kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

your guy does not love you,cos i do not see anything disgusting about that or may be he is just being childish more so if you ask him to give you cunninglingus he would refuse

LMAO.
This brings to mind a parable in my Language( Esan )..."na man when no get work dey shave woman 'thing". ( I wish I could write esan).

Who gets mad at their partner over something so petty? na wa.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

So you've gone to tell everyone in NL what we discussed in the ither room . Ok. I have broken up with you.

I hope you have gotten the likes and attention you want. You want you fiance to shave your toto, meanwhile hand no dey pain you. You no even dey shame...dirty girl.

Meanwhile where is irunobo?

And people dey advise her...

Lol

woledami:


are you married? sorry to ask cause i see all these in another direction.

I'm not married I'm just saying because of the epic ideas that had eaten deep into youths even in the church. The ideology of relationships and all.
Ofcourse she is not in a relationship for marriage but in a relationship sexual pleasure and that goes for millions of our youths out there.
God Help Us

firstking01:
Prolly, that's what she will leave me to believe...love knows no boundaries.

Awwwwwww !

Gawd!

When you think you have read / seen everything on Nairaland! But no!

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

Let him go
I will takeover
I will not only shave that place
I will wash the plate regularly

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

take bloggers seriously at your own peril, especially Nigerian bloggers of nowadays. Most of them concoct topics just to drive traffic to their sites. Your fiance might be on the conservative side and not really like such rough play like that mumu website suggested. You're supposed to have known his character and what he likes/hates by now

Look the way d topic was even being packaged....I thought it was an easy task like massaging her not until I clicked and read it all. Down there ko, up there ni, iranu abasha.....

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

Oh my oh my!! This is very hilarious!

You have every right to be upset. Your fiance is a m*oron and very unenlightened! He probably thought you were somehow lazy to do it by yourself and thought you wanted to use him as a servant! Many Nigerian men have this dumb mentality (as most comments on this thread show)! Some would start claiming religion told them it is a sin! Religion is dumbing down many Nigerians!

The fool didn't know you asked him to do it in order to spice up the sex life in your relationship. This type of guy will NEVER go down on you, he would see it as an abomination! And he's also the type that won't bother if you came during sex. He may not even not know that women can climax.

My woman and I do this shaving thing to each other once in a while as fore*play because it always ends up with us having an explosive sex. It is a very sexy thing to do to each other! We do other things too! Sex is not only about pulling pants down and inserting a dick into a vagina! Explore!

If your so-called fiance can't even shave you for sex, then you have a big problem. Having a partner you're sexually compatible with, is crucial in a relationship. You're someone who likes to explore sexually while the guy is sexually boring as hell. if he's not your type, now is the time to dump his as*s before it is too late. If you marry him, you will end up being sexually unsatisfied in your marriage which may lead to cheating.

You can't afford to be sexually frustrated for the rest of your life with this guy.

Even if u ask me na capital No, n ds shouldn't be a bases of love justification, woman stop reasoning like a girl

weexy68:


Sometimes I wonder if its love we should blame

love is innocent
lets blame selfishness.
Op is obviously less than 20 years old. With wisdom you could have got him to do it but you want to date a robot and found out it is odawiswe. To ask for something you nees mannner of approach. Your tone, voice, pitch, speed and everything is neccessary when good communication is concern. We no go leave hear if i start but next time ask with wisdom and it shall be granted to you.
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"yuh no get hand?" is just a question

Crap!

DrogoG:


Oh my oh my!! This is very hilarious!

You have every right to be upset. Your fiance is a m*oron and very unenlightened! He probably thought you were somehow lazy to do it by yourself and thought you wanted to use him as a servant! Many Nigerian men have this dumb mentality!

The fool didn't know you asked him to do it in order to spice up the sex life in your relationship. This type of guy will NEVER go down on you, he would see it as an abomination! And he's also the type that won't bother if you came during sex. He may not even not know that women can climax.

My woman and I do this shaving thing to each other once in a while as fore*play because it always ends up with us having an explosive sex. It is a very sexy thing to do to each other! We do other things too! Sex is not only about pulling pants down and inserting a dick into a vagina! Explore!

If your so-called fiance can't even shave you for sex, then you have a big problem. Having a partner you're sexually compatible with, is crucial in a relationship. You're someone who likes to explore sexually while the guy is sexually boring. if he's not your type, now is the time to dump his as*s before it is too late. If you marry him, you will end up being sexually unsatisfied in your marriage which may lead to cheating.

You can't afford to be sexually frustrated for the rest of your life with this guy.

yeye.

DrogoG:

if he's not your type, now is the time to dump his as*s before it is too late. If you marry him, you will end up being sexually unsatisfied in your marriage which may lead to cheating.

You can't afford to be sexually frustrated for the rest of your life with this guy.

* Coughs.... Sir, would you like to take over from the BF ?

My wife shaves me and also cut my nails. Infact she doesn't like it when i shave myself.
It have to do with understanding, maybe ur man sees it as being stupid or insane.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

You said it all

Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo
.
.

You said it all

Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo

Sadly, that's how some women reason.

Check out my Short Story titled "Pay Back"
He pulled her up gently, she looked at him and gave a faint smile "I never knew you will bring me pain one day, I have never thought that you will be the reason for my death" she said as she gave up the ghost....

Read Full Story Here
https://www.nairaland.com/3592700/pay-back-short-story

This new age is causing a lot of crop. Did our ancestors ever thought of such. You wan turn able-bodied man to public barber

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truthsayer007:


* Coughs.... Sir, would you like to take over from the BF ?

Next time quote my whole statement and bold mark where you disagree.

It is miserable having a fiance or fiancee who is terribly boring the in bed.

Marrying such a person would be a huge mistake.

crackhouse:
My wife shaves me and also cut my nails. Infact she doesn't like it when i shave myself.
It have to do with understanding, maybe ur man sees it as being stupid or insane.

May you live long. But what if she ask you to shave her and would you.

OP, you owe your Fiance an unreserved apology big time.
He is your lover and not your toy.
You should prepare yourself to get "no" as an answer most of the time. He is a human being and not your puppet.
You better go make up with him and start talking to each other.

I can shave you ...If he cant

I can

DrogoG:


Oh my oh my!! This is very hilarious!

You have every right to be upset. Your fiance is a m*oron and very unenlightened! He probably thought you were somehow lazy to do it by yourself and thought you wanted to use him as a servant! Many Nigerian men have this dumb mentality (as most comments on this thread show)! Some would start claiming religion told them it is a sin! Religion is dumbing down many Nigerians!

The fool didn't know you asked him to do it in order to spice up the sex life in your relationship. This type of guy will NEVER go down on you, he would see it as an abomination! And he's also the type that won't bother if you came during sex. He may not even not know that women can climax.

My woman and I do this shaving thing to each other once in a while as fore*play because it always ends up with us having an explosive sex. It is a very sexy thing to do to each other! We do other things too! Sex is not only about pulling pants down and inserting a dick into a vagina! Explore!

If your so-called fiance can't even shave you for sex, then you have a big problem. Having a partner you're sexually compatible with, is crucial in a relationship. You're someone who likes to explore sexually while the guy is sexually boring as hell. if he's not your type, now is the time to dump his as*s before it is too late. If you marry him, you will end up being sexually unsatisfied in your marriage which may lead to cheating.

You can't afford to be sexually frustrated for the rest of your life with this guy.

And you had to call the guy a fool bc he turned down a request?
Bros, no be everybody go be like you na.

You have every right to be upset. Your fiance is a m*oron and very unenlightened! He probably thought you were somehow lazy to do it by yourself and thought you wanted to use him as a servant! Many Nigerian men have this dumb mentality (as most comments on this thread show)! Some would start claiming religion told them it is a sin! Religion is dumbing down many Nigerians!

The fool didn't know you asked him to do it in order to spice up the sex life in your relationship. This type of guy will NEVER go down on you, he would see it as an abomination! And he's also the type that won't bother if you came during sex. He may not even not know that women can climax.

My woman and I do this shaving thing to each other once in a while as fore*play because it always ends up with us having an explosive sex. It is a very sexy thing to do to each other! We do other things too! Sex is not only about pulling pants down and in
You are just one of the problem we face here in Nigeria. Is she married to him? kai.

darlingtito:
[exactly..not everything u read online.i read an article one time that said if a lady notices her boo comes back frm work and he ain't smiling or jus watching tv..go to d kitchen n get lil water n splash on his face..jus imagine..and that he wud lighten up.so what if he just lost a contract or his job.nxt thing na slap
[quote author=Snow5 post=53165351]Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo

Fixed