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Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by omerta07(m): 6:37pm On May 08, 2017 |
So I have noticed a disturbing trend. I manage a well established eatery/restaurant in the heart of Port Harcourt and once a while, I come to the lobby area to observe my customers. I notice that most times, when couples come to eat, the man takes his sit and makes himself comfortable while the woman runs around, makes the order and carries the food to the man. Mind you, we don't have waiters who you can call to place orders, you go to the counter yourself. Well, this may go down well for some men but personally I find it disturbing. |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by dingbang(m): 6:49pm On May 08, 2017 |
Then employ waiters for Christ sake! 3 Likes |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by Tolexander: 6:49pm On May 08, 2017 |
The woman of course! Base on a societal norms and values, the woman should do the serving. That is one of the characteristics of a "wife material". The man can do that at his own will. This is mostly done by men on the first date to act a "gentleman" role. That doesn't mean the lady should expect the continuity of such gesture. But men, if you don't have enough dole with you and you don't know the kinda lady on a date with you, abeg you in the name of your best cloth, order for the food and serve the lady o. So that you won't have to deposit your phone as collateral after the lady has ordered more than what you have in your pocket 2 Likes |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by doublewisdom: 6:51pm On May 08, 2017 |
The party who's not paying should do the running around. 1 Like |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by omerta07(m): 7:00pm On May 08, 2017 |
dingbang: Sorry we do not employ waiters. In quick service restaurants, the norm is to go to the counter, make your choice and place your orders. |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by dsmooth1(m): 7:03pm On May 08, 2017 |
d man should do the needfull,, na fast food resturant nt dia houz 2 Likes |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by omerta07(m): 7:06pm On May 08, 2017 |
Tolexander: Ok, now your referring to people in a relationship. For couples nko? married oh... |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by Rukkydelta(f): 7:10pm On May 08, 2017 |
Let me read comments |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by Kondomatic(m): 7:33pm On May 08, 2017 |
I have taken few ladies to restaurants and I ordered and served. I do same thing at home, my girlfriend is a guest in my house so I cook and serve her but this will change when I marry. By then it will be let the cook serve. I will serve if I cook and she will serve when she cook. 1 Like |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by xynerise: 7:36pm On May 08, 2017 |
A gentleman knows what to do |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by Tolexander: 8:59pm On May 08, 2017 |
omerta07:For couples, it is the responsibility of the wife if she is not caring the baby! |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by Nobody: 9:07pm On May 08, 2017 |
Get waiters and waitresses or continue to be disturbed. 1 Like |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by simplyhonest(m): 9:17pm On May 08, 2017 |
I feel any of them can serve... besides, every relationship is different. |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by omerta07(m): 9:19pm On May 08, 2017 |
Raine80: Again, we do not employ waiters. In quick service restaurants, the norm is to go to the counter, make your choice and place your orders. |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by theSpark(m): 9:25pm On May 08, 2017 |
Whoever is paying should run around. Except if they married then the wife does |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by bibijay123(f): 10:50pm On May 08, 2017 |
They should both walk to the counter and place their order.# problem solved 1 Like |
Re: Between Couples, Who Should Serve Each Other When They Eat Out? by Nobody: 11:08pm On May 08, 2017 |
[quote author=omerta07 post=56333952] Again, we do not employ waiters. In quick service restaurants, the norm is to go to the counter, make your choice and place your orders. [/quote Then if some women want to serve their husbands what can you do but only look and be disturbed by what you see. Which will then motivate you to come here and express how disturbing everything is to you. |
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