tellwisdom:

[size=14pt]Now you can continue your yanshin with him at ease [/size]

ThoniaSlim:

Dudes like you get on my freaking nerves! Like seriously? Was that really necessary?

@Poster

I'm glad you got clarity now. I commend you for actually sitting down and talking to his wife. . . that shows a lot of maturity from you two. I hope you learn from this and try to move on. . .

madambini:

its not easy though but I'd move on. Deep inside Im happy i got clarity, i m glad. thanks 4 your kind words.

toyemz:

@poster
yoo made a mistake and you rectified it
I am so proud of you
thank you for this story and for lifting yourself out of that pit
but pls if and when the spineless lying doctor comes crawling back to you
pls and pls forget a heavy slap on his face

$ugarda
ddy:

@OP
The guy must be stu.p.id. to have denied his family just to bleep a lady. What the mess. is your toto made of to warrant such? And why do you have to go all the way to meeting his wife? You were lucky your met a matured woman in her.

For your information, matured dudes don't lie to bleep any fuc.cking sh.it. We put all our cards on the table and it's left for you to make up your mind. It's either a yes or no. Okay?

thank God u used the word matured. Apparently he wasnt one.  

Atreides:

He actually cursed himself?

He said he would die on the road if he had children?


That man is a bloody dangerous mofo. He's the kind that would swear with the lives of his children even though he knew he was lying.

Not only is he a cheat and a liar,he is DANGEROUS.
For him to have cursed himself with his own mouth over something he knew he was lying about? What won't he be able to do?

You've had a lucky escape,deari.
You might not feel very happy about it right now,but i have a feeling that someday you'll look back at this and say THANK YOU,lord!

madambini:

He 'bragged' being a doctor, a consultant, which I found questionable because he didn't look like a doctor. Fast forward some months later, we started dating.

obowunmi:

@ OP: what sort of conversation did you go having with his wife? What did you say? What did she say? What did the dialogue entail ? Be sure to go for HIV test because I'm surprised she didn't pour hot water on you ?

madambini:

im thanking God right about now.

Exponental:

Upgraded:
Boyfriend to Sugardaddy.
(hope he is not stingy shaaa) n if he is, BACKSPACE asap!

$ugardaddy:

@OP & Floxyluv

You both haven't met the trendy sugardaddies -young, handsome and rich. And always ready to disclose their marital status as "married" from the very onset.
When you eventually do, you will swear never to have anything to do with your single boyfriends who can't even buy you N200 recharge card.

madambini:

Are you in this category of "sugardaddies"?

toyemz:

^^^^

are you trying to get to America?

is that what it means>!

I leave that for you to figure out.