Hi Nairalanders,
I dont know if to say this is a problem or what, but it goes like this. I have some female friends, some of them are very close and intimate to me. But for some reason, i cant seem to say the phrase "I love you" to any of them. I cant think of mentioning the word LOVE even to the ones i gone to bed with. Infact the one or two i ever told 'i love you" , i often keep feeling guilty that i am lying to her. So i always avoid such words. I cant say that any of them is my girlfriend. Is there something wrong with me?? what should i do?? a friend said i havent found the right one, but am tired of this.
Your suggestions are welcome.

Honesty is the best policy. Never say "I love you" if you don't mean it. No one can blame you for being honest!

i don't think u have problem, its just that u are being sincere to yourself and that is a good thing and as seun said never say "I Love U" if u don't mean it

Love is a very special word that's abused everyday by both men and women. it should be said only to someone that means a lot to you. it could even be a family member. Don't worry, when you find that special girl; that girl you think about every second of the day, that girl you don't mind giving your whole pay check, that girl you look at and she reminds you of your mom. You won't have a problem telling her you love her every time you see her.

I hope it means something to you iice when I say I love you

iice:

I know you mean that as a brother but frankly when i hear it from a guy am dating, i cringe.

awwww thanks sis