happy new year my pals.ope u guys re cool,am nt doing so well cos i have a problem dats rily weighin me down,if u guys remember, i told u how i broke up wt my bf,later found out i was pregnant,told him but he wants nothin with the baby whom i cnt abort,now my problem is dat my ex's olda bro who stays abroad came around during xmas,he paid me a visit,said his bro told him wat happened btwn us dat he,s sorry and happy at the same tym,i asked y?he said cos he loves me and wants 2 marry me,i knw he had a thing 4 me b4 he travelled bt i didnt knw it was serious,he said he had loved me 4rm wen he first saw me,i told him abt the baby being his brother's,he said its even better cos its the same blood,my dilemma now is dat,tho he is a nice guy and all,am nt in luv wt him and i dnt tink i will eva be,i nid a father figure 4 my baby cos i dnt want him 2 grow up witout 1,i dnt knw if i will eva see som1 who will be willing 2 marry me and my baby if i say no 2 him,will it be a mistake 2 say no 2 him even tho i dnt tink its ryt 2 say yes.could he be the saviour i nid?he's been spendin most of his tym wit me,helps me tru my chores,does my exercises wit me,just makes sure am comfortable but am getin afraid of the whole thing,i told him his family wnt be happy wt the whole thing,he says his family cnt decide 4 him,he's rily serious abt marryin me,says am d 1 holdin him in dis country now.i dnt knw wat 2 do/say.he says my word is all he nids 2 start making arrangements 4 us 2 travel out.he also said he saw my brk up wt his bro as God's plan 4 us 2 be 2geda.guys wat do u think?shld i say yes?am rily confused.

this is really complicated,if you love him you can marry him

tough 1,the only problem is dat he's ur ex's bro and u re not in luv with him,but i think u can find sm1 who will love u and ur baby if dis guy is nt meant 4 u,u just hav 2 PRAY and ask GOD 4 direction.

:-x