Bhuldoxxa:
Oh my gosh! Reading all these comments here is making me to believe that all the pre- wedding photographs #that has got people talking# are all publicity stunts.
As for me, I learned that you shouldn't use logic while dating a lady because it will definitely backfire!

'For God is not mocked, whatsoever a man soweth that shall he also reap'. The pictures are not stunts. What you do to people, expect same to be done to you. The Bible says if the foundation be destroyed, what shall the righteous do? Also, what you expect from life is what you see. People do get married everyday and some of us are in beautiful relationships that work. Not because we are perfect or those we are with are perfect but because we put God first in our lives. I am in no way a saint but when someone goes into a relationship fully expecting his partner to be unfaithful, he would start seeing unfaithfulness even when there is none. Someone here said he has slept with over 200 girls and yet he can stand to accuse girls of cheating.


Anyways, back to the topic. One thing I learnt from my ex is that love is just not enough to build a relationship on. We tried making it work thinking love would make up for our incompatibles but we discovered those issues would always come back to haunt us. Number one of such issues was the unwillingness of both families to accept the inter-tribal marriage. Add that to we both having similar career paths as engineers (our children would just lack parental attention ).

ststyreal:

Abeg forget that guy. How can he enjoy a stable relationship when he has 22 female spirit in him. Huhhhh! Some people are so much playing with their destiny!

Why are you pained or you re among the 22 spirits?

eleburu:
I don't believe that

why? can you give your reason?

GentlemanUnltd:

Would have called you a THING but just had to forgive you for been pretty.

didn't insult u bro.
and u have no reason whatnot to insult me

7Alexander:

Sure, no one is perfect. But my partner is something else. Don't get me wrong, she is beautiful, homely, educated, and all those stuffs. But she's very inept, you know like socially unaware. She's only book smart, apart from that she knows nothing around her, heck, she doesn't even know the name of the vice president.
Personally, I hate small talks, I prefer intellectual and deep conversations, but she hardly makes any meaningful input

High IQ usually comes with low EQ. is she an engineer and below 20? She's my dream.

sekxy:

didn't insult u bro.
and u have no reason whatnot to insult me

I guess you know the dictionary definition of the word "insult" because I can't phantom a word in my post where I insulted you.

buharimustlive:


Why nonsense?. He just stated the obvious.

My boss in the office She is a perfect example of number 5.

and that gave u every reason to generalize .
u guys should be mindful of how u insult ladies on this forum. guess y'all have sisters and cousins

dingbang:
Never settle for a no sex rship

See ya life outside there

GentlemanUnltd:

I guess you know the dictionary definition of the word "insult" because I can't phantom a word in my post where I insulted you.

good morning to u and have a lovely day
byee

GentlemanUnltd:

22, that's the ones I had serious relationship with. You want to know the number of diff pussies I have digged, it currently stands and 119, and the good thing here is that I don't patronise call girls.

Is anything bad?

You are a living legend. I'm 24yrs old and I have digged 56 pussies. I hope to match or beat your record before I turn 30

walexsho:


See ya life outside there

abegi

women are no nice no loyal

Unbeliever:

You are a living legend. I'm 24yrs old and I have digged 56 pussies. I hope to match or beat your record before I turn 30

Hahahahaahaha, I am older than you bro but not upto 30, near 30 though and king Solomon record is my sight.

sekxy:

good morning to u and have a lovely day
byee

You re beautiful, love your eyes!

If your arrival don't make them happy,Their departure shouldn't make you sad. Anyone who treats you like an ordinary fan dosent deserve a treatment of a superstar.
Respect everyone but never ever forget that you are equally important. You may not be in control of what people give to you but you must be in total control of what to take from them. If you take everything,people give you anything. Anything you acquire through begging will always require begging to maintain.....

GentlemanUnltd:
You re beautiful, love your eyes!

thank u

tonawest:
I learnt how to love though it was agony of love. I also learn that in a relationship u hv to tolerate, let go, forgive, understanding and hold tight what u hv and fight for ur love.

So love are not worth fighting for. .. Best thing is dat just let go it..
Like my own case.. .
This lady, we av planned how everything will going to be... So later both of us went for service... After 3 o 4 day dey posted her to her ppa.. She invited a guy to her plc....
Since then I can't trust any woman

sekxy:
thank u

Stop acting mean babe, it won't do any good to your beauty, only smile would.

GentlemanUnltd:

Stop acting mean babe, it won't do any good to your beauty, only smile would.

lol.ok sir!!!

sekxy:
lol.ok sir!!!

Lol, good to know that you can smile even at me. Should we derail this thread, I guess you know what I mean? *wink*

Never trust any lady no matter how much you think she loves you.
When she starts exhibiting some questionable characters, just be ready to dump her b4 she'll dump ur sorry ass and walk away without looking back.
Never love with all ur heart, always leave some space for the unimaginable that could occur anytime.

7Alexander:

Sure, no one is perfect. But my partner is something else. Don't get me wrong, she is beautiful, homely, educated, and all those stuffs. But she's very inept, you know like socially unaware. She's only book smart, apart from that she knows nothing around her, heck, she doesn't even know the name of the vice president.
Personally, I hate small talks, I prefer intellectual and deep conversations, but she hardly makes any meaningful input

Finally, so I'm not the only that has and is experiencing this, most of them are just unaware of things going on in other spheres.

ItsQuinn:
Never date a Yoruba man EVER!

Or never marry one

Hahahaha Yoruba omo olokun esin. U don hear am from my ppl. Pele. Cheating is in us

Dexema:

Finally, so I'm not the only that has and is experiencing this, most of them are just unaware of things going on in other spheres.

Na book u dey date broz

firstking01:
Date with an open mind...

Expect heartbreak at anytime..

Don't be too clingy and expectant...

If the both of you know for sure you won't marry, then keep your options open..

Even when the going seems you guys are gonna marry, still keep your options open until you see yourself on the alter with him/her.

Never date because you love the person...love ain't just enough...

And the list of what i learnt in my last and other relationship is endless...

Love aint just enough? Could you kindly highlight other things that can help?

ikp120:
Never spend on a girlfriend until she spends on you.

Never really fall in love until she is dead in love with you, but act as if you're dead in love with her.

Delete her phone number once she begins to really misbehave.

Treat her the way she treats you.

Never date a lady who tells you not to access her phone but you can lick her pussy.

Never build your life around her because no lady is worth it except your momma.

word!....never build your life around a woman....

Lemme just read comments

MrMarvelous:
Don't go into a relationship without at least a personal house, a steady source of income, and a car. I learnt all this the hard way. Forget what feminists are saying, when push comes to shove...they'd dump your ass for the guy with the whip and the crib. Believe that.

I disagree. It seems you have not met right ladies. A steady source of income sounds good, but your personal car and house is not a must.

Diplomaticbeing:


Come on! Such philosophy cannot take you anywhere. Only conceited people holds such a whack principle, because they are always full of shenanigans themselves.

Embrace altruism and conscientiousness. . . Giving in your best without greed and dominance, and being a realist at the same time without allowing a bullshit under any sentimental guise. Just imagine the feeling of walking out from a meaningless relationship happily, all because you know within yourself that you gave all your best but didn't lose anything yet.

thank you, but I just aired my view. we are all different and equally see things differently.

Omonigeriarere:


I disagree. It seems you have not met right ladies. A steady source of income sounds good, but your personal car and house is not a must.

As chairperson of right ladies that you are now. Clap for yourself.

A personal car is not a must, but a personal house is even the first thing to get. If things get heated, where are you gonna do the do? Your friends crib?

Interesting comments. The lessons are quite enough. As for the guys, sorry for the hurts, likellwise the ladies. We've all had our share of hurts and pains
It has made us stronger, better, wiser and more independent. Life goes on. If it didn't work out. then it wasn't meant to
Stop fighting it. I rest my case.

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