Splinz:




This is not always true, most especially in this very case.

It is common sense that to an average guy out there, whether you dress like a reverent sister or an olosho, a simple 'Hi' from a woman is enough to resurrect "Johnny boy" to an unbreakable rod- hard and mighty.

So, it's never about the op as a person. Rather, it's a general phenomenon.

OLAJADON:

I understand what you saying. But try reasoning with what I wrote above, it also makes sense to the context.

OLAJADON:

I think this is about you not them, the kind of people you attract depends on the kind of person you are.
So ask yourself this question, who are you? How do you dress?, he do you address people? Which kind of environment did you find yourself in?
Also mind the type of cloth you wear, stop wearing seductive cloth. You make think those cloths make you look sexy but to some guy it present you as a potential prey.

cruchenuti:


So that you can pick your vaseline & get to work abi ?

queenice7:
since my heart was left Brocken in my last relationship a while ago. I haven't been able to fall in love, lost interest in relationship. I am interested in making true friendship with but sex, preferably male coz they are more selfless and so. friendship, just not to be lonely and to help or be provided help when the time comes. but most guys I meet aren't getting it. they just want sex. am dissapointed wen I have taken one as a brother, support his relationship, have constructive conversations with him, only for him to have de guts to ask me for sex. most of them sef, i will barely know them, and they won't even contribute anything to my life or spend a dime on me, not that am interested in their money, but true friendship, yet they channel our Innocent conversation to meeting in a hotel and having sex. I will be thinking these are responsible guys, as dey are perceived to be by others, like the latest is a young Pastor. am wondering where the problem is coming from, coz I am a reserved person.

NgoziOkoli:
A cheap hoe will always be treated as one!

Divay22:
meaning

ToriBlue:
Most guys are interested in sex.

NgoziOkoli:


You should be able to figure out what it means if your brain cells are working properly!

Benita27:
There's something wrong with you upstairs. So you have sex with any man you meet?.

Divay22:
I just have to ask because you are one

SmartBug:



And you have to make her feel like Trash?

NgoziOkoli:



Pls swerve into the gutter you truly belong.

Divay22:

Urukpe:
Let us be honest to ourselves, is there any guy that approach a gal without having the intention of bunking her? Some may beat around the bush, others will be straight forward in their approach.

Do not be deceive, all guys will bunk at the end, is only left for u to determine the time

BiafranBushBoy:
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MTCHEWWW...

Crappy write-up! Poor grammar!

stacyadams:
my problem with them naija babes is if u dont bunk or refuse to bunk,,them go call u mugun,,or ur not man enough one dey worry my life now,,,and im running.

ElizaVeta:
Them be bunkers

SonOfEl:
OP, The only "brothers" you can truly have today are your biological brothers and celibate brethren. Even daddies screw their daughters up these days.

Other "brothers" are dicey. It's not a strange thing though. A lot of girls out there have misrepresented what a 'sister friend' should be too.

Just handle every case with maturity.

But to be sincere, you need to watch how you present
yourself and The kind of conversation you make with guys. Every guy cannot be asking for the same thing na.....It raises eyebrows on your side.

Pastors (even priests) are human too, and are capable of being carnal when they do not 'watch and pray'. Their behavior does not take away the anointing from them. God knows how and when to handle their misbehaviour.

Anyway, I believe you will find a real male friend someday, just be patient with time.