I have invested in several businesses both off-line and online(financial investments). Because as a young man, though I'm financially free, I still have to be financially secured, hence the decision to diversify my business(investments). Due to the fact that most of my financial investments have yet to reach their maturities, and most of my off-line businesses are still at fledgling level(stage), Am mostly mindful of my spending; though, I still collect allowances from my academy as a cadet.

I'm dating this very girl that I love so much. I have been spending on her(at least, N10000 to N15000 monthly on the average).

Just yesterday, she called me in the evening and requested for shopping money for Xmas(yuletide). I asked her to wait till this morning(19th, Dec) which she obliged.

As early as 6.30am today(19th, Dec) , she called to demand for money, so she could buy some stuffs in preparation for the impending Xmas. I agreed to send her some money through mobile banking.

After a pause, she asked how much I was intending to send. I told her, “N20k.” The mention of the N20k provoked a scream from her; infact, she condemned me for insisting on sending her that amount(N20K).

What do I do for I don't want to loose her to other guys? Is N20k too small for ones girlfriend?

Dump her.

Men should stop this habit of spoiling women with money,as this is making a lot of our girls not just totally lazy,but also 100% dependant on men.

I have no respect for a ragging lady.

Dump that girl,and I repeat,look for a decent working class lady to date.

You are not helping yourself by dating anybody that will put their responsibilities on your head. Then after spending everything on her,she usually gets married to someone else.

If men can follow this simple rules of dating life will be sweet.

Female Student dates Male student=Compartable.
Female worker dates a Male worker=Compartable.

Anything aside what you see on top,is bringing un-needed load and stress to yourself.

Dump her.

Bro she is cheating on u and u are still asking stupid kweshion... Isnt it clear that people are giving her much more money than you are doing?


Phew guys sef

My guy you should have checked her right away by telling her not to put her fathers responsibilities on you. Tell her she's a Young girl and she needs to ask her father for xmas shopping moneym What you budget for her is 20k and she needs to find away to make it work( do not say manage it) tell her to make the money work.

Seriously, a girl who does this to you during dating will do worse in marriage. I always like it when they expose themselves like this.

She doesn't know how you get the money, so its easy to ask, and even condemn. Let her work for her own.

Bro, there are many women in this world. Don't live a miserable life because of just one.

Pals, I seem very confused. But I appreciate all your advices. Thanks.