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Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by DexteryJoe(m): 3:54pm On May 25, 2017
Ever caught her cheating on u?, No, so y wld u break up or bother, I think she is just being kinky, I know u love her, but chill bro, she has assured u, y dont u just give her d trust she needs and watch how everytin plays out
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nackzy: 3:55pm On May 25, 2017
What's her Name on FB are you sure she's not manipulating the both of us.. U should know Wat i mean...
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Jacob16: 4:08pm On May 25, 2017
My brother run run run for your life......that babe da work on your and if u end up getting married...... All this will not end
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by chuksdavid28(m): 4:13pm On May 25, 2017
with the way u sound ur clearly still in love with her broh....buh truth be told dating a flirty babe is one thing buh nursing thoughts of marrying one is disaster in capital letter. it's ur call anyways
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by sansid(m): 4:23pm On May 25, 2017
Bros, I was in a relationship some years back with a lady that had alot of online friends especially males. Anytime I let her know I am not too comfortable with those are online friends she would always tell me I am the only one she loves.
To cut the long story short, she lied. I learnt in a bitter way! My advice to you bro is ' Run!'
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 4:40pm On May 25, 2017
You can't make a ho a housewife
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 4:40pm On May 25, 2017
wayne4loan:
why u dey beef ur fellow girl








Says Who
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by israelmao(m): 4:49pm On May 25, 2017
Thank God he is not your wife yet.
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by israelmao(m): 4:50pm On May 25, 2017
Thank God she is not your wife yet.
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by omomummy13: 5:02pm On May 25, 2017
Padiimii:
Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help.
Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers.
Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman.
When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends.
Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see.
After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love.
Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter)..
I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.

PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here?
EDAKUN EPP ME

Ode oshi...
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by miccollo47: 5:22pm On May 25, 2017
Padiimii:
Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help.
Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers.
Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman.
When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends.
Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see.
After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love.
Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter)..
I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.

PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here?
EDAKUN EPP ME



Please kindly send me the girls full contact details so I can epp u talk to her very well. Sheybi u don't want to av sense ni. Let me epp u take my own piece of the national cake.
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by miccollo47: 5:23pm On May 25, 2017
Padiimii:
Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help.
Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers.
Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman.
When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends.
Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see.
After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love.
Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter)..
I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.

PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here?
EDAKUN EPP ME


Please kindly send me the girls full contact details so I can epp u talk to her very well. Sheybi u don't want to av sense ni. Let me epp u take my own piece of the national cake.
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by israelmao(m): 5:44pm On May 25, 2017
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Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by ManTiger(m): 5:50pm On May 25, 2017
You need to up your game in harvesting her honey pot.
If you're up to the task, she won't be fantasying about guys worktool
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 6:08pm On May 25, 2017
Bro truth is let her be..... She's obviously not been sincere at the least.. Please let her go.. Spare yourself someone pain and her (cos nowadays boys new hack their gf's to death) so let her go
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Seanjay(m): 6:43pm On May 25, 2017
Billyonaire:


You have met a bad type.

The heart is for love and the brain is for reasoning, but it seems you have fallen in love with both your heart and your brain. When this happens, you become a slave of your own emotion. There is no point hurting you more by emphasizing that you are in a relationship with someone whose emotion is not with you. Ask yourself - Before she demands Porns from guys, what is going through her mind ?

The love emotion is one great force which unites the world, but it is also the greatest trap. Know when to love and who to love and when love betrays, its best to terminate and move on without ruining your dignity and pride.

She is meant for the street. Wish her luck and cry for the pain. It is something you must face on Earth before Death calls.


Sir the Gods have blessed you with plentiful brain and may it never depart you for this your comment
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by ade712: 7:34pm On May 25, 2017
@op

Women have a lot of fantasies!

It seems to me that you are not fulfiling these fantasies with her.

Try to adjust and she will not look outside again.
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by tk4rd: 9:31am On May 26, 2017
Padiimii:


TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing.
And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.

That was what really got me confused man.
She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart.
You can only break her heart by cheating on her, and not by ending a relationship you are no more comfortable with.
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Bowlexzy(m): 11:40am On May 26, 2017
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Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Ladychiny: 2:00pm On Jun 17, 2017
From your story...i see that you are a wise guy. You know how to handle issues...so lemme just add my contribution... Please break up with her ASAP. She is just hanging on with you whilst looking for other men....such discontent go put you for big wahala in the future. Even if you no get money...she should respect and stick to you...no need for plenty lies and pretending.... I hope you read this shaa

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