas or use a stove, she said she has no money. That she has been looking for money to refill the gas since morning. I just pretended I didn't hear her... We haven't even meet for a date oooo. The next day she demanded money for subscription that her data is almost exhausted. I never told her my financial background when we first meet ooo whether I am rich or an average guy. She just see me and for her mind I don catch mugu.

Three days later she told me to borrow her 15k to do her hair. I was like Wtfk. I was so annoyed. Immediately I told her I don't have she cut the calls. From that day my respect for her fall to -1. I now saw her like a cheap woman so I cancelled any formal date in my mind. I deleted her no and block her on my whatsapp. She then called to know why I did such...I told her never to call my line again.

Woman should try to respect themselves sometimes. Not a crime to beg but know the person first.