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Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by illusion2: 5:05pm On Nov 19, 2009
kokorunna:

Stop fooling yourself, if her test proves negative the second time then she has PLAYED YOU for a mugu
Not necessarily,she could hve gotten it from injections or drips
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by Redfox(m): 5:21pm On Nov 19, 2009
@poster
I am of the opinion that we shouldn't compromise love for anything,not even the most dreaded disease,if the love is real go on and marry her,damn those people that says otherwise,they are yet to face a much stiffer and tight situation and so are to be considered inexperienced and naive.

Consult an expert in HIV/AIDS.I understand that when one is infected it could take quite a long time before the person is tested positive.the length of time(lag) is solely dependent on your body resistance level(protective cells),so i suggest you go to a teaching or specialist hospital for counseling and guidance;do not hesitate.
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by tsmith(f): 5:39pm On Nov 19, 2009
xvv vv
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by greateliso(m): 5:48pm On Nov 19, 2009
Fear not, just keep things going; u'll not regret.
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by Ogaga4Luv(m): 6:12pm On Nov 19, 2009
[size=13pt]greateliso thats a very good advice. . . . . smiley[/size]
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by tithe(m): 10:23pm On Nov 19, 2009
@Poster, is not about u only, but the yr unborn children and the society. Think about this very well before making yr decision.

If u love her some much then don't bring such stigma.

GOD CAN HEAL HER, THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE TO THEM THAT BELIEVE
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by mudiwa(f): 10:34pm On Nov 19, 2009
IF,,,,IF AND I REPEAT IF,,, SHE TURNS OUT NEGATIVE YOU WILL VE ANOTHER ISSUE TO DEAL WITH, ANAEMIA,,,, SHE WILL NEED A BLOOD TRANSFUSION, WITH ALL THIS BLOOD ALL HER VEINS MUST VE COLLAPSED, grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by tiewoh(m): 7:44am On Nov 20, 2009
Guy,it not easy @ all,but seek the face of God,pray go for counsel and think twice b4 any decision pls.okay
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by carnal: 7:58am On Nov 20, 2009
I agree with tsmith completely
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by Libido(m): 10:34am On Nov 20, 2009
This is not true,it is just a made-up scenerio ! If you were able to get your test result in 30 minutes flat,how come you are now(or still)waiting to update us about your fiancee`s result.Some people just make up false thread to allow people to run their mouth,believing that we all dont analyse what we read(some dont). angry
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by Jenke: 11:53am On Nov 20, 2009
Honestly, if u marry her she will know u outrightly did that for love and that respect will forever be there,cos people who will do that for their fiancee are very few.
com to think of it,HIV positive patience still leaves a normal life with the prescribed drugs.
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by sleak(m): 1:36pm On Nov 20, 2009
Libido:

This is not true,it is just a made-up scenerio ! If you were able to get your test result in 30 minutes flat,how come you are now(or still)waiting to update us about your fiancee`s result.Some people just make up false thread to allow people to run their mouth,believing that we all dont analyse what we read(some dont). angry
there are different types of screening methods available.some are almost instant(rapid)while others take much longer time for determination.
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by igelle: 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2009
its wao! jst bear in mind dat if she wer in ur shoes,she would cover 4 u n not cum 2 n/l to ask pple's opinion, n/landers (some), can kill wit their opinions n comments, so folo ur hat n ask d holy spirit 2 give u directions, god bless.
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by osaki(m): 3:45pm On Nov 20, 2009
guy! if that gal test positive again then be very sure u might have it , just have to go for test again 2 to 3 months tym after,u will understand me beta
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by Radiant(f): 10:06pm On Nov 20, 2009
Is the result out
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by yommys01(m): 4:24am On Nov 21, 2009
POSTER any update?
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by mirababy: 9:49am On Nov 21, 2009
poster,you re sayig what u dont know because u re confuse.ur fiancee is not yet Hiv positive so why re u narrating the poor girl?RUBBISH,
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by nkemjou(f): 4:53am On Nov 22, 2009
ok 1st yhu sed yhu've made up yhur mind
so y d'yhu need our advice??
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by mealone2: 8:38am On Nov 23, 2009
mirababy:

poster,you re sayig what u dont know because u re confuse.your fiancee is not yet Hiv positive so why re u narrating the poor girl?RUBBISH,

Do want me to scan the test result? i could do that if you want.

Radiant:

Is the result out

She is currently involved in fasting and prayers, believing and waiting upon the good Lord for a divine healing.
She insisted she was going to get the second test done after attending our Church yearly revival next month.

osaki:

guy! if that gal test positive again then be very sure u might have it , just have to go for test again 2 to 3 months tym after,u will understand me beta

I thought about that too,
But i have already concluded for the worst, that is why i am here. Soliciting, asking all your advise on how to live happily.
Let our love take us through,
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by Maykelly(f): 10:25am On Nov 23, 2009
Ogaga4Luv, hw dare u talk when am talking? don't ever again commend me! hw dare you fool that said "there is no GOD" Listen " WE DO NOT HAVE ANY ANY ANYTHING IN COMMON Stay OUT my way!
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by dhamie2009(m): 3:04pm On Nov 23, 2009
whatever u decide .omo o lenu bi pon pon pon

Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by donchelsea: 4:35pm On Nov 23, 2009
Hello Dear,
True love counts. I like your courage. But I"do like you and your wife to be to visit pastor Chris Online and the man of God will pray for you.
happy married life in advance.
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by brooklyn99: 9:23pm On Nov 23, 2009
donchelsea, see, people like u r part and parcel of whats wrong with ur damn continent. what will the pastor's prayers bring , huh? false sense of security. everything is prayer. nigga, shrink-wrap ur dick in latex, take another test and stop playing HIV roulette with ur life!!!!!
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by azkinetic: 10:11pm On Nov 24, 2009
ARE YOU A FOOL? IT IS SO CLEAR YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT LOVE TRULY IS. BECAUSE OF LOVE YOU WANT TO ENDANGER YOUR OWN LIFE? THIS IS THE REASON MEN SUFFER TODAY. DUMB AS EVER! DUMB AS ADAM!! GO AHEAD AND GET MARRIED, THEN YOU BOTH DIE TOGETHER! PLEASE SEND ME THE OBITUARY IV IF BEER IS PLENTY. MR. LOVER.
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by stede(m): 5:59am On Nov 25, 2009
interesting
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by wendoworld(m): 9:40am On Nov 25, 2009
Omo all those people wey dey talk say the guy na fool just because em wan go on with d girl no well ooo angry una need to go update una self about the aids teaching b4 una come here they show us say una brain dey under una leg, I wonder hw ppl like una still get d brain to dey operate d computer wey una dey use type rubbish self, Na wa oo

@poster, Nothing again i wan tell u wey others never tell u, But wetin i fit add be say, , Hmmm u see d thing wey love go cos for dis life,even love power no go fit control am. So think wisely b4 u make any decision o
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by Nobody: 9:56am On Dec 02, 2009
Any update yet,
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by selencious(f): 1:29am On Jan 31, 2010
Awwwwww!!!!True love. U sure can go on and marry her if you really love her. But, you sure wouldn't be able to have free sex with each other. U can both adopt kids .Good luck
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by Freiburger(m): 1:44am On Jan 31, 2010
I'll advice to think twice and most especially the the kid that God will bless u later with. don't turn them to a curse.
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by GL(f): 8:00am On Jan 31, 2010
@ poster,

you knew she was HIV positive before you started dating her, yet you went on to have an intimate relationship with her and even got engaged to her. so i guess you must really love her, if she loves you as much as you love her you guys should have a happy marriage. you should not ignore the HIV otherwise you'd be shortening both your lives. face up to it and seek counseling. both of you should join a support group or something like that. it would help to meet with people in your predicament regularly. also, you should redo the test in a few months because people don't test positive for several months after getting infected. the earlier you guys start getting treatment, the better for your marriage.

what about your family? do they know about her HIV status? i hope they wouldn't hate her for it? you should discuss this with your fiancee and she should be prepared for the worst once your family gets to know.
Re: My Fiancee Is Hiv Positive, I Love Her And Still Want To Go On With The Marriage by patbaby4u: 4:00pm On Feb 03, 2010
Her HIV+ status does not make her a women that she is, if you truly love her nothing will stop you from marrying her, if this women is so good to you, loves and respect you what more are looking for. You might decide to leave her and get married to an HIV- women who does'nt respect you. so brother its about time you develop a thick skin and deal with this matter and do not forget to consult with your GOD.

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