This lady deserves the most mature and veteran nairalandess award, she really understands life

Nothing to pick up here at all, truth be told.

sexybbstar:
Broke Nigerian men keep complaining that women reject them because of their lack of financial ability. This self pitying consoling thought line is always sold by these men to compensate their poor ego but that's not usually the case. It's not always because of being broke. Sometimes, maybe, most times.

Now, here's the reality.
We always assume that every women rejects a man because he's just broke.
This makes us ignore the possibilities of other inadequacies that could be a deal breaker in men.Money is not all. In fact, it's a myth that women are after money. A lot of broke dudes still fall in love and get married.

So, There's something these rejections are about that is far from money.Cool, you don't have money.

(1)How about your confidence?
(2)Your self esteem?
(3)Do you exude low self esteem and talk out of pity?
(4)How intelligent and engaging are you?
(5)Can you make intelligent conversations and brainstorm with a woman?
(6)Do you have a vision?
A feasible and promising vision you're relentlessly pursuing?
(7)How's your sense of humour like?
(How's your sense of dressing?
We know you have cheap few clothes as a broke dude, but how do you use and combine the ones you have?
(9)How romantic are you?
(10)How clean are you?
(11)What are your values like?

A lot of broke young men are nil when it comes to these aforementioned questions, so when they hit rejection from a female, they say, ‘Its because I am broke..’
‘Women love money .’

No bro.
You're the problem.
You lack money.
And you lack every other thing.. .

See, I keep saying it, Money doesn't make a man. Most times it's low self esteemed men that flaunt money to attract women; they use money to cover up their inadequacies.
Take away money from them, nothing is left.
Poor souls.

Y'all broke guys should go back and build yourself, nah, I don't mean financially.
Go check your confidence, intelligence, humor, resourcefulness, maturity, focus, etc.
Go check all of these.

Many times you're rejected for something far from your broke state.
Go work on all this inadequacies, without minding if you have the cash or not you'll see ladies flocking around you.

#solomonbuchi

hmmm

Homeboiy:



Not from ur mind

I guess


u just want to be seen as a wife material like her


u have failed

Lol

so this post is copied from Solomon buchi also, Hmmm.
credit goes to Solomon buchi Buchi95, nice write up.

It makes a lot of sense

BUT THEN . . .

Broke is BROKE, no matter how one choose to paraphrase or obscure it; because deep-down, he'd still know that he's Broke, and that's ugly. Could be depressing, even.

Now, without disputing these facts that "money doesn't make a man", money ain't really everything, well. . that's true; but then, money is still key —immaculate packaging, appealing courtesy, down-to-earth attributes, convivial sense of humor and affable mannerisms don't take on financial responsibilities, they don't pay the bills; hence, a man needs to make money.

I mean, how prevaricate can any broke guy act in any "love relationship". . for how long can be evasive? —Of course, someone has to expend money as there would be expenses, no matter how inexpensive; that essence of financial capability must at least be perceived otherwise, the love would just burn out or wither away in no time, after much of the fondness and physical attractions have phased out.

All I'm saying is, "financial security" is still a cornerstone in any whatever relationship(s) and should/must NOT be neglected —Let the broke ones strive and hustle to make money as they self-develop themselves, simultaneously.


"I just wanna stay broke forever", that's that shii no one ever said — Gerald E. Gillum.

Fadiga24:
Nice thread, you must be a psychologist.

Yea... It was Buchi's write up. The guy is making waves on Facebook.

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Homeboiy:


Not from ur mind
I guess

u just want to be seen as a wife material like her

u have failed

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sexybbstar:
Broke Nigerian men keep complaining that women reject them because of their lack of financial ability. This self pitying consoling thought line is always sold by these men to compensate their poor ego but that's not usually the case. It's not always because of being broke. Sometimes, maybe, most times.

Now, here's the reality.
We always assume that every women rejects a man because he's just broke.
This makes us ignore the possibilities of other inadequacies that could be a deal breaker in men.Money is not all. In fact, it's a myth that women are after money. A lot of broke dudes still fall in love and get married.

So, There's something these rejections are about that is far from money.Cool, you don't have money.

(1)How about your confidence?
(2)Your self esteem?
(3)Do you exude low self esteem and talk out of pity?
(4)How intelligent and engaging are you?
(5)Can you make intelligent conversations and brainstorm with a woman?
(6)Do you have a vision?
A feasible and promising vision you're relentlessly pursuing?
(7)How's your sense of humour like?
(How's your sense of dressing?
We know you have cheap few clothes as a broke dude, but how do you use and combine the ones you have?
(9)How romantic are you?
(10)How clean are you?
(11)What are your values like?

A lot of broke young men are nil when it comes to these aforementioned questions, so when they hit rejection from a female, they say, ‘Its because I am broke..’
‘Women love money .’

No bro.
You're the problem.
You lack money.
And you lack every other thing.. .

See, I keep saying it, Money doesn't make a man. Most times it's low self esteemed men that flaunt money to attract women; they use money to cover up their inadequacies.
Take away money from them, nothing is left.
Poor souls.

Y'all broke guys should go back and build yourself, nah, I don't mean financially.
Go check your confidence, intelligence, humor, resourcefulness, maturity, focus, etc.
Go check all of these.

Many times you're rejected for something far from your broke state.
Go work on all this inadequacies, without minding if you have the cash or not you'll see ladies flocking around you.

#solomonbuchi

So to you, all men live for is about women. Any man that does all the junks you wrote down here just to impress lady is nothing but a shame. If I become rich, I will never date useless broke and babe that only thing they can offer is to open yansh to folk and nothing more. Anyway, you are beautiful.