Ok.. men should date multiple girls likewise to avoid disappointments
what is good for the goose ia also good for the gander. abi nor be so?

I totally agree with d writer,getting married is like getting a job,u can't say becos u went for an aptitude test in a firm,then u shld cancel all other applications.
This is d reason why d baddest guys marry d best girls and d baddest girls marry d best guys...I've seen it happen a lot.

I believe thats her opinion, the one she's entitled to. #nuffsaid

The clutch go dey loose na

HungerBAD:
Lol.

This expert is not only encouraging Olosho-ism,but the distribution and re-distrubution of all kinds of diseases.

Fake expert.

Very fake expert
Him never talk wetin men suppose do in case them wan marry
So make guys dey faithful while their babes go de run olosho style between lag abj and ph
That expert full father
In short him real papa
Thunder go strike him future
May his wife Bleep multiple men to increase her chances of getting pregnant
If na woman, may many men taste her daughter and may her husband sleep with multiple women to increase his chances of having children
All these ppl encouraging oloshos and cheating among
girls, una hellfire no b only sulphur and brimstone they go use power am.

I concur.

The op make sense because I've seen some women who will be committed to just 1 guy for 4-7 years and at the end of it all, he would just dump her like a hot potato. Then she will now have to start from scratch again when her time is running out. So it make sense.

Halfpenny:
This makes perfect sense. No body said that you should sleep with them at all but you should go out on dates until one proposes commitment. This is nothing to do with sex to those shouting slut! It's about meeting other men and having a pool of men to choose from instead of waiting for 1 man to decide if he really wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Biggest pro of this kinda set up is that you won't be too attached to one man. I will definitely be considering it.

Quickest way to get an ulcer due to stress, I'll pass

Halfpenny:


Wow! You are like the only person who gets it. It's nothing to do with sex but rather socialising. This is an old school mentality. My mother and aunties used to say a beautiful woman should date (chat to ) 30 and chooses 1.

It's not about being a slut or a gold digger blah blah but about being a woman of value! Now they want us to grow old behind one boyfriend who will eat and use up your beauty and then tell you 2, 4, 6, years later that actually you're not his type or that he wants to be alone blah blah and now you're stuck dealing with low self-esteem and other issues. I recommend this approach to any smart woman.

Good.. one of the men is talking to 30 an prolly sleeping with 29 of them except you. If you are lucky to get married to that "one" he may still continue talking and talking to 29 of them. Tell me, how can you get to know "30" men so well and be convinced one is the right one. He is the right one simply because he proposes first... right?

You are the boss op

Halfpenny:


Wow! You are like the only person who gets it. It's nothing to do with sex but rather socialising. This is an old school mentality. My mother and aunties used to say a beautiful woman should date (chat to ) 30 and chooses 1.

It's not about being a slut or a gold digger blah blah but about being a woman of value! Now they want us to grow old behind one boyfriend who will eat and use up your beauty and then tell you 2, 4, 6, years later that actually you're not his type or that he wants to be alone blah blah and now you're stuck dealing with low self-esteem and other issues. I recommend this approach to any smart woman.

kimbra:
I couldn't have agreed more with her. Provided the lady's biological clock is ticking and your man isn't showing signs of seriousness.

Key word.

Keep it casual. You mustn't sleep with all of them. it's all about being open to other suitors instead of sticking with one time waster.

how will u know he's a time waster before u start cheating on him?u can't deny that the so expert is recommending that ladies should keep multiple partners wether the guy is good or not.. madam expert advocates that u should cheat and keep multiple partners weather u know ur guy is good or not all that matters is that the wedding rings at the expense of morality, sense and dignity

Now to all those in support of the OP, i've got a question for y'all


Can u propose to a lady who u know and have seen hanging around with 5 or 6 different men?


Definitely not me.


NL ladies support dis idea, expecially those practicing oloshoism

The problem with our women dese days is dat they see marriage as eldorado, a trophy, or their greatest achievement in life.
Some gals will even marry a monkey if it can propose 2 dem.

Wow the pure truth

incidentally that is through

It also applies to men if you really want to settle down with a woman who will understand you better and vice versa in other to have a happy marriage

Talking from experience

Word!!!!

morscino:
I totally agree with d writer,getting married is like getting a job,u can't say becos u went for an aptitude test in a firm,then u shld cancel all other applications.
This is d reason why d baddest guys marry d best girls and d baddest girls marry d best guys...I've seen it happen a lot.

MrBrownJay1:
Useless ignorant bloggers who turn into experts/counselors overnight. NONSENSE!!

Who be this one again? Must you insult her. Take it or leave it she has the said it all.

HungerBAD:
Lol.

This expert is not only encouraging Olosho-ism,but the distribution and re-distrubution of all kinds of diseases.

Fake expert.

But the expert is making a statement of facat. Men and women have multiple patners nowadays . It's just few .

Makes sense! Especially since we no longer have women in Africa but slay queens and pepperdem gangs. The funny thing here is that the so called women can date or bonk 10 guys at a time if they want to yet no marriage proposal. This is how it works, men naturally want a wife that is more decent than them, if your reputation is slay mama to ta lenu, then you cant be in the same category as mama Femi, good wife, good mother. This is how most sensible men think!

brownhawk:
how will u know he's a time waster before u start cheating on him?u can't deny that the so expert is recommending that ladies should keep multiple partners wether the guy is good or not.. madam expert advocates that u should cheat and keep multiple partners weather u know ur guy is good or not all that matters is that the wedding rings at the expense of morality, sense and dignity

exactly @ bolded. I make bold to say many people with problems in their marriages i.e cheating husband's are those that followed this principle.... and of course the man they are married to knows they prolly had several partners before they got married. A guy can't have the boldness to cheat on a woman and flaunts it to her face when he knows it was just the 2 of them. Any guy that does that has got no conscience.

kimbra:
Lol, I am sorry if my tone was harsh. You NL guys are fond of bashing women over trivial things. You needn't mention collecting money 'cause some ladies don't go into relationships with the sole purpose of milking their boyfriends.

lol "sole purpose" women in Nigeria the worst thing that can happen to a man

Expert ko imbeci-le ni

Uchesis:
Now to all those in support of the OP, i've got a question for y'all


Can u propose to a lady who u know and have seen hanging around with 5 or 6 different men?


Definitely not me.


NL ladies support dis idea, expecially those practicing oloshoism

The problem with our women dese days is dat they see marriage as eldorado, a trophy, or their greatest achievement in life.
Some gals will even marry a monkey if it can propose 2 dem.

Simple answer ues.if a man can propose to a certified prostitute then you guess is as good as mine .

HungerBAD:
Lol.

This expert is not only encouraging Olosho-ism,but the distribution and re-distrubution of all kinds of diseases.

Fake expert.

Fake indeed.

i recommend ladies looking for marriage to date multiple men but guide their pussies wisely...since marriage is the problem now, not love.

if you date 15 men at a time there's a possibility that 10 of will succeed in fvcking you and, at least, two will get you pregnant.

i wish you good luck still.

Even though they read the post, they will still not get it. I've come to the conclusion that 90% of NLers suffer from serious illnesses like ignorance and illiteracy

Giel:


you were able to get it,
some people won't read and understand the article and will rush to comment

Halfpenny:


Wow! You are like the only person who gets it. It's nothing to do with sex but rather socialising. This is an old school mentality. My mother and aunties used to say a beautiful woman should date (chat to ) 30 and chooses 1.

It's not about being a slut or a gold digger blah blah but about being a woman of value! Now they want us to grow old behind one boyfriend who will eat and use up your beauty and then tell you 2, 4, 6, years later that actually you're not his type or that he wants to be alone blah blah and now you're stuck dealing with low self-esteem and other issues. I recommend this approach to any smart woman.

what you women do to men is far worst. Selfish and deceptive creatures always claiming to be the victims

Uchesis:
Now to all those in support of the OP, i've got a question for y'all


Can u propose to a lady who u know and have seen hanging around with 5 or 6 different men?


Definitely not me.


NL ladies support dis idea, expecially those practicing oloshoism

The problem with our women dese days is dat they see marriage as eldorado, a trophy, or their greatest achievement in life.
Some gals will even marry a monkey if it can propose 2 dem.

you they mind them. Jealousy is a strong sign of true love.... the jealousy that's sin is envy not the one associated with True love. God himself claims he is a jealous God and advocates just one relationship with him and him alone. It's in human nature to want that person alone. People come to social media to promote what they won't take in real life.

Quinn22:
The op make sense because I've seen some women who will be committed to just 1 guy for 4-7 years and at the end of it all, he would just dump her like a hot potato. Then she will now have to start from scratch again when her time is running out. So it make sense.

have you not seen divorce cases after 6 months of marriage. Let's be reasonable here. There is no particular principle to getting married and staying married other than knowing your spouse an praying for God's grace.

Opakan2:
Ok.. men should date multiple girls likewise to avoid disappointments
what is good for the goose ia also good for the gander. abi nor be so?

Xactly my point! Does it not sound stupid?

See, jxt be honest and someone honest will come yhur way.

Imagine I'm dating a girl and she has other guyz she's seein d same way she's seein me all bcus she doesn't want to b disappointed.


Picture it dis way:

I take her out today.

The other oga takes her out tomorrow, then d other one a day after tomorrow and so on.

She tells me d same thn she tells d other guys.

Only an idiot will not see d stupidity in dis advise.

Even if she's miss world, I will so dump her silly as$.

kimbra:
Lol, I am sorry if my tone was harsh. You NL guys are fond of bashing women over trivial things. You needn't mention collecting money 'cause some ladies don't go into relationships with the sole purpose of milking their boyfriends.

.. It's a lie. They come 4 the money ooo