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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by princechurchill(m): 10:00pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
[quote author=annnikky post=55200717] So u can't stay without s3x for 5months abi[/quote I mean close to 8months ] |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by annnikky(f): 10:04pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
[quote author=princechurchill post=55205859][/quote] Iffa hear sey u stay till that tym |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by abimic(m): 10:07pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
What your views are... @Jodha and @jerrytemi.. ..? I expected first the place should heal which I'm not sure two months would have being enough but assuming it has healed at the moment,the presence of granny shouldn't pose any threat, one reason I like sometimes, understanding ladies, the man even sounds 20th century, I expected he should have re strategized since granny was coming, him and his wife should have started bathing together rather than him sleeping parlor and be inviting his wife to parlor to make love when all of a sudden, anyone could burst in at that time which in turn could lower self esteem. I just wonder why couples don't cultivate the habit of bathing together even when opportunities avail itself. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by lebete3000: 10:07pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
oshe11: Hotel part d best advise so far. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by princechurchill(m): 10:09pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
annnikky: This gal ehhh inbox me |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Bimpe29: 10:20pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Even though your wife is being selfish, you don't have to play away game for no reason. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Jodha(f): 10:22pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
abimic: The baby is just two months nah.. Does he wants to kill his wife... He should allow her rest.. Jhoor . Plus it'll take like 6 months for her to heal.. 2 months is way too early.. About the mom... His wife is totally right.. Since there is no other room.. He should wait.. Bathing together would be awkward nah.. Since the mother is around... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by tellmanny(m): 10:30pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
darioNaharis: Bros, EWU is your name. Walahi u got me rolling on the floor. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by steppins: 10:33pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
WomanOfRace:Story. If he's not knacking the woman, he's getting it somewhere else. Just have that into your mind. A man can only be celibate because he wants to, he's slacking, wretched or sick. If he's not in any of the above category, don't waste your time believing him. He's getting some. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Trustworthiness: 10:50pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
It is wrong for anybody, whosoever he or she may be, to sleep on your matrimonial bed. That is totally not acceptable. I will advice you to get an extra mattress that will be use by her in the sitting at night to sleep. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by WomanOfRace(f): 10:56pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
steppins: hmmm so, I've been told lies uncountable times . Well, wetin concern agbero with over load sef. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by annnikky(f): 11:13pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
princechurchill:Lol Buh it's tru na |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Laird(m): 1:02am On Apr 03, 2017 |
FILEBE: She has appropriate freedom of expression n a public internet forum, the OP brought out his personal details on a public internet forum for advice so the advice given by members of the public forum irrespective of gender is non binding and can be accepted or not. It is just for the OP to.pick the advice he needs and leave the rest. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Acidosis(m): 1:08am On Apr 03, 2017 |
You made a very terrible mistake by posting this issue for hypocrites to deliberate on. Some people here cannot stay 1 week without s e .x. yet they expect you, amidst the daily temptations of seeing your wife's nu.de, to remain stagnant like a log of wood. We are talking about the Kemen dems who cannot pass just 1 night with a stranger lady without opening up her panties. What a mistake you've made. This is not the best place to post your issues. Go privately and talk with your wife. Cheating is not an option as you're now a married man. Two months is certainly a long time for a married person to stay out of s. e.x. You have indeed tried. As advised, you can work towards getting a bigger apartment, but trust me, it won't change your wife's opinion about s. ex. Se.x ual urge push people to have s.ex in swimming pools, on queues, I even heard that some Nigerians now mas. turbate in banks! You dey see the life of hypocrites here? One thing I know for sure is that a man or a woman who truly desire to have se. x will go against all odds! Even if you live in a barracks together with your over 2000 relatives, it changes NOTHING. We are talking about people here who had hard core s. ex in open spaces on NYSC ground. Just persuade your woman biko... If Bisola could give BJ in spite the numerous camera in BBN house; if Kemen could anatomized a lady's core live on TV, your mother in law's presence is no excuse; in fact, a one or two rooms apartment isn't an excuse either! Go and rent a mansion in Dubai, I bet it won't change her opinion about se.x. It is a perception thing, she consider her mom's presence an hindrance... more like a taboo to have se.x in the same house her mom lives in. What you need to do is change her orientation, make her see things clearly.. her mama don do am too, does she think everyone, including her mom, assume the baby fell from the sky? Abeg, change your wife's orientation and you're good to go. If your wife is not complaining about pains and healing, do not hang on what opinion lawyers have to say about that here, especially when they didn't spend time with your wife in the delivery room. If anybody must complain about pains, it must come from either your wife or her doctor. As long as your wife is fit, without complaints about pain, all you need to change is PERCEPTION! Its all in the mind. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by koolaid87: 1:37am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Op, you no get sense at all. For this recession wey people dey busy, thinking of a way out. You are here bringing sh1t about your family affairs. You no get sense at all. How many weeks ur mother-in law won spend wey u no fit hold body. So what kind of advice you want oo? Make nairaland issue you a side chick? Ode! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by cococandy(f): 2:07am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Same thought here ifyalways: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Nobody: 3:23am On Apr 03, 2017 |
She can't be having sex with you when her Mum's around, her Mum must enjoy you first |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Blue3k(m): 3:24am On Apr 03, 2017 |
alfredo4u: Hell no if your my wife I'm getting it in. You better bite down on the pillow. What are you talking about. Foreal am I teeager that I should be seeking around. You own mom knows your no virgin so what's big deal. Explain it to her or tell her mom to talk to her. Honesty best policy don't cheat on her. If she don't want to give u sex tell her give u her mouth. If she's good let that hold u over til her mom goes. Ps: If she gets doesn't want her mom to hear her moan and you banging her guts out. Turn on TV, or some music or something. If nit tell her to bite down on pillow. Make it a quickie session and rest. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by abimic(m): 5:15am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Jodha:Are u saying they change what they do since in law was around, that means they're not true to themselves, in-law knows her daughter is married and for married people, bathing together is a norm except she wants her daughter's hubby being enjoyed by another woman because even men of God kiss their wife in church, she's now called wife, so nothing like bathing together is shameful or wrong, that shows their love waxes stronger dear. Never change because of people, always be true to yourself, whatever I do with my wife before in-law comes as long as it conforms with common sense, it's very illogical to stop such even if pastor comes to pass the night. 6 what?.. 6 months, that's too much nah..... . For a married man to stay 6 months without sex, did she deliver sextuplet?.. Bae calm down.. .. Good morning..... Happy new week.... |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Jodha(f): 8:57am On Apr 03, 2017 |
abimic: Been true to one's self has nothing to do with it... What of if they were having teenagers in the house.. They should still bath together and be true to themselves.... To the detriment of the children..what do yhu think would run through the teenagers minds seeing them go to the bathroom together?.. I didn't say it's wrong.. I only stated it'll be awkward since the mother in law is around.. Some things are best kept between the couple... I call that unnecessary pda.. The mother doesn't have to see them bathing together.. And oh yes! ... 6 months is the proper time for her to heal and regain and strength before anything... He should be able to control himself.. If he's truly a man.. Or did he marry his wife.. Solely for sex?.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Nobody: 12:15pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
alfredo4u:Your wife has got issues o. keep doing it without her offer. Even her mom could leave the room for you two to have your way on ur matrimonial bed. WTF! |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Nobody: 3:14pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
No wonder poor people have many children |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by abimic(m): 3:24pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
Jodha:Lol.. . Did he marry his wife solely for sex? Intimacy is paramount and the wife in question could have being of help to her husband by even making a suggestion but rather felt unconcerned, she's lucky to have a committed man even contemplating whether to do outside, if it were some men, just know a mistress is somewhere servicing him if doesn't disturb you for sex for six months and he's not even talking about it and how you both could help yourselves. The lady doesn't even seem sympathetic, she thinks it's her right to feel unconcerned, na when another woman more systematic than her finds her way in na dat time she go know say marriage no be child's play, that when it comes to sex, the two should learn to iron a common ground out comfortable to both parties, sex is really powerful, it can make or mar relationship talk more of marriage if a common suitable ground isn't agreed on. Nothing to keep within the couple, PDA is necessary after all they're married, if in law doesn't like it, the guy's mother can come instead, and what omuguo is happening after two months sef,wouldn't the in law go and meet her own husband too? Bathing together can be done strategically at some times in the day, that's y when the two couples are jasi, that can not be an issue, infact this in general is no issue, just that the wife is unconcerned and not helping matters either. When you marry an understanding woman, nothing would ever be a problem as she would make life easy and the man living long in good health. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by princechurchill(m): 8:37am On Apr 04, 2017 |
annnikky:Can we go private |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by annnikky(f): 8:49am On Apr 04, 2017 |
princechurchill: |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by 1234onyekwe: 3:48pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
Acidosis:this is the best write up so far. walai 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by jmoore(m): 10:04am On Apr 05, 2017 |
1234onyekwe:Bros, where are you from? |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by 1234onyekwe: 3:39pm On Apr 05, 2017 |
jmoore:why do u ask? |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by jmoore(m): 3:42pm On Apr 05, 2017 |
1234onyekwe:Your surname looks familiar. |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by Tabbaz(m): 4:19pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
gwashre: this idio is a scammer. Number 1 on the scammer list in my signature. 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex Just Because Her Mum Is Around. by timisquare82(m): 3:25am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Just two months you don dey knack? That place never heal now! |
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