Hey nairalanders, am a 300l med student n i need ur help.
I had this guy dt was my first crush wen i was in secondary skul, he is 8yrs older dan i am n hes my family friend, so he took me lyk his younger sis.
I think he startd to like me wen i was in 100l bt den i'd already forgoten about wateva feelings i had 4 him. I dint av a real boyfriend until i got to 200l, a 500l med guy too. I wasnt too in luv wit him, bt i was okay wt him until i mentioned him to my mum. He's a nupe n am yoruba, mumsy said No.
Meanwhile, dis my 1st guy has bn callin me n profesin his undyin love. Now, i told mum about him n she encouraged me to go out wt him cos 'hes a very good boy'.
I got tired of d nupe guy who i know loves me to an xtent of obsesion, i broke up wit him, n went out wt my first guy.
5 months now n am not realy in lov wt him. Am feelin guilty about my nupe guy cos he's actin weird, den am pitying mysf too cos am trapd in a relationship wt a guy am nt crazy about even though he tries to make me do.
Am confused. I dont want to hurt anybody again n i dont want my boyfrends family to hate me,