I like you..

daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

Did u c that part bolded statement? That is where your problem and most ladies problem is. I am currently having this same issue with my gf, I am always the one doing the chatting and calling but when its time for me to spark, I know the right thing to do..

The earlier u start bringing down your egoistic behavior the better for u.

i hope he is not''hez d reason for my living ''. If he is,there's BIG problem o.i cant tell u to do this or that;all i could say on these is ;CONSIDER UR INTEREST FIRST,UR DREAMS AND UR HEALTH AND FINALLY WORK OUT CHOICE THAT'S ''BEST'' 4 YOU.My 2cent sha.

nikkyharry:
We have d best moment together , best call conversation that he wouldn't wanna end , that is y it looks weird when he changes all of a sudden agaim

Ignore him. He definitely has another serious girlfriend he does not want to tell you about. You are just a side chic he sees on the sly, whenever his main chic is not around.

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

Bae, you are your own problem. I always dey pray make I no meet babe like you, Wetin you take your boyfriend for sef, u no fit even try to dey call, u dey wait am ni, na you be him place of primary assignment. You gat to contribute actively in a relationship, no be man be suffer head my sister. For this dude, I will advise you try call him tonight and know what's up, if he doesn't respond send a text asking if he is alright ONLY. but babe work on yourself. Please update we your fans. #shitface

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

Bae, you are your own problem. I always dey pray make I no meet babe like you, Wetin you take your boyfriend for sef, u no fit even try to dey call, u dey wait am ni, na you be him place of primary assignment. You gat to contribute actively in a relationship, no be man be suffer head my sister. For this dude, I will advise you try call him tonight and know what's up, if he doesn't respond send a text asking if he is alright ONLY. but babe work on yourself. Please update we your fans. #shitface

What then happened to him? I mean your banker boyfriend? OK I see. You changed. Jumping from one man to another another and coming to nairaland to disturbe us with heartbreak gist..

Lunagirl:
Silence kills a relationship faster than most things. No matter how busy you are, you'd always find time to reach out to someone you supposedly love.

I dated a banker once and they were prohibited from using cell phones during work hours which is a lot of hours. But, he still found time to talk to me, during his lunch time, when he uses the toilet, he shoots me a text or something.

What would have made more sense is if someone says that they are not in the right frame of mind to communicate, that, I understand.

Give it a little more time and try to relax okay?

nikkyharry:


He does more than kissing sef. Things that would make u think a nigga is madly in love , he doesn't use drugs buh he smokes nd I don't think DAT can affect

If by more than kissing you mean sex...thats normal, its easier to "insert" than to kiss.

TrueHeart365:
my dear, no be all men sabi cope with your kind of conditional love.

another babe don dey show the nigga love and since there's nothing to miss about you (no loving memory), na relegation to side chick you dey so.

work on your ego so you don't lose the good ones.

. God bless you Man, I feel like forwarding this to one of my gf mayb she would come to her senses

OMO! See this gyal o! Do you think we are all here to joke!!! Chai! NL's Don suffer!!!! You want answers Just KILL YOURSELF!!

The guy is trying o. I was worse when I was in relationship and I wasn't looking elsewhere. So don't mind pple concluding d guy myt be looking elsewhere. Back den, I was an introvert and busy with my academic. Sometimes, through out out d day I myt nt talk to anyone. Out of d few gals av dated, only one understood me. D gal put aside her ego nd kept calling nd texting, yet I didn't change. When d gal noticed I wouldn't change easily, u knw wat d gal did? D gal studied me and found out my academic captivated my mind. D gal nw started to support me academically and stimulating me mentally. D gal would wake me up to read in d nyt, she wud also stay awake at nyt readin because of me. And some oda stuffs... D gal was really understanding and supportive.
B4 I knew it, d gal changed me. I couldn't go a day without calling her.
Op, dere is a lot 4 u to gain in dat story!

nikkyharry, try and find out the kind of guy he is. There are some guys that are not much into calling, maybe he is that type. Though, I see no reason why he shouldn't reply ur texts, I wouldn't for any reason ignore texts from my gf no matter how busy I am.

you guys are here condemning her...wat happen to wen you guys say the calls are too much..and stop being leachy....

As if, you all ain't worse

Nma27:
You should know better.... Plus Thunder fire all dem time wasters stringing sisters along...

dingbang:
Lol... Nikkyharry.. Just dont bug urself.. You are forcing yourself on him...



Am saying this to let u know av done this to a girl and the more she bugged my life querying me for not calling, d more I got angry.... So I'll advise u just get busy with other things in your life... Anytime he misses you he will call..


Although it could also be that he is worried.. He has things bothering him.. Why not forget about quarrelling him abt not calling u and ask him what is bothering him.. He will open up..

thats if theres anything to miss. you only miss something that exist

Most men learn from brutal past relationships....

lilmax:
he knows if he starts calling, you start feeling like Kim Kardashian and at the end of the day you ride on him,he's just keeping you in check so that at the end even if you break up, it will be your loss,you women are not really complicated like we were told, its just basic common sense ....... he must have learnt it from past relationships

I dunno what is wrong with most of our girls,' You have been dating a guy for almost a year and he never propose to you, you only enjoy sharwama with him and sometimes took you to the other room for bed warming...... You never ask him once why he hasn't propose to you? After used n got tired of u, what else do u want frm him? A diamond ring? Huh?.....

NOTE: "The essence of relationship is marriage" noting more, so why wasting ur good time with him?

It's like he was born around November 21 to December 22, they don't like text or call... But that doesn't mean he has another girl, he might be flirty but he wouldn't cheat on you... The thing is let him know how you feel and call him once or twice a week and text... Sometimes we have mood swing we might be in the mood to talk now and the next second we don't feel like talking and we get bored easily... Give him some space... And don't call him tonight.

daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga

Mature and straight to the point. Nice one.

Jacksparr0w127:
You girls are just MFckin greedy lot. All you lot care about is yourselves. You don't even wanna know how busy a hustling niggah could be. All you want is 24hrs attention. Really bad

So a dude that tries to call 'Atleast' once a day isn't caring enough? Even though he calls more on days he isn't busy. Smh

You bunch are just confused lot

Nobody should quote me. If you don't like my comment, kill yourself

U just typed my mind...so far as there are airtime in my phone,i'm always tempted to call him...i see nothing wrong with it...it instead increase the bond between us

Babe, you know ur man, and if he is working understand that work sometimes can be very stressful or you can be under pressure at work to meet a deadline. Understand that if you want to date a rich guy, you must be ready to date a very busy guy.

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

Is the guy working or student. Perhaps he doesn't have money to call back.

Pelon:

I have d same problem With my Girl,i don't just understand all dey want is all ur time...Told her m not d kind Of guy that have time 4 it..

I think that's the problem all men face and it's really sad

my dear some guys are like that, my guy is extremely busy that I have watched him travelled to and fro every week, his biz and job he ran same time. He told me when he asked me out that his only challenge is he doesn't call or no much time to himself. I have watched that happen sometimes that he barely eat, I sometimes text him for him to remember his meal. He dnt call that often, he is not the call type, I call him once and if u he dnt pick he may text what he s doing that dnt need picking calls. most times in d car or house, he ll be responding to calls 24/7 . It gives me concern but I have learnt to care for him as he always appreciate me anytime I do so, and he always sorry whenever he notice am getting upset. I am extra busy now so as to suit him as well. Try and know what your guy does all time, then tell him, that u appreciate his hard work but u need some attention from him, if he dnt respond well to that or give u some reason then give him a little break, get busy a while, u ll be fine.

HateU2:
she's in love

ojo ife tirò lelori

This typa girls are the reasons for their troubles, so his "number of calls time" must reach a certain number before you call him. Who are the mothers of these girls..... Feminism nor allow una care for man again....

He shouldn't be the only one calling, but you too have to call from time to time to show that you do care about he. for me I am not happy if I am the only one who always call because it make me feel she doesn't care about me.

fumisko:

Babe I can relate. I had someone like that I used to like. All nice n all for one one two months...chat all through...calls n all...then he withdraws...n am confused:...does it mean he doesn't miss the time we shared and all that... Bottom line is I still can't explain it o.....but some men are immature and commitment phobic and some don't even know what is doing them. Try to fall in love with another man Abeg so u get ur attention off him. It's obvious u love him more than he loves u. And that's why there is this warning to ladies. Never ever love a man much more than he loves u. If not u r d one Dt wld b hurt. We are emotional beings...don't b deceived by his coming Bk n leaving...he is doing it Cus it isn't hurting him...infact he doesn't feel he is doing anything wrong. He loves u 30% u love him 70%
Run for your life or ur marriage wld b in shambles

well said....[sub][/sub]

daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga

I love this.

Slimzjoe:
Every man with his problem.

All I want is for her to return my calls

The two of you should hook up then.

fumisko:

You have now made your self as shit in his presence...by going so low to keep begging n asking why he is treating u like dt. From now on. U tell him from now hence forth that: I demand ur love care n attention full time n if u ain't giving me I ain't begging for it no more. I am self confident n I know Wat I want from my man. D pain of moving ahead maybe deep but it's better dan being continuously hurt o. U wld find a man Dt wld truly love u and treat u as his queen. Change dp.let him see u happy with another boo.U deserve nothing less. Even if u r 35 yrs now. Desperation is never a reason to settle for this emotional abuse u r going through. Better to get sperm donor have kids n b happy n fill ur life with ur profession

Hahaha.. See command tone sha

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

Stop acting fake, be real to urself and to the guy. Play your real self and leave it there. If u are the call type...continue calling if you are not dont call. However, leave ego out of it, tell him u love him if u think u do, otherwise stay nutral. Dont take instructions from friends...its ur life, be real.

Fine girl like you deh suffer inside relationship..am happy

refiner:

U just typed my mind...so far as there are airtime in my phone,i'm always tempted to call him...i see nothing wrong with it...it instead increase the bond between us