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alfredo4u:
House, I know how helpful you guys have been. The last time I came hear was about my wife and I having argument for not saying thank ma to her mum.

Last night something happened. I'm staying in one bed room flat. Since her mum came for omugo/visit. I left the bedroom for them and start staying in the parlor. At night, I do expect her to join me in the parlor because our baby is two months and...

Last week, I have to beg her to join me in the parlor which she did. Three ocassions, I tried making love to her, she said... MY MUM IS AROUND AND WE SHOULD RESPECT HER PRESENCE. Seriously I got offended and did it without her offer. Up till now she don't like joining me in the parlor.

If I should do away runs now they will start complaining.

Pals you guys should pls advice me urgently because if this continues, I might do the otherwise.


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Firstly, I will like to say forcing your wife to have sex with her is totally wrong and unacceptable in a sane world. It could make her feel like a sex machine to you. So you need to apologise to her.
Secondly, you need to have a self control over your sexual urge. When was the last time you had sex with her before the delivery of the baby? Did you lose anything for not having sex with her? Your wife is still recovering from the stress of carrying your baby for the period of 9 months and the pain she went through during delivery and yet, you have sex with her by force. You did not even think over all these, all you wanted is sex. I can see selfishness in you. Yes, you may say she is your wife. But she is not a sex slave.
You are also considering a way match, that is not a way match but adultery. That could ruin your life totally if you go into it.
Please tame your sexual urge.

darioNaharis:
You sef, your baby is just two months and you want another sperm to win another race

That's why there's something called self-service. Get your mobile device, some lotion, some paper wipes and ease yourself

Xvideos oo, not waptrick

senior man

salabscholar01:
Calm down. Your inlaw knows the baby came through sexual intercourse. Take a break a little bit. Your wife, presently is feeling stressed after birth of that child. It feels to her like she is on another body entirely different from her usual body she use to have. Let her relax, talk and play with her. Buy her gifts and show appreciation for safe delivery. Believe me, you will be surprise she will give you a mind-blowing quickie amidst her tight schedule and your brain will be back to default setting. Communication is key.

Nice advice bro,that nigga needs to chill for Christ sake.The new baby is just two months!haba! this is the best time to shower the woman with excessive love and care,instead you're using it to muscle up power to bleep her again,bro u need Jesus in your life.treat your woman nice and she may decide to burst your balls without you asking.

@least have respect for yourself. your wife and her mother. considering the fact that you living in a room and parlour, you should try to work hard to rent a better place. if you can't control your urge, before anything make sure she is ready for u n her wounds in d V are healed, then you can book a hotel and have a nice time.

Thanks and God bless you for proving there are still faithful Nigerian men!

jeromzy:
to tell u the truth I've always bin faithful.if u start cheating, you'll find it hard to stop n you'll spend more money.

darioNaharis:
You sef, your baby is just two months and you want another sperm to win another race

That's why there's something called self-service. Get your mobile device, some lotion, some paper wipes and ease yourself

Xvideos oo, not waptrick

BADESS! I hail ooo

darioNaharis:
You sef, your baby is just two months and you want another sperm to win another race

That's why there's something called self-service. Get your mobile device, some lotion, some paper wipes and ease yourself

Xvideos oo, not waptrick

BADESS! I hail ooo. By the way who's your fav?

ifyalways:
Two children plus you and wifey in a room and parlour? And thats excluding visitors like Granny them.

Oga no vex but I think you should channel your energy on making more money so you can move your family into a 2 bedroom atleast.

Truly, it's awkward to make love in such a set-up knowing lil'baby can wake at any time, making Granny wake and then hear her daughter moaning. If Granny had her own room or there's a lil privacy like you and wife to a room by yourself, she might allow you cut show small.

Sorry o. Get your vaseline or soap and gba ncha.

You made 90 percent sense.

OP you need to grow up.

Oga if u cannot hold body until mama comot and your wife don fully recover from childbirth, then u no be man. Two months, haba!

alfredo4u:
House, I know how helpful you guys have been. The last time I came hear was about my wife and I having argument for not saying thank ma to her mum.

Last night something happened. I'm staying in one bed room flat. Since her mum came for omugo/visit. I left the bedroom for them and start staying in the parlor. At night, I do expect her to join me in the parlor because our baby is two months and...

Last week, I have to beg her to join me in the parlor which she did. Three ocassions, I tried making love to her, she said... MY MUM IS AROUND AND WE SHOULD RESPECT HER PRESENCE. Seriously I got offended and did it without her offer. Up till now she don't like joining me in the parlor.

If I should do away runs now they will start complaining.

Pals you guys should pls advice me urgently because if this continues, I might do the otherwise.


Thanks

Sincerely, I do not understand the tradition that makes a man give up his matrimonial room for any of the mothers' who come to assist in taking care of the baby. Sometimes it is the men that want to run away from the baby's night cries. It even happens even though its a 3bedroom flat so its not an issue of the OP's present accommodation. This is one of the downsides of that arrangement.
Putting myself in your wife's shoes, I will not be comfortable. Men are wired differently. A woman will ask the husband to ensure the door is properly locked before they make love while a man in the mood thinks of nothing else at that moment. You can then imagine how she will feel to be in such an open place making out with you. In fact, in her mind, she thinks her mum already knows what she is going to do when she joins you in the parlour and that alone makes her shy.
OP, I understand you also have needs that need to be met but the bottom line of making love is for the enjoyment of both of you. So be patient with her. Communication is key. Don't bridge this subject yet. Instead, on a consistent basis, tell her how much you appreciate her, ask her how she is feeling, buy little things for her when you return from work, assist around the house as much as you can then she will open up to your advances. Even if she won't want penetration yet, you guys could try other pre-intimacy and whatever else both of you are comfortable with.
Lastly, even though we know that Mummy will not come out on you guys because she knows, your wife will not be as comfortable as you expect. So, when is the omugwo coming to an end? Get ready to assist when it does so that the next complaint will not be 'I am tired'
NB. Before, you have another child, try to get at least a 2bedroom flat so that you can remain in your room with your wife and baby while grandma stays in the other room with your other children. This way, you can both be comfortable making love.
Hope this helps. Cheers

Modified: It was very wrong and childish to force yourself on your wife. Please restrain from doing such again. Also endeavor to seek her forgiveness and show you really mean it. Let me believe it was your first and last time of doing such. Self- Control Bro.

alfredo4u:
House, I know how helpful you guys have been. The last time I came hear was about my wife and I having argument for not saying thank ma to her mum.

Last night something happened. I'm staying in one bed room flat. Since her mum came for omugo/visit. I left the bedroom for them and start staying in the parlor. At night, I do expect her to join me in the parlor because our baby is two months and...

Last week, I have to beg her to join me in the parlor which she did. Three ocassions, I tried making love to her, she said... MY MUM IS AROUND AND WE SHOULD RESPECT HER PRESENCE. Seriously I got offended and did it without her offer. Up till now she don't like joining me in the parlor.

If I should do away runs now they will start complaining.

Pals you guys should pls advice me urgently because if this continues, I might do the otherwise.


Thanks

so u pple hav been doing it b4 her mum came? Maybe you should stylishly report her to her mum in her presence.

Her mums presence doesn't stop shiii. Abi she's forming virgin? Unless she's using as excuse to rest or she's shy or smth.

but pls b sure the kids never see or hear u guys getting down.

goonsmi:






You still sound like a kid bro.

It's obvious you like to bandy words on NL like the keyboard revolutionary that you are. I'm not going to condescend to your level by dignifying your insult with another.

Kids marrying kids.

LesbianBoy:
Op sorry to say, but your wife is senseless and have no respect for you! I am sure you are a "real man" thats why! First it was you not telling her mother "thank ma" after you finish eating IN YOUR OWN HOUSE now she is denying you sex! Chai! Real men dey suffer for their women hand o!

not even the mother in law even if it is his he got to show some appreciation, that's manners not fear but respect.

Sylva2147:
not even the mother in law even if it is his he got to show some appreciation, that's manners not fear but respect.

When you go to a party and you finish eating, i hope you greet every elderly person there

eezeribe:


Op,this is your second family issue on nairaland....
Are you the only married man on nairaland
Did you marry your wife on nairaland
Please stop congesting our cyberspace with your small family wahala.Thanks

I swear some people's comment on nairaland is a rib cracker any time

just go out and have sex .

SmartBug:
The hormones in your head are blocking your thinking faculty. Are you that desperate and willing to risk the happiness of your life for 10mins of pleasure?! Don't.

I mean, he even raped his wife and is unremorseful. What the actual fvvk??

SURElee:


Hahahahaha . Omo! See plot o! Good job, it just might help him.

Na so na. We GATS to help a brother o.

How old are you?

alfredo4u:


You won't understand... I have benefited so much from nairaland.

I love my family and nothing can change it. Nairaland is my second home. I confide in you guys because I only take the good advices and do away with the useless one that people like you give.

Today, I do say thank ma to my mother Inlaw and everybody around.

Unless you, you don't benefit and take the best advise as I do on this platform.

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correct guy...here is my advice chase ur mother inlas out right now..tell her u want to do kerewa n she no dey help mata n she hz to go...am a nairalander hope u ll tek my advice seriously..

princechurchill:
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What do you expect me to do after been alone through out the time of her pregnancy

So u can't stay without s3x for 5months abi

Do it in the present of her mum that is final solution

Did you FORCE yourself on your wife?! Isn't that marital rape?

Why won't she deny u wen she use to MOAN anyhow disturbing the neighbors

Is your wife a Fulani?

lifestyle1:
If my wife born i go wait at least six months make that place close and heal.

WHICH PLACE ?

lalasticlala:


LWKMH.
Nairaland's Special advisers over to you.

Boss himself I dey hail o.

u are just a heartless one,how could u,ur babe is just 2monts.check ur brain