queenice7:
since my heart was left Brocken in my last relationship a while ago. I haven't been able to fall in love, lost interest in relationship. I am interested in making true friendship with but sex, preferably male coz they are more selfless and so. friendship, just not to be lonely and to help or be provided help when the time comes. but most guys I meet aren't getting it. they just want sex. am dissapointed wen I have taken one as a brother, support his relationship, have constructive conversations with him, only for him to have de guts to ask me for sex. most of them sef, i will barely know them, and they won't even contribute anything to my life or spend a dime on me, not that am interested in their money, but true friendship, yet they channel our Innocent conversation to meeting in a hotel and having sex. I will be thinking these are responsible guys, as dey are perceived to be by others, like the latest is a young Pastor. am wondering where the problem is coming from, coz I am a reserved person.

Have U tried......ME?

ElizaVeta:
Bad Badoo Baddest

Badoo don straff u before?

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Diva and Ngozi, ladies be easy now, go easy on yourselfs... have a lovely sex free weekend dearies..

Urukpe:


Please define what u mean by real male friend?

A male confidante without romance attached. The male will be matured and strong enough to overcome desire to go romantic with you. They exist but they are rare.

SonOfEl:


A male confidante without romance attached. The male will be matured and strong enough to overcome desire to go romantic with you. They exist but they are rare.

Thank God u know they are rare. women are hard to understand, u never really know what they want sometimes. If those guys did not want to bunk her, she may complain in this forum that guys don't see her attractive and blah blah.

I don't make friends with a single lady if I don't want to bunk at d end, it's does not worth it, and honestly I don't think female want it that way in their heart too

Urukpe:


Thank God u know they are rare. women are hard to understand, u never really know what they want sometimes. If those guys did not want to bunk her, she may complain in this forum that guys don't see her attractive and blah blah.

I don't make friends with a single lady if I don't want to bunk at d end, it's does not worth it, and honestly I don't think female want it that way in their heart too

As a virgin at 29, ladies have vehemently accused me of staying so at that age. If I was promiscuous, they will still complain. I am still like this because I don't believe that sex makes me any greater. Actually, ladies are complicated beings.

Dear writer, I understand your plight tho...from your way of reasoning, I get u have not really spent much of ur time in Nigeria or you have a very different mentally as the average Nigerian which brings us to the sex part, it is as bad as we portray it,its just something that's bound to spontaneously happen between two opposite sex. ignore it and continue your quest,i have been on that quest too...to find a very good female partner that would go the extra limit for u and not have other things in mind and I have found quite a few I can lay my life for....

patosky3310:


As a virgin at 29, ladies have vehemently accused me of staying so at that age. If I was promiscuous, they will still complain. I am still like this because I don't believe that sex makes me any greater. Actually, ladies are complicated beings.

Virgin at 29, SMH

queenice7:
since my heart was left Brocken in my last relationship a while ago. I haven't been able to fall in love, lost interest in relationship. I am interested in making true friendship with but sex, preferably male coz they are more selfless and so. friendship, just not to be lonely and to help or be provided help when the time comes. but most guys I meet aren't getting it. they just want sex. am dissapointed wen I have taken one as a brother, support his relationship, have constructive conversations with him, only for him to have de guts to ask me for sex. most of them sef, i will barely know them, and they won't even contribute anything to my life or spend a dime on me, not that am interested in their money, but true friendship, yet they channel our Innocent conversation to meeting in a hotel and having sex. I will be thinking these are responsible guys, as dey are perceived to be by others, like the latest is a young Pastor. am wondering where the problem is coming from, coz I am a reserved person.

my dear u d same thing happened 2me. Since I left my last relationship (it was so bitter) 2 years ago up til now I hv nt gone into any serious relationship because I see all gals as d same unfaithful birches. But keep hope alive d right guy wil come 4u.

alexialin:
Op don't feel awkward . that's how most guys are wired . All they care about is sexx. It then depends on you to slate it down , when any guy is coming over to you for friendship. Spell it out loudly u are not up for anything sexxx and avoid sexx chat by all means . avoid private questions like when last did u have sexx? Which spot is your favourite ? Just tell him, guy! Cut it out ..that's too private for me to reply .
Can we change topic? He will become uncomfortable and get the message .
Just be straight and abrupt with them , when they start with such methods to seduce u or to make u want sexx. The ones who wants 2 have sexx will stop chatting with u. Then the real ones who likes u as just a friend , will have different topics to chat about ..
Babe filter your friends , very important.

girl you nailed it

patosky3310:


As a virgin at 29, ladies have vehemently accused me of staying so at that age. If I was promiscuous, they will still complain. I am still like this because I don't believe that sex makes me any greater. Actually, ladies are complicated beings.

keep d faith man.

rosieluv:

girl you nailed it

thanks dear

cruchenuti:

Virgin at 29, SMH

The above comment is a kind of comment made in a sexually depraved world.

joycesims:
Not peculiar to you alone, If you don't need a man for money and stuffs like that, then don't worry and don't give in either!

Its mostly common these days, almost every woman experiences that, just be true to yourself and you'll meet the exception you seek!

Na normal thing today!

Lol.