guys is it proper for a secondary school student to start dating.

wrong

why is it wrong.

@poster you should hve added a poll 2 know how many peeps started darting in sec.school.
as for me i dont see anything wrong wit it cos i started dating wen i was in S S 2.so?

it depend on the group that is involve

can ss1 student with the age of like 14 and 15 start dating like ss2 and ss3 student.

Wrong!

it is right,
it is inevitable, it must be accepted and the child cautioned and guided.

i dont see a problem with it but you have to realize that after secondary school you should end it because if he/she goes to a different school uni they will definately hook up with someone else

To me its wrong cos at that point what would be the reason for going into the relationship

Its good to start learning at a young age. Na sec. sch i open eye. I made mistakes then which i can't make now.

Godmother:

To me its wrong cos at that point what would be the reason for going into the relationship

have you ever heard of the phrase "Intimacy vs isolation"

this is the next stage in life after "identity vs identity crises, described by social psychologists that must occur in every ones life.

according to them, a teenager that has succccesfully gone through the stage of identity discovery must seek to be intimate with the opposite sex.

most child who have unsessfuly under gone this stage, suffer from identity confusion, hence tend to be isolated

dating in secondary is very healthy for any child, only that the child must not be neglected because o his/her inexperience

wrong