Let me be brief and precise. She's a varsity student and I'm a business guy, we're both not in the same state currently and its been 2 years we saw each other, though we've been together for 3 years before I left for business. Point is, she acts like she doesn't care, doesn't call, no text, hardly chats, but each time I come up with getting tired of the relationship, she sounds too emotional and begs me.

Though I'm travelling down to spend the xmas with her, I told her we'll talk about it. But I really want to break up with her cos I hate emotional stress, whilst same time I'm afraid of how she's gonna feel when I tell her point black that I'm tired.

Please guys, how am I gonna do this without making her feel so terrible?
Mature advice please.

Fp lalasticlala please

Just tell her to her face that you are tired... She is probably seeing someone else, but still wants to keep you for personal benefits... (eating her cake and having it)

Moreover, if she were in a position to end the relationship, she would do it without thinking twice.

Go ahead and BREAK UP!!!

She have kept u because of some gains, probably financial. Someone is it eating from the same pot of soup, so wiseup, don't allow her to keep emotionally blackmailing u.

give me her number

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U are asking us how to break up wif her?...

Like we were there when u wooed her...abeg break up with her same way u wooed her...

Simple thing..... Just break a cup in front of her.

You should be man enough to look her in the face and say, "look here, I'm tired of this goddamn relationship: it's over!".

She's obviously seeing some other guy.

KissChrix:
Saving My advice... This story is made up


You just want to hit fp

Not made up sir, and fp is not gonna credit me some currency. I just need a wider view of advice to my situation

krissconnect:
Let me be brief and precise. She's a varsity student and I'm a business guy, we're both not in the same state currently and its been 2 years we saw each other, though we've been together for 3 years before I left for business. Point is, she acts like she doesn't care, doesn't call, no text, hardly chats, but each time I come up with getting tired of the relationship, she sounds too emotional and begs me.

Though I'm travelling down to spend the xmas with her, I told her we'll talk about it. But I really want to break up with her cos I hate emotional stress, whilst same time I'm afraid of how she's gonna feel when I tell her point black that I'm tired.

Please guys, how am I gonna do this without making her feel so terrible?
Mature advice please.

Fp lalasticlala please

Your emotions should be paramount to you first before her own...or maybe she's using you for a rebound, inshort i hate anything long distance relationship, i 'll urge you to break up...wait first, did you say she's in the varsity??...kai, guys una dey take risk sha, abeg, break up with her...how can you be somewhere hustling your ass out and one God4saking girl will be fvcking another guy with the money you sent her?...chai, and i been dey think say you be prominent romancelander that should be giving out such advice as this and not you falling victim...you fall hands mehhh.

refiner:
U are asking us how to break up wif her?...

Like we were there when u wooed her...abeg break up with her same way u wooed her...

I'm waiting for you there

firstking01:
Your emotions should be paramount to you first before her own...or maybe she's using you for a rebound, inshort i hate anything long distance relationship, i 'll urge you to break up...wait first, did you say she's in the varsity??...kai, guys una dey take risk sha, abeg, break up with her...how can you be somewhere hustling your ass out and one God4saking girl will be fvcking another guy with the money you sent her?...chai, and i been dey think say you be prominent romancelander that should be giving out such advice as this and not you falling victim...you hands mehhh.

My bad bro,bt truth is wen I met her,we wia in same town,we wia togeda for almost 3yrs,dats wen I fell inlove wit her n we started datin,until I left state for business deals. My bad I used to be a fvckboy,my bad.