Uche2nna:


@ aciddrop now which one is on the immoral list--anal sex ?

whitout be told nahh, infact sex b4 marriage is inapropiate

acidrop:

whitout be told nahh, infact sex before marriage is inapropiate

why and from who's point of view? what is actually the marriage? so u can't do anything more unless u've signed that piece of paper?
just to give you a simple eg: in sweden, very few couples bother to go to the city hall to "get married" and they live together all their lives and have perfectly healthy and happy families based on respect and love,
so i'd think again before impling that's a must!

Wait o Nkem, you be Naija o and not oyinbo, forget your fair complexion, we all have some traditional cloud over us and we are bound to respect institutions.

I have my reservations about sex before marriage (though am a culprit) because the bible made it clear that it is wrong, it called it fornication.

Making out with some one you love is a "crime" that does not hurt anybody and for that reason it is generally acceptable, but I think it is very wrong to have indiscriminate sex. It gets worse, when you completely ignore the institution called marriage and make babes kids and co-habitate, hmmmmmm, I no dey o

nduleme:

Wait o Nkem, you be Naija o and not oyinbo, forget your fair complexion, we all have some traditional cloud over us and we are bound to respect institutions.

I have my reservations about sex before marriage (though am a culprit) because the bible made it clear that it is wrong, it called it fornication.

Making out with some one you love is a "crime" that does not hurt anybody and for that reason it is generally acceptable, but I think it is very wrong to have indiscriminate sex. It gets worse, when you completely ignore the institution called marriage and make babes kids and co-habitate, hmmmmmm, I no dey o

Oh isn't this a pity? You still didn't get my point!! I mean, two people can be married without the approval of the city council! They see themselves married in front of God, they exchange vows, but they just didn't feel like signing a paper, believing that their love and home means much more than that.
<sub>I hope u got me now

ps: I no be naija o</sub>

yea i can live with him or sleep over as long as he dont try anything

Why won't he try anything? Isn't that the whole point of making yourself so accessible to each other?

seun surpisingly i dont believe in prematrial sex.

@seun

I don't get it, what do you mean accessible, it is not all about sex you know

white nkem where do u no ugo daniel from, he was my classmate in nigeria in nnamdi azikiwe uni and am in cluj-napoca. will like to no u

Cant sleep over and i can't live with him unless we are married.Just my view!

all these girls talking - swear u have never slept in a guy's house before, swear - all of una dey lie like monkey.

Ferlie:

all these girls talking - swear u have never slept in a guy's house before, swear - all of una dey lie like monkey.

get u just learn to be nice for ones , your wahala is too much and too early for all this dumbass comment u writing

Ferlie:

all these girls talking - swear u have never slept in a guy's house before, swear - all of una dey lie like monkey.

Man what a trouble maker

I did support Nkem point of view perfectly,    the goal is to live happily,    i know how it feels. 

Ferlie:

all these girls talking - swear u have never slept in a guy's house before, swear - all of una dey lie like monkey.

   

Ferlie, leave dem make we dey deceive ourselves,

look, i can sleep ova, but we dont necesirily have 2 have sex

babauch:

white nkem where do u no ugo daniel from, he was my classmate in nigeria in nnamdi azikiwe uni and am in cluj-napoca. will like to no u

buna! ce faci? I know danny since quite a while. He said he remembers you take care oo

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

@acid

Thankyou oh, it's just that sometimes nobody knows what could happen, in situations like this, since sex is a sin if you are not married, you are bound to be tempted. My advice to young women like myself is if you don't want to be put in a situation where you won't be in control of your mind/self/body don't put your self in it because it can be very challenging to say No.

Thankyou oh, it's just that sometimes nobody knows what could happen, in situations like this, since sex is a sin if you are not married, you are bound to be tempted. My advice to young women like myself is if you don't want to be put in a situation where you won't be in control of your mind/self/body don't put your self in it because it can be very challenging to say No.

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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm meaning u v never tasted d apple of eden

Dime:

@acid

Thankyou oh, it's just that sometimes nobody knows what could happen, in situations like this, since sex is a sin if you are not married, you are bound to be tempted. My advice to young women like myself is if you don't want to be put in a situation where you won't be in control of your mind/self/body don't put your self in it because it can be very challenging to say No.

in a way, u should try it, 2 taste ur boyfriend, speccially a serious relationship, if he do anyhow, u know b4 u get married

hmmm acid u not bad in d pics

tnx, fatliar, if only i can compliment urs now ,

@ fatilar, c'mon. post yr pics to receive d compliment from acidrop

no please am so ugly

why would i want a guy moving in with me and littering and messing up my stuff when we arent even married ? i have a lot of crap and i dont want anyone touching any of it!

@ACID

I am not saying that i am a virgin but i am trying to advice anyone out there that thinks like me. Besides i am not just writing for writing's sake i am writing out of experience, that's all. It is just a little advice.

@spoilt

Sleep ova no probs,
Live together big tyme probs,

Honestly u get in each others way, argue frequently, get over possesive, end up doin things u don't want to, so many problems why not wait till u get married den u c

Sleep ova no probs,
Live together big tyme probs,

Honestly u get in each others way, argue frequently, get over possesive, end up doin things u don't want to, so many problems why not wait till u get married den u can start going thru stufff together!!!!

sleep over yes but live in no. I think when my guy resides in a different state and i travel to visit him, it will be pointless lodging in a hotel but if he visits me, we can stay at a hotel. That is still sleeping over right? It depends on how u see it sha.

peace y'all

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Kaliyat:

sleep over yes but live in no. I think when my guy resides in a different state and i travel to visit him, it will be pointless lodging in a hotel but if he visits me, we can stay at a hotel. That is still sleeping over right? It depends on how u see it sha.

peace y'all

it all depends on the person on the relationship.

Dime:

@ACID

I am not saying that i am a virgin but i am trying to advice anyone out there that thinks like me. Besides i am not just writing for writing's sake i am writing out of experience, that's all. It is just a little advice.

@spoilt

wooooooow some advice

Sleep Over - definitely
Live with him - Not at all.

If we are engaged, then maybe sure but if not, we're staying in our own places.