ijetonia:

- @Allboyz. it is men like u that make women like us choose our kids b4 our husband. imagine the ego of refering to yourselves as semi gods. na who tell u so.

violent:

When kids grow up, they leave your home to build their own lives, maybe visit once or twice a year
But when your body is old and grey, your loving partner is still sitting next to you, and to him you look just as beautiful as the first time u took his breath away
Husbands are for ever, kids only come to ensure to continuation of human cycle!

violent:

When kids grow up, they leave your home to build their own lives, maybe visit once or twice a year
But when your body is old and grey, your loving partner is still sitting next to you, and to him you look just as beautiful as the first time u took his breath away
Husbands are for ever, kids only come to ensure to continuation of human cycle!

nkb:

most women love their husbands very dearly, yet the kids come first, its not about neglecting any for the other, a responsible woman will do her due diligence to both her husband and kids respectively, but deep down inside you, the love for the kids comes first.

this topic is very sensitive, you need to have gotten married and have made kids before you will be able to really apreciate the topic for what it truly is,

think about this, the kids are u, i mean made out of you and by you, but the husband is a stranger that you find compatible, thus decided to spend the rest of your life with.

some women will die for their kids, but am yet to see a woman that is willing to die for her husband, on the contrary, some will leave the man or become difficult and nagging when the going becomes tough for the man

chelsea4su:

men, men ,i wonder why some women are not focus ,you will leave your kid for your husband kai ,your future ,your life ,your flesh for a man ,who can decide one day, that your tenure as ended in his life.as for me ,i will rather choose my future which is my kid.

chelsea4su:

men, men ,i wonder why some women are not focus ,you will leave your kid for your husband kai ,your future ,your life ,your flesh for a man ,who can decide one day, that your tenure as ended in his life.as for me ,i will rather choose my future which is my kid.

my husband will always come first and my kids will always be my utmost priority in life
in other words both of them means the world to me
but i think i wil focus more on my husband
and make sure the kids get all the love they need

Both. U cant afford to miss either,

"But you’ve

never met

my husband!"

He won’t take out the garbage
He won’t cook.
He won’t clean up the house
He won’t do the dishes
He won’t make the bed
He won’t do the laundry
He won’t take me out to restaurants enough
He won’t cut the grass or weed the garden
He won’t shingle the leaky roof.
He won’t paint the house.
He doesn’t give me enough money
He won’t have sex with me when I ask
He doesn’t buy me enough clothes.
There is not enough food in the house
He won’t help me discipline the kids
He doesn’t participate in family bible studies.
He tells me how long to grow my hair and what colour to die it.
He has hold me to get a job so I can support him while he stays home and does house work.
He tells me how to arrange the dishes in the cupboard.
He tells me where to hang pictures on the wall.

!amebo no1:

for a man shall live his parents and cling to his wife, both of them shall become one?

the man is the head the wife is the neck, if you separate them how will the body stand?

The kids will leave you and go start up their family someday, who will grow old with you?  who makes love to you, who do you share your fears with, whos shoulders do you lean on, who is the pillar of that home? who made that baby with you? who provides for you and the baby, who gave you a last " name" when other 45 yr old women are still looking for a man to give them the name "MRS"

I hope you dont complain, if your husband neglects you and gives your kids the best of all attention, you dont mind if he sleeps in their room every night, and leave you alone in your matrimonial bed? im sure you wont nag

It is a two way thingy, both are extremely important, but if you wanna talk about future, think of that man that will stay with you until death do you both part

my kids , my husband are my world, they both play their roles in my life

y me:

my husband will always come first and my kids will always be my utmost priority in life
in other words both of them means the world to me
but i think i wil focus more on my husband
and make sure the kids get all the love they need

Now that's were a lot of women go wrong. . .they focus their whole attention on the kids neglecting their husbands. . .only a woman who's husband wasn't worth it would say she would neglect him and save her kid. . .

The reason why we should all pray for guidance when making decisions that concerns choosing a life partner. . .because if you have a good man. . .a man who has always and would always stand by you. . .then he'll be important to you. . .


As for me. . .my husband would be as important as my kids cus he is not only the father of my children. . .but the vow I would take at God's altar already joins us together as one. . .so he is not just a husband but also part of me!

davidif:

otukpo
You deserve to remain single the rest of your life. Why don't you go have a child out of wedlock like most akatas who are single mothers since you are not worthy of a husband. And people wonder why some men have extra-marital affairs, its because of women like this, if i was married to you, i would probably have an extramarital affair.

And how many men keep to this.

And to tell u that no matter how good or perfect a wife is to her husband, if the husband is the type that will stray, he will stray.

This is rubbish.

If u ask my husband, he will tell u that he has a perfect wife, a God-sent, and if there is marriage in heaven, he will still marry me.I like being real. I give the best any wife can give to my husband, but to talk of the kids i brought into this world, my own flesh and blood, that is a different ball game.

kokoye:

The ladies choosing their kids are those from polygamous or failed marriages. They expect the same from their husbands.

Sorry lots. Then they wonder why these men go out to chase other women.

Thank God I shall never have to choose.

All I have belongs to my wife.

davidif:

Yes o, its not only all that i have belongs to my wife but me, myself and i.