justwise:

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That is the issue, if he saw it and knew that the laptop is not his, why did he not delete it? I don't think he is innocent.


I wouldn't trust him with a toilet brush

@ justwise, agree with u 100%

madlady:

@ justwise, agree with u 100%

u know, his excuse doesn't add up.

@OP
you are honestly very funny but i don't blame you sha, dis u actually expect a thief to confirm he his one?
na wa for you. Now go back to the drawing board and talk to your sister about your fears.
Let her open her eyes wide open. Satisfy your conscience cos we don't want you coming back telling us i thy know i could have done this or that.

@madlady, can u change dat id, ur too sharp to be labelled as such, it was even difficult for me to type the name!!
@Justwise, i agree with u and and tht lady up there (cant call her dat name jare)
@jay_bee, i am going to do as u suggested, i have been talking to her, letting her know my fears, and i am sure tht b4 the marriage is contracted (i.e if ever it is) we'd have a clear pic. I go let una know situation as it progresses, and i hope i can locate this thread again within the crowd of stupid topics

delagasky:

@madlady, can u change dat id, your too sharp to be labelled as such, it was even difficult for me to type the name!!
@Justwise, i agree with u and and tht lady up there (cant call her dat name jare)
@jay_bee, i am going to do as u suggested, i have been talking to her, letting her know my fears, and i am sure tht b4 the marriage is contracted (i.e if ever it is) we'd have a clear pic. I go let una know situation as it progresses, and i hope i can locate this thread again within the crowd of stupid topics

I agree with u on that, she doesn't sound mad or unreasonable.

Yes pls keep us updated.

I wonder why u didn't confirm wat this guy does for a living b4 he came to u wit his parents. I mean he is a friend of ur cousin isn't he?

Anyways there are ways to do some more 'snooping'. Since u have access to the laptop u can install a program that records all keystrokes on the LP so u can see if he is the one doing it or not.

try to discuss it wit ur sister but be matured about it

@lord reed, i am the kinda guy who dont like getting into other pple's biz, and i felt my sis would do due dilligence or tht a cousin would never recommend someone bad, now i know beta (i am not claiming to be know it all), guy, i wont mind if u would suggest such a software, i hope it'd be free sha!! lol

delagasky:

@lord reed, i am the kinda guy who dont like getting into other pple's biz, and i felt my sis would do due dilligence or tht a cousin would never recommend someone bad, now i know beta (i am not claiming to be know it all), guy, i wont mind if u would suggest such a software, i hope it'd be free sha!! lol

It can't be free, such software is used by hackers/scammers to steal passwords and other personal details. Just be careful though.

Well if u google it am sure u'd get some results. I used 1 last year to snoop my then GF out, worked like a charm. Yeah and it was free. Can't rememba the name now. Anyways just google it u'll get sometin.