A lot of young guys are willing to marry their girlfriends but when you see the list of items to buy as tradition demands - my brother fear go catch you.

This is my story - I am getting married to a lady from IMO state, one of the places believed to be known for its top-level price list. Yes! I requested for the list after intro, with confidence that - nothing dey happen!...When they brought the list - even the envelope alone eh! fear go hug you - but I still went on to open it - yeeeeh! See requirements from Ngor Okpala, no be here ooo!

As a guy wey love him babe, I called her - discussed the stuff with her, and told her its too much. I am not after cost savings but marrying someone I love and at the same time, I have to also plan for my future family. She is an understanding woman and I love her so much. After much meeting with her mum, She led me to her key uncles - this is where I got the secret which I want to share.

Her uncle advised me to take my eye off the list and - ask mself, this bold question - How much can I afford? then discuss it with my woman and her mum....Once we agree - we should then work on the list, based on my budget and that is it.

I did exactly what he said, my budget for the list was 200k - but after much estimate, I arrived at 187k and gave the cash to her mum to help me buy the some stuffs on d list - we called the voice of the family, an uncle - and discussed the stuff with them. The truth is, if your wife love you, forget the list, tell her wat you have, even if its 50k.....discuss it with her mum, dad but if the dad is no more, call the elderly uncle and tell them.

Just be yourself - these elderly men are just wolf looking for where to eat, do you best my guy, carry her along and God will see your thru.

Thanks

Alright.

Na wa for Naija o. For India, na the woman family dey pay all these things o.

You are making me have hope in my Igbo GF...now I can have no fears to worry. Ify I am come for you bae

If you marry Yoruba girl
You wouldn't need to go
Tru all this.

200k can buy all the items in the list in my village but I doubt it will do same for mbaise .

Marriage has always been about negotiations. A man should not be afraid of the difficulties along the way in getting his dream woman. Weldone Bros