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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by blingxx(m): 8:07am On Jul 21, 2017 |
martins18: I faced the same problem in secondary school till one of my classmate even asked me "dude are you gay ? pls just tell me" ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Petril(m): 8:07am On Jul 21, 2017 |
JennyOfOldstones:dah's so me i really find it hard to believe that people derive fun from partying and some other things. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by saxyminia: 8:08am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Elkay3:u just summarized everything here.i ve a few friends dt ws very close to bt later didn't trust anyone of them coz of wt transpired. ...we re very easy to trust pipo n we dey fail us it hurts lyk u lost someone. ...introverted pipo I wud say control alot of respect n pipo fear dem if u don't knw dem personally and they love like crazy even if its nt real they jx wanna make it wrk.......am a happy introvert...people should understand we re nt proud or ve pride 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:08am On Jul 21, 2017 |
SPEEDEPITOME:I don't think being an introvert means you having low self esteem or lack confidence. They are inter related but not the same. I can tell you boldly that am an introvert but when its comes to public speaking,I would always find a way to overcome my introvert nature |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by oglalasioux(m): 8:08am On Jul 21, 2017 |
iPrevail: How wrong. Introverts are not as fake as extroverts. Inferiority complex is what makes extroverts act extra tough. 12 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Lordshola: 8:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky: Yes, but the worst of it was when my ex told me that she can't cope with an introvert (also an introvert). She said the relationship is too boring, that she need someone lively. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by thesuave10(m): 8:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
ORIJIN201: Moderation and common sense should be applied oo. Everything in life is a balance. Good luck ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by blingxx(m): 8:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
saabright: and we hate parties especially the noisy and crowdy one ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by oluwalewis(m): 8:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
meelorlah:We are same,i am a friend to many people but not many people are my friends besides work on yourself cos now,sometimes people doubt if i am a full introvert cos i can be extrovertish in nature |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Elkay3: 8:10am On Jul 21, 2017 |
donhils: Summary. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:10am On Jul 21, 2017 |
As an introvert, I don't like keeping friends. Internet and television are my friends. I prefer to be busy with my job and church things rather than any other things. I dislike going out, I hate noise, I dislike crowd, I hate argument. I try as much as possible not to offend people and people not to offend me. I like loneliness. I'm an indoor person. The list is endless. 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Natureinspred: 8:11am On Jul 21, 2017 |
i love my privacy. i could be in my room a whole day and no one knows.i hardly make friends but love the ones i try to make and tend to be jelous if they have other friends i just want them all to myself.i can use a whole week rehearsing what i will tell a friend but when that person comes everything disappears i cant say it anymore and i keep wondering which type of person am i? but i love myself as an introvert because no one can come and say u did this or that, and that part i feel everything has to be perfect as a perfectionist is keeling me alot. i can sweet a room like 10 times in two minutes ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by afoobabs(m): 8:11am On Jul 21, 2017 |
SPEEDEPITOME:wrong introvert is the combination of both if you can express ur feeling to some one you love then you av self esteem issues and if you can't show up in parties or events then u are timid |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by soflygerian(m): 8:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky:lol exactly, bt I hpen to enjoy the fact that whenever i have to talk, there's this majesterial silence from peeps nd want to hear u spk |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Lordshola: 8:16am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky:And sorry Miss hinky, when is season 2 of agent peter coming out?? |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Didiediamond(f): 8:17am On Jul 21, 2017 |
wins18: exactly....I find it very difficult to make new friends esp |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by b0rn2fuck(m): 8:18am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:I wish i could be sneaking to your house to help you nack service your tin, i love girl like you, no bi the one like bukky, wey fit roam 10 streets within 2 hours |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Kenth3433(m): 8:19am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Thank God am saved ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:20am On Jul 21, 2017 |
lereinter:Yes,overprotective parent can contribute to a child being an introvert. Its was same with me,my parents were so overprotective that its still affects me up till now. I can count the number of times I went to places like beach or eatery. I only have three routine home,work and church,but I have friends which I don't have problem communicating with them 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Geewynn(m): 8:23am On Jul 21, 2017 |
blingxx: lwkm...currently facing this issue...all my male friends call me gay because i have never had a gf and they have tried setting me up...but as an introvert i am too always shy, think and calculate the probability of rejection in which it is always high. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by aydes: 8:24am On Jul 21, 2017 |
My simple say is "be real" no matter what. One quality i love about myself cant say if am an intovert or extrovert or in between is the fact that I dont joke with my feelings, yes is yes, no is no. I think introverts are the best decision makers making decisions based on your true feelings. But i guess there are shortcomings to that.? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by funmilo724(f): 8:25am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Being an introvert has really affected me negatively, frm work to home, no social life, no friends, just you alone, I pray none of my children will be boring as their mother. It is very frustrating. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 8:27am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky:This is my story, this is my song. Exactly. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by blackstreak: 8:31am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Who can relate
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 8:32am On Jul 21, 2017 |
dupsyluzy:If you had seen my previous posts, you would have understood my point. we are saying the same thing here. You cannot overcome being introverted, you can only overcome your personality flaws. I said something along the lines of "you can work on improving your self esteem/confidence, lack of which is not function of being introverted or extroverted". 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by barallanee(f): 8:33am On Jul 21, 2017 |
HausaOverlord:the beginning was sweet BT ah dint understand the end o ![]() Thanks all the same |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by barallanee(f): 8:35am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Biamond:exactly dear..some people think am jux a snob BT am nt...dats jux me ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 8:38am On Jul 21, 2017 |
afoobabs:If you cannot express your feelings, you are probably not outspoken. If you don't show up at parties, it might be that you're just wired to not attach much importance to public functions. If you don't appear in public, it could be Agoraphobia and this is not the same thing as timidity. Being extroverted means you are OUTGOING. This is does not mean you have self confidence. Anyone can have low self esteem, introvert or extrovert. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Debbietiyan(f): 8:39am On Jul 21, 2017 |
1. Sometimes having to explain to friends that just because you don't call them doesn't mean you're not thinking about them. 2. Having to bail out of invites last minute because before then you thought you could suck up to it and actually attend even if it was just that one time. 3. When other people think you're a snob because you'd rather be by yourself in a crowd. 4. Extended family thinking you're too full of yourself because every one of your siblings is in good rapport with them except you. 5. Answering your phone on the third ring because then you know the call is important. 6. Preferring a good book to a good movie. 7. Never replying random messages on Facebook. 8. Seeing your departmental group pictures on social media which you are not in because then you'd rather go back home than hang around in the love garden. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SteveMarvic: 8:42am On Jul 21, 2017 |
They are laughing buh he's looking wierd he smiles a little so as not to look nerd they are discussing and shouting he ask,are they okay?are they normal?..smh Then they said Mister what do you have to say to this discussion huh?,which discussion?,are we discussing anything here? Absolutely not,his mind was faraway he has already close his outer ear and thinking on how to exit the place he was yelled at,for God sake why the hell have you been sitting down here with us for long he want to say something buh words refuse to form out he was bluffing,heart beating so fast bla..em..em..i.i..wa..nt.. Oh gosh,can't you form words,are you even a man battery Empty,he was drained out(only introvert will understand this part) he feel like leaving the place but no gut to stand up suddenly an angelic being with an angelic voice smile to him and said,its ok dear,you can go home or should i walk you home? I promise no single word till we get home wow* he was full to the brim Thank you 007's WRITING ![]() . One of my experience 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by funsho75(m): 8:45am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I first thought it was a weakness.. But sooner i use it as strength.. I don't like hanging out.. I love meeting people but am an introv.. . . So i just take my time at home, freelancing and developing my graphics skills.. . . Hmmmm 4 Likes |
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