Written by Thatyorubadude

Why is it so hard to stay faithful, and why are we so easily tempted to cheat? Understanding the ‘why’ can help you deal with the ‘what if.’

Cheating is common in many relationships. There are people who cheat in every relationship they’re in, while there are those who slowly find themselves being pulled into the situation. But what tempts people to cheat in the first place?

So you’ve probably done everything in your power to make sure that your partner has everything that they ever need: physically, emotionally, mentally, and sometimes even financially. You tried to be everything your partner wanted and more.

In fact, you thought you were both happy in the relationship… until that text, that phone call, that slip of the tongue, that lingering perfume of another person on the clothes, or that sight of seeing your partner cuddling and kissing another. Suddenly, everything you thought about your relationship is all Wrong

Why do people get tempted to cheat

Why do they cheat in the first place? After everything, why do so many people still cheat

Once in a while you will be tempted but it takes the grace of God to be faithful.

Lack of decipline. Thats what causes it. You might be tempted but you have to stay strong!

Everyone is tempted at one point or another,but what you do about it is what counts.

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CaroLyner:
Everyone is tempted at one point or another,but what you do about it is what counts.

Talk for urself oooo

Yes, I have been tempted....but I didn't fall tho....it was a close call I wouldn't lie.

To me it ain't cheating if you don't get caught. Number one rule.

Never get caught. What your partner doesn't know can't hurt them.

Op this thread is specially fr me

I have some set of girls (4) who just finished secondary sch in my location where I work. I am like a brother to them, because they feel free to share their problem with me. problems like that of their boyfriends, finance, and family stuffs. I give advice when needed and support financially if it is required but never took advantage of them (sexually). Recently one of them took interest in me and it was so intense that she doesn't hesitate to let me know how she wants to bleep me. how she needed me so badly and I keep telling her what she already knows which is I am married with 2 lovely kids. she kept at it till one certain time I was forced to ask her what she saw in me, I mean I am not that handsome, the car I have is what my wife uses where I settled them, just an average guy. but she replied she doesn't know she just loves me...i have since told her politely that I can't do what she is asking from because I know how the world works. this is how it works you can't sow cocoyam and reap orange. I made up my mind when I got married not to cheat so my wife won't cheat. it's is by His Grace not by my power.

Cheating in a relationship is so cheap
While not try something challenging LIKE
Been faithful

Tempted I HAVE
Did i fall NO
Why God's grace and respect for him

Every human being has the syndrome to cheat on their partner no matter the race...it"s just inherent in us and that's why you can't stay 100% true to your partner.

Seriously