Hmmmmm My dear brother
Trust me on this ihave been in ur exact
Same shoes before
This lady isn't into you
Yeah she once had fantasies or infactuations
Abt u,but somewhere along the line
She probably got bored,
She's got her eyesand thoughts in other dxns
Again,its clear she wants you to leave quietly
Your emotions will scream but you have to make up your mind
Like a man and log off.
Emotion has been designed as
Energy In motion.u need to refocus and redirect yor e-motions
You can form new friendships
And new associations
Learn a new skill eg music
Turn yourself into something better
No human being is worth morytgaging your personal joy
Happiness and fulfilment for,
You deserve to be happy.This lady may not appreciate you
But others will if u make urself the kind of man they will be proud to have
My thr r much more,many,plenty,abundantly available good ladies out there.
This lady is just one of a whole lot.
You sound intelligent and young very likely with a good heart
You still have the world ahead of you
A woman who behaves like this will probably stress you further
In the future.
Finally.in my opinion I think the lady is probably having some
Form of relationship somewherelse with sex and material
Things probably involved.
And you know what?
You don't have any control over her actions
So pls move ur e-motions ahead,convert your capacities
In a positive dxn.
, And she might return later after she gets maltreated in d other place
Its happened to me before,
By then uve moved on, and gotten urself a good sister,
The balls are wth u
All aces in your hand my friend
Chose your destiny
Ciao

Thanks deoking,i ve to do that,i am in charge,i used to tell myself that, in the morning some time ago.When i ll tell myself i am going to tell her off when i see her next time but i see her,my e-motion takes control.I am not a boring fella in anyway,as i am very vast in a various genre of life's act,music,technology,politics,the trend etc. She gives excuses for not wanting to see me or spent time with me.My fellow corp members are appalled, why i ve refuse to let her go but i told them,that it is simply because i love her and was willing to tolerate her for the time been as i thought her attitude towards me was temporary,because she used to tell me she loves me.I didnt know it was going to get worse.I am glad today because i am planning to brave the situation when i see her this weekend and call it off.i will let us in on this.more comment please

Thanks deoking,i ve to do that,i am in charge,i used to tell myself that, in the morning some time ago.When i ll tell myself i am going to tell her off when i see her next time but i see her,my e-motion takes control.I am not a boring fella in anyway,as i am very vast in a various genre of life's act,music,technology,politics,the trend etc. She gives excuses for not wanting to see me or spent time with me.My fellow corp members are appalled, why i ve refuse to let her go but i told them,that it is simply because i love her and was willing to tolerate her for the time been as i thought her attitude towards me was temporary,because she used to tell me she loves me.I didnt know it was going to get worse.I am glad today because i am planning to brave the situation when i see her this weekend and call it off.i will let us in  on this.more comment please

@babakess, I m sorry if you dont buy into my graphic illustration but i was just trying to paint the likely scenes that happens behind your back.
It might be a joke but someday it will help you out.
We all become ignorant and lazy when it involves taking decision against our emotions especially about ladies we love,
But the truth is that when girls want you, you dont need a native doctor to tell you that.
When they dont want you, you can as well see the hand writing on the wall.
You must focus on moving on for now otherwise you will hurt yourself trying to win what is not yours.
Its difficult but YES YOU CAN DO IT.

@All i told her off today,i sent for her and summonned all the courage i could to let know its over,she was only surprise and wasnt remorseful for all she did to me.Mennnnn,when she finally left my place i couldnt believe i did that .I slept and woke up feeling good,liberated and free agent.I was happy,started listening to music and that is it,i told her off for good as i believe i deserve to be happy and that the rightful person can come along any time soon .Thanks for your contributions.

babakess:
@All i told her off today,i sent for her and summonned all the courage i could to let know its over,she was only surprise and wasnt remorseful for all she did to me.Mennnnn,when she finally left my place i couldnt believe i did that .I slept and woke up feeling good,liberated and free agent.I was happy,started listening to music and that is it,i told her off for good as i believe i deserve to be happy and that the rightful person can come along any time soon .Thanks for your contributions.

hmmm, so...how are you now bro?

Did she come back or you're now married to someone else?