ugwuvictor58:

U they mind them.If a girl don't feel anything romantic for u,guy,just respect ur life,ur future and that of ur unborn children,accept the situation with good faith and run for ur life,no move o,just run for ur life.At the end, u go understand say na the BEST decision u don ever make for ur life be that rather than to go they beg & apologize to her with catarrh for ur nose for sin wa u no commit.No girl deserve am.
Actually no body ( boy o or girl o) is indispensable no matter how beautiful (depending on what u define as beauty ) they are when it comes to the game of relationship.

Thank you!
People wey no know anything will just jump on a thread and start typing rubbish.

ugwuvictor58:

Apologize for what ? For expressing himself ?
The guy did not do anything wrong for having tried to kiss her,the problem was actually the person involved.
Many girls would have actually appreciated OP's move,but some few would see it as desperation.
Different individuals,different perceptions.

Bro, people are different. he tried twice and she withdrew, it's only mannerly to apologize.
Oh well, what do i know

I appreciate everyone for their advise. I met her in school today and i apologized, she smiled warmly as usual facing down, i told her we can start all over again and I'm ready to move at her own pace. She gave me two reasons why she told me to look for someone else. I'm sorry i can't share it here. Thanks everyone.

DaPuncline:
I appreciate everyone for their advise. I met her in school today and i apologized, she smiled warmly as usual facing down, i told her we can start all over again and I'm ready to move at her own pace. She gave me two reasons why she told me to look for someone else. I'm sorry i can't share it here. Thanks everyone.

You are welcome, bro.

DaPuncline:

Like i earlier said, i was wrongly advised by friends and i regret it. I'm not that type of guy, I'm a cool guy and that was why i got attracted to her, she's the cool type too. I'm not a potential street dog. It was a mistake, i have sisters too.

U sound here like someone that stole for the first time and has escaped just to be caught hours later by the police
"oga I swear na my first time, I Neva ever tief for my life..... Na me friend teach me

RadicallyBlunt:
The seriousness of your write up sef makes me think its one terrible something. Its nothing new na. Guy will like girl but girl wont yield cheaply..that's just d case here.

She enjoys ur company, but making sexual move on her first invitation would definitely piss her off. This one even gentle. Some go come after you don carry them go eatery, dem go still come ur house come drink juice, watch tv and feel at home yet if you make d normal guyish move, na slap upon insult you go collect...some are that rude.

Just like the poster above me said..not to give yourself headaches. Ive resolved to make brothels my regular companion till marriage..its not a matter of irresponsibility at all. Thats one of the places you can find sex with rest of mind.

This sex thing is not enthusiastic for girls like it is for guys and when they eventually have it with you, the lovely calm good girl you know becomes a monster demanding worship and you may never really enjoy her anymore. The wahala is so unworth it abeg. There are call girls everywhere willing to do all styles with you at ease so long you have a little change.

You're not under obligation to follow my footsteps o but it will save you headaches such as this.

That is a big mistake. You're going to end up not knowing how to satisfy a woman and only being able to perform gross sex acts, that your wife won't appreciate. Those women are only doing what you want and what you say because of money. You will lose valuable time and miss learning how to please your future wife if you continue down that path. You will get used to specific positions and not be able to perform when you try others. I believe that is the exact reason my sister had to get rid of her last guy. She dropped him quickly and moved on to someone else. Do yourself a favor and form a proper relationship with someone, so that you are not left once you marry.

I don't blame the girl self because on a first visiting you want to rape her what do u mean by harmless kiss?
she has already knew what you wanted and she not ready to play that game with you because you are a hit and run driver
bros you need God

FortuneTeller:


That is a big mistake. You're going to end up not knowing how to satisfy a woman and only being able to perform gross sex acts, that your wife won't appreciate. Those women are only doing what you want and what you say because of money. You will lose valuable time and miss learning how to please your future wife if you continue down that path. You will get used to specific positions and not be able to perform when you try others. I believe that is the exact reason my sister had to get rid of her last guy. She dropped him quickly and moved on to someone else. Do yourself a favor and form a proper relationship with someone, so that you are not left once you marry.

Sister when you see a post that doesn't appeal to you next time, be mature enough to ignore it. simple!

You're not the one to tell me that sex is not the only thing in a relationship. I knew that long before you joined nairaland. Thank you!

RadicallyBlunt:

Sister when you see a post that doesn't appeal to you next time, be mature enough to ignore it. simple!

You're not the one to tell me that sex is not the only thing in a relationship. I knew that long before you joined nairaland. Thank you!

If you don't like my posts, don't read them. I will continue to post as much as the owner of this site allows, and there is nothing you can do except get angry and act ignorant.

FortuneTeller:


If you don't like my posts, don't read them. I will continue to post as much as the owner of this site allows, and there is nothing you can do except get angry and act ignorant.

Soothe yourself