The cycle never ends,innocence is stolen away and dignity all rubbished away.

ii have noticed that cases of sexual harrasement always occur when the victim is alone with the offender!
so that is what i have always noticed.
In most cases ,the offender is someone that is blood related or related to the victims parents one way or the other unsuspected.
The pain,hurt ,fear and stigma the victim face is worse than being infected with Aids!!!
It normally occurs in a family circle.
The victim later turns to an offender when an encounter of such nature is about to repeat itself!
here are some examples.

The boy was 8years old by that time,his younger bro was 3 and they were always bathing with aunty everyday.
she could easily have disvirgined anyone of them!
A woman who had a househelp left her year old baby with the maid to go and buy something at the market.
she suddenly dashed back unoticed to the house.on opening the door,she saw the house maid about to place the baby on her hips naked cow boy ride.

An aunty that would sleep barely naked in the night in the same room with some little boys of 7,5 &4 years.
some women or the society in general keep shouting rape! rape!! rape!!!
but they do so for the defence of the girlchild mostly.
They fail to notice that majority of the unheard rape cases or sexual abuse occurs to the boychild and that they go unheard.
The end results are harvest of rape.
when a male child has been abused,he would never like being in a group or activity dominated by a female.
He would never listen or accept correction or punishment from a female disciplinarian
Aggression & violent resistance is a means of his protection after he has been abused.
He would always dislike bossy or domineering women or ladies.Their prescence irks them.
They would become cruel and abusive also at the age of the abuser and abuse another innocent one and thats how the cycle goes on!