Abortions:
That Guy's stupidity has reached tertiary level

doctorate level. Why he's giving lectures of how he and d ones before him were stupid... op ur girl is a cheat but one who feels guilty afterwards. At least shes remorseful. But she has a very long way to go. She probaby hasnt been in a serious relationship before.... shes also a terrible lair. U can stay and teach her if she's willing to listen or stay and be d lab rat for her experiments. If yo willing to go d mile it means u will perform constant digging to check if she's tripping again. I don't support ds but one year is a long time. Dats investment sha..

Oyindidi:
Morning, how was your night? I'm listening

my night been get K leg..useless night I will never 4get d nyt

Abortions:
my night been get K leg..useless night I will never 4get d nyt

watin happen?

it appears, OP, you have an open relationship. fyi, an open relationship doesn't have to involve sex. flirting counts as well.

I'm sure you knew this all this while.

two immature children

Ahaahahahaha, op run for your life ooo just like the way I did..
I am a free MAN now

I understand ur situation its hard to let go ..but u must decide BTW letting her go and holding on to the pain coted in luv u are suffering from

lereinter:

two immature children

he needs an advice not reminding him his age

BTW are you seventy ?

Padiimii:


TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing.
And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.

That was what really got me confused man.
she was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart.

Bro forget the bold, all na emotional scam.

Reminds me of a babe I used to roll with, we had gotten so close and on one occasion she visited one thing led to the other and our clothes started flying at the speed of light, only for the babe to start crying with the excuse of me trying to make her do what she doesn't want to do. Tor! Been a sucker for tears, I sha started begging and appeasing that I won't make a move again until she is ready.

When my God will fight my battles for me, na she use her mouth confess say she dey FWB with one loser (meanwhile this is the same girl who made me feel like a monster initially). You can only imagine what went down afterwards.

OP YOU FORGOT TO MENTION SHE POSSES THE SAME ATTRIBUTES WITH KEZIAH.

Thank you so much guys.
Without you it wouldn't have been easy pulling off the break up.

.

Its now officially over between us and I have more peace of mind after ending it (because it's now clear that it wasn't my fault the relationship didn't work after all)

Nairaland and Nairalanders Una do well o.

Abortions:
Nerul wassup naw??hope u have taken ur breakfast??...if u haven't com lemme giv u breakfast am interested in breakfasting u this morning..

Hahaha..I'd love to suck your blood for breakfast

Shey you wee let me?

Padiimii:
Thank you so much guys.
Without you it wouldn't have been easy pulling off the break up.

.

Its now officially over between us and I have more peace of mind after ending it (because it's now clear that it wasn't my fault the relationship didn't work after all)

Nairaland and Nairalanders Una do well o.

Very good.. welcome to our league.. these whores ain't worth it

Lewaluv:
You must be a fool.

Honestly, you're the only confirmed fool here.


@Op. She has been on Facebook before you met her and she was pure right? But now you're scared because you have broken the seal that could prove if she's faithful or not.

What if I tell you that you worry too much?

dude theres nothing to think about here..when a girls way aint straight forward just pull the plug

Kondomatic:
Honestly, you're the only confirmed fool here.


@Op. She has been on Facebook before you met her and she was pure right? But now you're scared because you have broken the seal that could prove if she's faithful or not.

What if I tell you that you worry too much?

and ur foolishness is too much..

Kondomatic:
Honestly, you're the only confirmed fool here.


@Op. She has been on Facebook before you met her and she was pure right? But now you're scared because you have broken the seal that could prove if she's faithful or not.

What if I tell you that you worry too much?

Exactly my thoughts too bro. That was what really confused me man.

Abortions:
That Guy's stupidity has reached tertiary level

savage

PhD level if u ask me

Padiimii:


TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing.
And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.

That was what really got me confused man.
She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart.

crying is blackmail...don't fall for that

This is what I would do if I were you; I would act cool and lovey then bang the hell put of her. I'll fxck her so much till I'm fully satisfied then I'll break up with her.



I'll tell her I can no longer puy up with her bullshit and say my goodbye.




But if you foolishly think you can change her then you're even more mumu than I thought

Terryindeed:
Una wicked o, una just dey suggests breakup breakup every and everytime, you said it that's she's a good girl except this Fbk stuff, bro from Man to Man, every girl likes attention especially from someone they don't know, she enjoy the attention and making them like her the more is to play their games. Would you be happy if no guy toast your babe? Cmon chill jor. Have it at the back of your mind that she's yours, and your sef stop going through her Fbk unless you wan kill yourself. The best way to get over it is to discipline yourself. The most important is the kpekus n her loyalty to you. My papa say na when woman dey your house na that time she b your own, when she lives, na another person own.

you make no sense.

Udonminit ,

Young men are talking about money and more money you are talkin abbout girlfriend in these country where girls are very cheap once you have money.
Except you want to get married soon and need a good girl,there is no need breaking your head for naija girls,go and make money.

Bro honestly she's playing smart with. She claims she still loves you because she knows those her online niggas won't take her serious the way you do. So bro just ditch am

Olosho

Senior man abeg play along and flirt along, no private places for her, at least it will reduce ur risk of having heart attack... Any gurl around me that is not straight forward omo i will follow u as u want am o.... Our naija gurls always feel they are smart, while at the end we know who cries more..

Padiimii:
Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help.
Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers.
Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman.
When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends.
Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see.
After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love.
Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter)..
I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.

PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here?
EDAKUN EPP ME

pix of the babe pls?

this one nah proper AREA GIRL.She can't CHANGE. U marry her,nah ONE CHANCE be that.May u not commit murder. Leave her b4 God leave u