Joyful

Yes

Is your wife on Badoo

Waiting for the NL association of prostitutes and their male fvckboys to come and blame the OP.

OP, my advice to you is to instill the fear of God in that woman, once she knows you can be as calm as a lamb but as dangerous as a volcano, she would comport herself sharply.

NwaObinkita:
Is your wife on Badoo

I take God beg you, no let laff kill me here, I dey chop pepper. U sef sabi that zone?

Both parties are not matured walahi

You people just keep making someone scared of marriage.

Your wife is the problem, she is still giving her Ex "hope." guys we love hope ehn, we go turn to "Mario."

FemiFemola:
You people just keep making someone scared of marriage.

You should be. I wouldn't advise the Commitment. 90% of people are not ready for it. Too many people are there for the obligation and responsibilities, not for the other person in it. If I knew what I know now about Marriage before, I'd have stuck to my original plan of just having kids without having to marry some guy. Hindsight is 20/20 and what's worse, 90% of the married posters here feel like this. They just won't tell you because Misery likes company.

You should just go and check your children's DNA.

she is already cheating on you give her a warning and if she refuses to change, a certificate of divorce is needed

I am the EX

Bros Na olosho you marry oo talking to an ex ke chia watch your back

If your partner doesn't trust it, just know she is doing something bad

I think you have a very good woman as a wife. Let me tell you why.

Your wife obviously was very close to her ex. It is obvious that the issues she had in the marriage made her confide in someone she thought was a close friend. The fact that he was married too made her more comfortable. Unfortunately, he turned out to be an opportunist. Immediately she discovered he had ulterior motives she backed away and let it be. That's a good woman. People make mistakes and she didn't even commit adultery but fled from it.

She is a bit foolish and immature though but good because she told you. Most women won't ever tell you what happened but because she has a simple mind and an innocent spirit she did.

Poster, can you come out here and say truthfully that you haven't had an extra marital affair since you married her? She probably discovered one or two of your flings and she decided to retaliate during a fight by saying that she went to see a man. She didn't see any man. She came back late because she spent time with a female friend complaining and vowing to teach you a lesson. She said she was with a man simply to prove to you that she too can be found appealing by someone outside. No woman unless she is feeding you will ever admit or flaunt her infidelity to your face.

You should sit down with you wife and in a civil manner tell her what you think she has done wrong. You people should sort it all out in one night and there should be no secrets or secret movements between you two.

Lastly know that there is no perfect marriage. Don't listen to anyone here saying she is a prostitute because you know she isn't and that is why you wifed her. I wish you both the best.

jagugu88li:
Sorry if I sound harsh or careless here but, so far all I see is two udults playing hide amd seek. So much that I havent even figured out what the actual problem is between you two.

So you'll rather tell on your wife than get rid of her? Beacuse I think you have concluded that she is cheating. The funny part is that even with that unspoken conclusion, you still are willing to keep her. The problem you habe is with your wife, not her ex. Deal with her.

Fire produces smoke.

The post above me. Please have respect for the lady. She is afterall still his wife. I dont think your choice of words will sit nicely

Never done this (complement) here on NL before. "There is Something special about you".

kaffy4tope:
Don't blame the 'Ex'...Blame the prostitute you married as a woman that body language still gives the 'Ex' some hopes.



Are you sure the so called Ex have not or still banging your wife??

You can make your point without insulting the woman

A woman you called wife told you to your face that she went out to Bleep a bigger dick? Looking you in the eyes?

Such disrespect. Is this how you want to live out your life on God's beautiful earth?

When dey say marriage is for better for worst, i tink dis is one of d "Worst part" u r experiencing. but fighting dirty wont solve d issue. since u want to make ur marriage work, den focus on hw to make ur wife grow up and for her to understand wat marriage really means

rogovo20:


Thats why I tried to interrogate her to know if they saw each other, she said they never did, theres no how to know that, only Jah does. But the only thing that gave me a feeling they saw each other was the ring she pulled, her version of the reason why she pulled it sounds RED FLAG to me. In modern days now, some men and women who cheat always remove their ring aside.

do you expect her to tell you they had sex?, nope nope, just pray those kids are yours.. believe me she still love her ex. do you asked why they broke up?

When the eyes go patiently, it sees the nose.. you have seen her, your evidences is not enough to get her across the board. With yours narration, your wife have spared hubby or you might be the spare one as in this case.. Be wise, gathering momentum is not as good having real evidences to confront her..

That guy laid your wife.

I can bet anything with it.


I will advise you to go and do DNA for all your children.

You might not be dt lucky.

The ring she removed was in preparation for sexcapades for that day.

Most ladies respect that ring so much and won't have it around when they want to go wrong because of their conscience.

That nonsense excuse that you were watching ass and she removed her ring is rubbish. Why are u that naive ?

On the response she gave you that she went to fck a bigger dick. Yes she did.it might not be that day, it might be days before.

Most ladies have a way of confessing if you are sensitive enough you will grab it.

Imagine, I have gone to Bleep a bigger dick outside and later said it was a joke.
" Don't forget what a man says when they are angry"

U don't have anything with her ex, it obvious ur wife is still in love with her ex. If u can live with a woman who is in love with another man go on, if u can't u know what to do

How long was the dating before marriage?

Deal with urself not you wife ex which your are a third party to the contract.

See the secret of long marriage is not faithfulness is it continuous forgiveness.

stop poking into your wife privacy and stop suspecting her.she will come to her senses.

rogovo20:
Hi Nlanders,

Happy Childrens day to all the daddies and mummies. Quick one, my wife and I are 6 years into our marriage with 2 kids, from the inception of our marital union we have always had issues that stems on trust, we both have that issue, and when I say trust, it has
to strictly do with her bickering into my phone and finding somethings not worth shouting or condemning me for, rather for communication, but she does otherwise. In her own case, it had to do with her ex she always talked about when we courted for a short period before marrying. She told me she called him to seek advise and confide in him, told her to stop and threatened fire n brimstone, but later found out that she saved the guys number with another name, gave me excuse as to the reason she did it.

One faithful day, a year after marriage, 5 years ago to be precise, she had gone to the school she worked as a teacher, there also she takes my dauther who resumes at the day care there. 2 hrs later, she called me crying over the phone that there was an accident, I asked what happened, she said my daughter of 9 months old then had a severe deep cut on her lips that I should rush down. Immediately, I left and branched at the clinic where she was being stitched, I felt for the poor baby, because at that age with such injury was not nice. Immediately, I told her that we'll leave for home for the day. The clinic was not far from the school where she parked her car, so I asked for the key so I could go ahead and pick the car so we can all be going home. On reaching the car, I saw her wedding ring kept in the glove compartment. Was surprised because she always wear it, and wore it out to work. At that moment, was more worried about my daughter.

We got home, and I asked her why her ring was in the car instead of her finger,she said the reason why she removed it was because last Sunday I was staring at a girls ass and she was mad about it. In which I did, but didnt do it deliberately or seemed too obvious, I use style look, and it was more of a reflex, I am human. I apologized that very day, but to think after then, she decided to remove her ring because of that? RED FLAG. I kept my mute. Once in a while throughout the years, when we still have arguments, I ask her that I still wonder why she removed her ring, that it cant be the issue of ass staring that would make it that bad for her to do that. She kept on saying it was the reason. 5 years into the marriage now, we were having a deep discussion, then she started saying things about what happened during our early stage of marriage, that she called her ex, because that was the only person he knew as a bf then, reason why she confided in him, that he talked about leaving his wife too with two kids and run away to Canada with her bla bla bla. But the major thing about her point was that, she discussed the issue of me stearing at another womans ass with him, that was when the guy started packaging some stories that entered her head, which was the reason why she removed that ring on that faithful day. Wow! She now stated that she noticed he was trying to seduce her by seeing her, that he went to the extent of saying, if I should come and see u at that ur place of work, I might be forced to kiss you, stating that was when she knew he was trying to use words to have him come around, so he could have sex with her. I told her that whats the probability that they have not been seeing, she said NEVER. But then I reminded her of the day we had issues, she came back from work late, and I asked where she had gone, she replied by saying, I went to go and have sex with someone that has a bigger joystick that urs. She later denounced that it was a joke to get at me, its possible,, and it could be true.

Nlanders, sorry for my long story, if i dont put it down well, u wont know my stance on this issue, I wont say am a saint when I started this marriage, but I have changed, this woman up until now has not, I have another post to share right after this. Now my question here is, I WANT to keep my family regardless of whatever, but is it wise to Bleep that ex up? Because of what she told me he said, to me hes trying to spoil me to get into my wife, thats if he has not, because I one way or the other found this her ex wife number. And I have evidences to prove that she has been in communication with my wife. Or should I just let God judge? Cos as I bad reach b4 I marry, I have never, and will never sleep with a married woman, nor will I ever try to sleep with an ex who is already married. Sincere opinion needed.

your wife is in trouble..

missomo:
I think you have a very good woman as a wife. Let me tell you why.

Your wife obviously was very close to her ex. It is obvious that the issues she had in the marriage made her confide in someone she thought was a close friend. The fact that he was married too made her emote comfortable. Unfortunately, he turned out to be an opportunist. Immediately she discovered he had ulterior motives she backed away and let it be. That's a good woman. People make mistakes and she didn't even commit adultery but fled from it.

She is a bit foolish though but good because she told you. Most women won't ever tell you what happened but because she has a simple mind and an innocent spirit she did.

Poster, can you come out here and say truthfully that you haven't had an extra marital affair since you married her? She probably discovered one or two of your flings and she decided to retaliate during a fight by saying that she went to see a man. She didn't see any man. She came back late because she spent time with a female friend complaining and vowing to teach you a lesson. She said she was with a man simply to prove to you that she too can be found appealing by someone outside. No woman unless she is feeding you will ever admit or flaunt her infidelity to your face.

You should sit down with you wife and in a civil manner tell her what you think she has done wrong. You people should sort it all out in one night and there should be no secrets or secret movements between you two.

Lastly know that there is no perfect marriage. Don't listen to anyone here saying she is a prostitute because you know she isn't and that is why you wifed her. I wish you both the best.

How you sure she didn't have a romp with the bigger dick'd ex that night?

kaffy4tope:
Don't blame the 'Ex'...Blame the prostitute you married as a woman that body language still gives the 'Ex' some hopes.



Are you sure the so called Ex have not or still banging your wife??

Gbam

Bros dont embarass yourself. That man would expose her and disgrace you if u try it. Respect Urself and tame ur woman.
That joke is too expensive and to even say it out then shes probably thinking it and u making her make a fool of u with ur...dnt knw aw to call it. Ease up. Let her knw u got this no joke nd if she wont be real with u a 100% she can take a hike.

We ladies know how and when to keep men at bay and ur wife could if she wanted to. After 6yrs!!!! Shes bored and shes flirting. Tame her before it escalates

Your wife told you she went to have a bigger dick than yours, in your own house Where (I assume) you are paying the house rent A woman you paid her bride price

Even if na joke...ayayayayayayaya

Only God knows the kind of men we have nowadays...smh. Steel has been replaced by fat!

Pus.ssy asss nigas everywhere!