If u're married & u don't share d same room with your wife, it simply means what u have is what xtians call d 'permissive will',  because wen u're married to d 'perfect will' , nothing in dis world will make u want to sleep in a separate room from your second-half (if u're truly one). When u start talking about privacy in marriage, u're breaking d bond.

@ topic I don't think it's compulsory,whatever works for you.I'd like to have my own room as I think it will be alot more fun 'visiting' your spouse,besides,it must get tiring seeing someone everytime you look around,but that's just me.

It is not a must, It is a rule, an agreement u both made in the presence of everybody on the day pf ur wedding, I cant imagine my husband in a separate room, I will have my personal room like the one i can put my stuff, but my husband's room is the masters bedroom and the matrimonial room, hence we must share it together, when couple begin to sleep separately, then something is going wrong

i've learnt from my parents not to seperate rooms no matter how big d house is,i hav friends who hav really come of age still livin wt their parents,they say they know d parents hav sex anytym d mother sleeps in d father's room.n wen u hav adult children u hav to be tip-toeing to your husband's room in d middle of d nite n unfortunately in recent tyms there is no more midnite for kids cos its either freecalls or internet browsing.d only disadvantage is wen a second wife comes n u r already used to sleepn on d same bed wt your husband

when u r sharing d same bed u easily make up in d nite after d days misunderstandn,as fr me i cuddle up to him as a means of sayin i'm sorry,it is a good way of bonding.

its getting more interesting here

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Most women have their designated rooms but do not stay there, they keep their things there and "big" daughters stay there, in some cases. However, in some homes the easiest way to know when Mum and Dad are quarrelling is when Madam relocates to her room.

I don't think so. Separation is sometimes necessary so that one heart may grow fonder of the other.

Not a must but recommended.

Make i ask o! Hw many rooms dy dis house wey we dey talk of? Whr d chdrn them go slp? Slp togeda jare

YES! why would anyone suggest otherwise? Separate rooms and small small things begin to crawl in. Night text chats with other people small small, na so closeness go dey reduce.

@poster dont lie u are gay. why wont u wanna sleep next to ur wife

This is funny.

There is no hard and fast rule about sleeping in the same bed as your spouse.  I'm the one who - supposedly - causes the disturbance, so I alter my routine to suit.  Marriage is about compromise. 

If you have a house with enough rooms, by all means it will be easy to sleep in separate rooms.  Just make sure they're not at opposite ends of the house (very creepy!)

On the other hand if that isn't for you, invest in a Super King-sized bed.  There's enough space in it for you to pretend to be sleeping on your own.  You can banish her clutter elsewhere 

During d early stages of marriage, YES.

As time goes on, it wears out & they c d need 2 sleep separately.

i think its good for huby and wife to sleep together, for those talking about the wife getting preggers everytime, whatever happened to contraceptives?

i keep my stuff in my room, and keep myself in hubys room

A man and his wife needs to sleep in the same room. QED

Practising same room scenario now and I thought I will need a separate room when next we expand our base but was I wrong. Moving around here and there often, compelling me to seek my bed and my wiffy by my side every time.
Be careful what u wish for until u actually arrived at the scene.

Good but not compulsory

No share the same room.make she sleep for kitchen.lol. . .dont get scared of gettin too attached.get attached!

No you don't have to share the same room.
Make it a rule though to sleep together every night.

I suggest they sleep in separate rooms during weekdays and sleep in the same room on weekends. That way, they have their space during the week and, hopefully, anticipate spending the weekend together in the same room, which probably mimics their pre-marital sleeping conditions.

well at the early stage of the marriage is good they always sleep together its strengthens the bond, and increases the fondness for each other, but at their old age they  might want to sleep apart sometimes

gidson12:

well at the early stage of the marriage is good they always sleep together its strengthens the bond, and increases the fondness for each other, but at their old age they  might want to sleep apart sometimes

And what is your reason why they should sleep apart? I think that is even when they need to further strengthen the bond because their children have all grown up thus there will be a shift of attention from their kids to themselves

What if the man or the lady snores??

Yes it is compulsory unless one of them is seriously sick and cannot share a bed.

yea. sure.

OMG!!! why would you ask that question?
If you know ur winnie cant stay put then buy and use protection always. Pulling out when u r about to cum does not work at all cos we(men) have lil johny flowing (sex education - Biology) little by little during the whole process. There are lots of birth control meds (pls ask ur doctor) out there for use by either partner. I guess this is one of the reason Nigeria need to adopt sex education to teach about this and more,

Its nice if dey maintain separate rooms if they can afford it. Though that doesnt mean dey arent gonna b sleeping 2gda,NO. The man could have his things in his own room and the wife in her own separate room. But at night dey sleep 2gda. Just like my Dad and Mom. LOL

Oh! funny question.

Do you expect your wife to have a separate room?

Then why did you get married in the first place if you can't share a room with your wife?

In my own view, it unites the family 'cos that is the best time to plan for the family: to talk about your children, yourself, share your problems together, way forward for the family in general.

Even, if you both quarrel during the day (of course it happens), it's when both of you are on the same bed to sleep it is best settled.

Try to adapt to it for the best in your family.

Since av known my mom & dad, they ve been sharing the same room and even eat from the same plate. We always have extra rooms in our houses, but no the would never seperate rooms.
When i hear a question like this from people it always sound strange to me. Thats is the normal thing married couple are expected to do.