Hello girls

to cut the long story short and for the sake of simplicity
am not going to lie it really hurt me and i think some guys
may or may not agree. when we guys approach you and
stated introducing oneselves as my name is , so on and so fourth
try to understand us is not maybe we are jobless or looking for trouble
you know deep in your heart this guy want to be your friend and hopefully
you become boyfriend girlfriend things am telling the truth and been
simple here 4get all this western culture thing. we are black and africans
dont expect the guy to start using online dating techniques. i grew up in
nigeria and nothing like all this online techniques do this do that u cant even be
yourselves anymore for the sake of confusion am addressing this to our 9ja queens
in the diaspora. i saw a topic the other day when a guy met a girl and the only thing
he talked was food and church there's nothing wrong in that. i supported the guy because
he is real and be himself all this online topic dont work. is just to take our money and upon that
we dont even get the girl. so girls what are the things we mens need to do or how to approach you
if we dont approach u then how r we are going to meet the opposite intimacy. cos have tend to realise when
you meet a girl here in abroad seems is like an insult when u r trying to know to i dont know y

anyway am keeping my fingers cross and hope to get replies on this

Ogaa o.

The problem here is that you guys are not romantic. Yes we are Naijas but time and the world is changing you guys shuld change wit it. The time of our mothers and grand mothers has changed. Think of Nigeria thirty yrs ago and now, is there no change. That we are Africans and Nigerians does not mean we shuld not be civilised. Lets be real but the only thing that is constant in this world is CHANGE.

@ poster

If you approach a woman the right way she will not reject you or be rude to you. Get to know her before you start stating your CV and "propositioning" her. If you approach her the right way and she is rude to you or starts acting up, walk away. She doesn't deserve any more of your attention.

Spare me that rubbish about "western culture", that's always used as an excuse for someone who doesn't know how to behave. Win her as a friend first rather than acting out on what you see and what you want to do with her (sharp women can read that look from a mile away). Oh, and make sure you smell nice

RESPECT is the key.

Internet dating was intented to make people comfortable and free when trying to find intimacy,but now it is certain that its been grossly bastardise;tink some peole still believe in it just for mere facination cus more than 80% of people looking for a date on the internet gives false imformation about themselves,some even use someone else's picture on thier profile,its just but a way to manipulate and con innocent people. Its never an old sch method approaching someone in the street,cus its more real and safe rather than going on blind date on the net.

What's he saying?

The wrath of a man looking for love

coolier:

What's he saying?

As you can see read for yourself. try not to pretend

N101:

@ poster

If you approach a woman the right way she will not reject you or be rude to you. Get to know her before you start stating your CV and "propositioning" her. If you approach her the right way and she is rude to you or starts acting up, walk away. She doesn't deserve any more of your attention.
Spare me that rubbish about "western culture", that's always used as an excuse for someone who doesn't know how to behave. Win her as a friend first rather than acting out on what you see and what you want to do with her (sharp women can read that look from a mile away). Oh, and make sure you smell nice

RESPECT is the key.

GBAM!