I keep wondering, I think she'll be taking in all the time if she sleeps beside me every nite. Lol. I'm afraid I'll get used to her too quickly. What are the pros and cons of sharing the same bedroom with your wife? Guys, would you do it?

Yes. Brings them closer the more.

Slepn together always doest mean d gud thins hapen always.it promotes unity and u bond better.pls encourage it.spend time in bed nd gist til sleep comes.let d kids giv u privacy.put dem aside(in baby cort or wt d maid.pls bed time is d best time 2 bond.let her slep in ur arms.use it bed time well.

Yes. . . . .it is important.

How?

u mean how would they share bedroom? i am sure u can figure that out

even if u sleeps with her always and u know the withdrawal method u won't be worried like u re now

Re: Must A Man Share The Same Bedroom With The Wife?

Do I look like a masquerade that he's running away from me?

yes. If you wont then dont marry.

davidylan:

yes. If you wont then dont marry.

True Dat

What's d point of having each other if yu wouldnt sleep in the same room?

Moyola:

What's d point of having each other if yu wouldnt sleep in the same room?

Na wa oh, so u mean they are together so they could share same room?

Mahhn! obviously there're other things to it. . . uhhmn?!!

Moyola:

Mahhn! obviously there're other things to it. . . uhhmn?!!

U scare me there, cos u made me think that the woman married the man cos she cant afford to the rent all alone

Fhemmmy:

U scare me there, cos u made me think that the woman married the man cos she cant afford to the rent all alone

Hao kan yu f!nk dhat?

Moyola:

Hao kan yu f!nk dhat?

Cos the mind of human is so polluted these days

Actually, I am thinking in that line too. Imagine if you have wife and she want to sleep and you are not in the mood of sleeping. You want to read or just like I used to do, scatter my old school books and papers and read them all over.

Living with someone in the same room can be very inconvinient, even if that person is your wife.

Tsiya:

Actually, I am thinking in that line too. Imagine if you have wife and she want to sleep and you are not in the mood of sleeping. You want to read or just like I used to do, scatter my old school books and papers and read them all over.

Living with someone in the same room can be very inconvinient, even if that person is your wife.

@Tsiya I know the feeling I am a night person waking up most nights around 2 to 5 a.m if I stay in the same room with my wifey she complains I am disturbing her with moving up and down, If I go to another room she complains of abandonment!

It promotes a healthy and more committed relationship.cant imagine sleeping apart.

Tsiya:

Actually, I am thinking in that line too. Imagine if you have wife and she want to sleep and you are not in the mood of sleeping. You want to read or just like I used to do, scatter my old school books and papers and read them all over.

Living with someone in the same room can be very inconvinient, even if that person is your wife.

What are you talking about.
I am sure you will have a home with living rooms, study area and even another room.
So we are not saying you have to go to bed at same time, you could stay up late to do your thing and all that, but when you ready to sleep, it is sane to sleep beside your wife.
However, even when u reading, i think it is sexy for the woman to sleep on your lap while you read or do what you wanna do, it makes u to grow together and be happy together.

I heard it is good and brings them closer but I like to have my own space. I am not keen on sharing a room with anyone. I would rather have my own room to maintain my own space but we will sleep together everynight.

Sharing the same room is best. It helps to build and keep the bond.

Pampers:

Slepn together always doest mean d gud thins hapen always.it promotes unity and u bond better.pls encourage it.spend time in bed nd gist til sleep comes.let d kids giv u privacy.put dem aside(in baby cort or wt d maid.pls bed time is d best time 2 bond.let her slep in your arms.use it bed time well.

You have said it all!

I don't really support it.I prefer having my own room to myself because i am a kind of person that needs privacy all the time.

Wrex:

I don't really support it.I prefer having my own room to myself because i am a kind of person that needs privacy all the time.

Sorry to disappoint you boy.As soon as u get married you've lost that privacy.

@ Poster, if the topic you raised is actually what's in your mind then future brides should be ready for hard times ahead.

Ain't nutin wrong with having different bedrooms. Infact, it keeps romance alive when u visit each other wid 'gifts'. Remember how it used to be when u were courtin? Passions ran high, gist was sweeter on each visit! I recommend it!

Wrex:

I don't really support it.I prefer having my own room to myself because i am a kind of person that needs privacy all the time.

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hbabe:

I heard it is good and brings them closer but I like to have my own space. I am not keen on sharing a room with anyone. I would rather have my own room to maintain my own space but we will sleep together everynight.

i think this settles it all.

Big deal !
What if she likes to read late into the night with the light on and hubby can only  sleep with lights off?
What if he snores like a goat and she can't get to sleep ?
Divorce ?

I feel down if i am not beside my wife, so in my own case it can't happen.

I'm a private guy as well. But when it comes to you and your wife, the situation is different. Having different rooms when you're married is what our parents do when they have a big house. At least, a lot of the ones I've been able to see in Naija. My take is share the same room. It's called marriage and love.

And I am soooooooo wondering why would my husband not want to share same room with me!! Not just the bed right? Like sharing the whole room room right??