Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

Just tell her that u have changed ur mind too.


Someone cannot come and be using me as back up plan, as what?

cjshooter:



ASK GOOGLE

I don ask google
I was wondering if he did something else

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

Bros she's a woman na. Na their way, nothing new. Marry her if she's healthy and can manage a home. Asking for more than these from a woman is unrealistic.

kkash:
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'...

I swear! I was reading the comments and expecting this reply and was shocked notbto see anything of such until yours. Baba, I don' know what to say about the "commentors" and the O.P sef

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

O.P were you guys having sex constantly?

Adeinfo:
if u want to be happy for the rest of your life, reject her on the basis of telling u point blank and also don't be any one option. Learn to show a high self esteem

Spot on

chigoizie7:

Just tell her that u have changed ur mind too.

Someone cannot come and be using me as back up plan, as what?

Hahahaha. True oh. Best advice so far

the best is not to marry her because when u do... all ur life u will work to satisfy her but she won't appricate u.

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

Like seriously ??Àre you really asking ? Hmmm

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

Why would you marry a woman who was f*ucking you when she had another relationship with another man whom she wanted to marry? She was cheating on both of you guys!

After the guy dumped her, she now wants to marry you! Are you even sure she didn't have a third guy?

Don't marry her, she's a cheater! Never marry a woman who said NO to you (because of another man) when you asked her to marry you!

Na woman mess for your mouth

Elshahzad:
"O so simi lenu, o bu suga si"

Translation: The matter mess 4 ma mouth cum add sugar (I no fit swallow mess, I no fit vommit sugar)

Madam. Haba for once be sincere.. ahhh

FortuneTeller:
Although you are her second choice, it does not mean she will not make a good wife. In fact, she may make a better wife because she realizes the error she made in rejecting you. If you still want to marry her, make her work hard for your offer, so she does not take you for granted again.

FortuneTeller:


May you receive sense. I know women who were in such situations and they loved their husband more because of the experience. Don't speak about things based on your thoughts, but speak from life experience.

will you still date a guy and he still treat you as option b?

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

Ask yourself this question... Do you love her Does she make you happy? Her personality??
Dors she met the criteria of wife material

These are the questions you need to ask yourself... For her changing her mind... She might be your mrs right and you might be her might right.. God might have scattered the relationship with the other guy because it wasn't meant to be.

Pray pray pray... Forget about what people would say.. Do what makes you happy.

Cheers!

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I know most will say, forget her, go for someone else. but for me, it's better to marry someone that has weighed her options and settled for you, she will value you more,knowing; she tried and it's not sooo easy out there. Therz no one way to live life.

The truth is such a girl will still be sleeping with the other guy even after OP married her.

Tomorrow nw she go fit. Tell u say,if. Say she marry d man she want. she for no get ur time.lol

Wait, you proposed to her and she refused and also said she was seeing someone else bah? Yet you say both of you continued "dating"?? Meaning she was double-dating?

Now, she's the one indirectly proposing to you because her first man disappointed her and you're asking what to do??

Ayam nor understanding


Op, you know what?



See me in the church tomorrow....








We need to pray special deliverance prayers!!!

Adeinfo:
if u want to be happy for the rest of your life, reject her on the basis of telling u point blank and also don't be any one option. Learn to show a high self esteem

Haba ! This is three much life and time changes, is anything wrong if somebody made a mistake and come back to correct herself ? No matter how far a man or woman has gone wrong,he or she can always go back to correct his or her error .Let us salute the courage of the girl .

Mayydayy:
I was into that kind of relationship sometime last year.her abroad boyfriend was always calling.she has been hoping for years.I really wanted her as a wife.
But.Omoo.at a point I became tired of been a second option.I started searching for my own.I got.am getting married in few months.
The day I called her and broke up with her.she was like.what if he doesn't come back?.and I was like.don't worry he will come.

Apina:
And u are very happy to announce that u are a rebound boyfriend..... If u eventually agree to marry her, don't forget to add the part that u were just an option and nothing more on ur wedding invite

Loool

NL won't kill me with laughter!!!!

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

Actually what you need is a new brain, you mean you've been having an affair with someone's serious babe/fiancee and you're actually 'thinking' of marrying such a skank?

Have u ever seen thieves allow their fellow thieves marry their family members?

Why do u think most sure boix no dey allow their fellow guy marry their sister? Even Tony Montana vex kill him own best friend cos of same ish

You want to knowingly marry an ashawo? A cheat? A double-dater? A liar? A proven actress? A cheerful giver?

Well you've dug your grave, na casket u dey prize so

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

Guy follow ur mind

AgbenuAnna:
have you ever bought something and not like then after a while you just love it?

No. I have not.

AgbenuAnna:
have you ever bought something and not like then after a while you just love it?

No. I have not.

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

i must say she does not no what she wants...she goofs around with two men and this shows she is nymphomaniac ...like most people say follow your heart but if u eventually marry her, be ready for the consequences

FILEBE:



O.P were you guys having sex constantly?

why are u asking op that? pls I will like to hear d answer from you..I am so much interested in hearing ur view to d question

AgbenuAnna:
have you ever bought something and not like then after a while you just love it?

So dude is now an item.

Babzilla:

I don ask google
I was wondering if he did something else

ASK MAFRODI

wahles:
Wt does ur heart tell u + ur head? Follow ur head

abeg, which of the heads are you talking about?

enuk80:


why are u asking op that? pls I will like to hear d answer from you..I am so much interested in hearing ur view to d question

Okay Sir. since you want to hear my view. This guys spoke my mind immediately I read this post.

kkash:
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'....

.

That was why I was asking if they have sex regularly. How can you be comfortable sleeping with a girl you know has another serious guy she sleeps with? Seriously, the guy didn't try. People, guys I know who do this are not always serious with the relationship...they are just in for the sex. but for this guy to love the girl. It is something else.


It will be a different case if she was not sleeping with any of them. how will the guy feel after marriage and later seeing the other guy and he knows he has slept with her several times?


Ladies. It is best you stick to one guy and be wise about it. Seriously, don't be a fool for men.

[quote author=Daytonbale post=52894777]I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help
Bro know try am oo this one go surly go around with other men behind your back after you marry her oo run for your life

Kamoru please interprete this in Yoruba..

"What i see... What i saw"

Kamoru says.....

"Nkan ti mba ri ni ma so"


Forget that Lady.... Obviously you are her second choice... Not priority. If it is happiness you seek in your marriage then do as i have said.

I told her i wanted to do, but she said no, now she want make we do, please help.