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Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by MadCow1: 7:57pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Nne5: One Hero beer for you. If he says it's his decision and was serious then why the sudden change of heart? 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by limitless777(m): 7:58pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
tosyne2much: tosyne baba U too much. MARRIAGE matter NO BE bread and butter. make them ask Tonto, Funke Akind, etc HAPPY Weekend bro 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by oseiwe(m): 7:58pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
2tek:I know a man who denied his son, a perfect carbon copy, he was forced to pay for welfare, he refused, the son is a graduate today, the father still doesnt accept him, and they all live in thesame town. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 7:58pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Harun111:if you be my son I go disown you why will you bring someone who have one child from another person? did you think love is like that! for example: when ever you and her had a fight, she will be comparing you with that man and she will love her bastard son more than you. think before you use your prick! your parent are trying to make you avoid all this single mum stuff |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Kakamorufu(m): 7:59pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
well. follow your mind and don't fret when talking with them. Buh I must say, your brother is a big bad snitch. |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 8:01pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
limitless777:When you marry someone against the wish of your parents and family members, they will frustrate your life minimally but that of the girl go brutal gan No matter the civilization, culture still holds ground in some families my brother |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by DozieInc(m): 8:06pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Harun111:Copied from @decatalyst comment. The first mistake is letting this kinda of news to be discovered. You are supposed to call whoever is closest to you between your dad and mom and explain the situation to him/her. This would have doused the tension by the time you present her to the whole family. @OP since it didn't work that way. read the screen shot below.
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Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 8:06pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
CaroLyner:@ op! if you listen to this kind of people who have sold their yansh to the devil, Oyo is your own! useless women everywhere and the op want to make that mistake. when she was opening her yansh from the guy who got her pregnant, where you there |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by JerryTemi(f): 8:08pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Bros I will start from telling you a story and you will make or take your decisions.my girlfriend took in one certain time like that and she had the baby,today that boy is 6 and you won't believe it she got married last year and to grown it all the guy didn't disclose her baby to his family so bros take your ground cover her unclothedness now, call her, tell her not to tell or answer anybody about that baby,you are a man and I will tell you to in for them that such information is not real at all,stand your ground. Don't let anybody to run your life or family for you because nobody will do same to me that is a woman because is my choice.all the best 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Qriousity(m): 8:09pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Harun111:Bro go ahead with the marriage. Your parents ain't the ones to decide who you marry. BTW, ask them if their own parents did the same to them. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:10pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Harun111: Though the concerns of your family are founded, at the end of the day however, you are the one who will LIVE with this girl, not them. As a man, when you are ready to marry, you don't take a girl to your parents for approval. No. You go to inform them. If you really want this girl, be respectful, but firm. Tell them she's who you want to spend the rest of your life with. See this as life's way of testing your resolve. On a brotherly note, I hope this is not a hasty decision, or a poorly considered one. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by sherifjoo(m): 8:10pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
I hate hearing dis word,,,My family wud not allow,,are dey d one dat wil leave wit her or u ,d fact remains dat unless you are not sure of urslf 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Qriousity(m): 8:11pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
goingape1:biko keep quiet. Who are you to judge? Not as if you are a saint. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 8:11pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
dominique:see them! one cornered brain people protect again who? the girl did something irresponsible at her youth and you want the op parent to pay for her irresponsible act. useless women everywhere 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 8:13pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Qriousity:shut up! there are things you are not suppose to do during your youthful exuberant! 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Sunnytega: 8:14pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
I don't understand. Does it mean somebody dat has given birth bf can't get married? She only had a child nt dt she's a witch or has one terrible dz dat pipo are afraid of 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Sunnytega: 8:17pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Is it becs she did nt abort d pregnancy? 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 8:18pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
SmartMugu:thank you! marrying a single mother are the most dangerous act you have ever done! you are never the father of that child and it will always be at the back of ya mind. you can never love that child equally and that child will surely look for her bastard father someday in he/her life. blood is thicker than water! 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Antoeni(m): 8:18pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
The word Love and Marriage re meant for mature Adults,not for grow children,,so check ur sef very well,to see if 1-u 're an Adult, 2-mature In hrt 3-can stand as a man and take decisions,4-if u wants to start a a family of ur Own, |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by adewumiopeyemi(m): 8:21pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
He be like say u don high on garri... Abi. U better receive sense this night.. kullozone: |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 8:22pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Antoeni:who are the people divorcing are there not the mature adult who once think of the word "love and marriage" who is cheating on there husband and wife? are there not the one who once think of the word "love and Marriage" you need to check your brain very well and find out the true meaning of maturity. |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Bishop(m): 8:24pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
young man, you love her but I can tell you that you are not emotionally strong for this. You will immediately become a father to a child of about 7years taking full responsibility of her or his upkeep before your own biological children are born. and when They come would you withhold your love from your first child. think about this. i conclude that you are infatuated |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by limitless777(m): 8:26pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
tosyne2much: the challenge is that MOST of US fail to realize that OUR families ARE OUR TRUE flesh and BLOOD who NO matter WHAT want the best for us at almost every point in time. there's so much more to "MARRIAGE". it's always interesting that IF and when a FAMILY IS against one partner THINGS usually go WRONG. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by orjaha(m): 8:27pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
maybe they know her somewhere else, or she had date one of your relation before, you can ask your family |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by youthofnaija: 8:29pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
goingape1:I will support 100% if you can answer these questions 1. If the lady in question was your daughter, will you drive away any man that comes to seek her hand in marriage because she is a single mother? 2. If the table was turned around, what will be your decision? That is, assuming the single mother is your sister or your daughter. At times, all we need to do is put ourselves in the other person's shoe 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by silverspringle(f): 8:29pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
@Op, listen to this... " If u don't marry that girl, another person(maybe someone berra than u) will marry her. Since u know this, back to ur topic, that a girl gave back at d age of 15 doesnt mean anything. It was just a mistake, most girls commit abortion like a 'million' times and still get married with their dirty parts hidden. I ve noticed that even though our parents wants d best for us, they can be very selfish. They want to keep up a face not minding their children's happiness. My fiancé's mum kept finding fault with me but d son stood his ground. That is what i call a man, its not disrespect, its called know ur boundaries with ur spouse and ur family. I told my fiancé that d way ur mum doesn't like me is d way my mum doesn't like u cos she wanted me to marry a richer guy. What should u do? Wisely let ur parents know why u should marry this girl, invlolve ur closer uncles and aunties, let them see reasons with u though it will take a long time but dnt give up if u think she's worth it. My mum will say "that she's has given birth before means she's fertile" lolz... Goodluck 3 Likes |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 8:31pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
chimavalentine:how many millionaires are there in this country? your thinking is as a result of watching to much telemundo |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Nnennazimzim(f): 8:31pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
The devil you know, is better than the one you don't know. Is it because she is decent enough to have her baby, the one your parents want you to marry, do you know how many she has aborted. My dear if the girl is a nice girl and you love her enough to marry her. Try and convince your people and ask God To help you. The girl is unfortunate to get pregnant out of the tens of thousands of girls that have premarital sex. Do not judge her because of her past mistakes. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by gwama: 8:31pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
If it is because of the child that your parents refuse that you marry her, then marry her, taking care of a child who does not hold him biologically, God will reward you. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Emmysk050: 8:31pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
oboy sha na ur life. but me ah no fit marry person wey my mama no aprove. oboy no mis dat parents blessing o.[b]oboy sha na ur life. but me ah no fit marry person wey my mama no aprove. oboy no mis dat parents blessing o.[/b]oboy sha na ur life. but me ah no fit marry person wey my mama no aprove. oboy no mis dat parents blessing o. |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by princetom1(m): 8:34pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Harun111: Naa, who is getting married, u or ur family? If u wanna be happy, u better start doing the things that makes ur heart beat. All these family palava sef, it's hard to find someone and wen u do, it's one problem or d oda. My advice, don't let go, even if u have to quarrel with ur family (last resort), with time, everyone will learn to accept her especially after giving u a male child (if u are igbó). I don't want u to look back someday and regret letting go. You should also know that if issues arise, u are on your own. So, man up and protect ur princess |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 8:35pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
olaszydaruma:I just hope they won't kick her ass out when they know, or what do you think bro? |
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