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| Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by ebubeson: 10:00am |
In the past, to get a lady you like, it may take three months, a year, weeks etc. for her to say Yes, and it may come with pains, rejections, efforts, begging, assurance etc. before she says YES. And in those days, a lady saying Yes to you may sound like a big win and a joyous encounter. Why is hard-to-get partly "dead" or almost dying? Why do men generally no longer chase women with efforts. (1) Lack of Decency in Several Ladies: The rate at which several ladies sleep around might make several men not chase them with effort. Why chase a lady with effort when another guy might sleep with her easily, probably without spending a dime. (2) Lack of Virtue in Several Ladies: Several ladies have little or nothing virtuous to offer. Some club, smoke sisha, do hookup, behave arrogantly sometimes, cheat etc. So when a man weighs these options, instead of him focusing on building a good relationship with a lady, he may just focus on sex and pleasure. (3) Quest for Money and Material Things Amongst Ladies: The quest for material things and money amongst some ladies might scare several men. Even some ladies who are not from well-to-do backgrounds may appear so demanding. For some ladies to probably prefer yahoo boys to a responsible salary earner shows part of their nature. 53 Likes 8 Shares
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| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by EmperorCaesar(m): 10:18am |
 Your number 1 is very valid Why have a crush on a lady/chase a lady that's been used as a cum bag by some random guys that are several steps below you? Thats dumb Cant really relate to your other points cause i feel we tend to gravitate towards only the same kind of people(Sexual Imprint) and somehow I have never been attracted to such women...dem no dey see me too Generally, Social media has exposed the shallow reasoning of most women to us, demystified most women manipulation tactics, given us more options, which in turn makes running after just one woman a nobrainer 33 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by MaziObinnaokija: 10:30am |
 Those days of "DOXOLOGY",CARDS,LETTERS,even though u have water for house,you still carry 🪣 go public tap to fetch water just to see your Nkechi,Bose;Aisha51 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by MaziObinnaokija: 10:31am |
Days wey mother hen dey protect their chics.U dare not go/enter person house those days 10 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by Pawa100: 2:56pm |
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| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by Creamypie(m): 2:57pm |
In my teenage period, I dey write love letter, but now, na them dey call me, even those wey I no know b4. The supply is 10 times more than demand, plus bad character plus sapa girls, plus hook up.them matter too plenty 44 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by SultanOfAbia: 2:57pm |
Ok |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by DigitB: 2:57pm |
Space booked. Here to read comments. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by buttlover(m): 2:57pm |
The thing tire me. To even say hi don de weak me. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by DonCrucifixsoo: 2:57pm |
We dey here dey read comments, comment readers, gather here pls 31 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by AngelicBeing: 2:57pm |
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| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by AbuTwins: 2:58pm |
Inasmuch as i agree with you that a lot is wrong with our ladies, a lot is also wrong with our men! The society in general is so upside down! We now have more of: 1. Feminism. 2. Baby mama-ism/Baby daddy-ism. 3. Misogyny. 4. Immorality plus lack of virtue (A man can have several baby-mamas and still marry one woman. He can divorce her and remarry another). 5. "Get rich quickly or die" mentality. 6. People not even knowing exactly what they want in the opposite sex. 7. Gender Equality ladies. 16 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by Blitzking: 2:58pm |
Makes no sense chasing a lady for long..its tiring and not worth it then she go still give you headache..probably cheat on you. Etc 23 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by sofeo(m): 2:59pm |
Alright |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by alizma: 3:00pm |
Lol, where have you heard of it that a man intentionally set out to look for liability? Where it happens, the man is considered as having mental issue. Those days when a girl says she loves you, you spend money manly during valentine and Christmas but now, once a girl say she loves you, know that you have adopted an orphan. First thing in the morning she will ask for what to eat, the moment she finished eating and gain strength, she will tell you her house rent has expired or that she has been staying with a friend that has been maltreaing her since and now that you the saviour has arrived, she thinks it's time to rent a house, shishi, she no get o. Thereafter she go remind you of her cream, clothes, shoe, school fee, and the moment you respond contrary to her expectations, quarrel don start, remember she asked for food first,that is to give her the necessary strength. 61 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by Port8080: 3:00pm |
4. Sex is now cheaper than women 21 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by Chevrolet076(m): 3:00pm |
ebubeson: I don't agree with your submission Not chasing after women for long is more of because 1. There are far plenty ladies that'd say Yes and not stress you 2. A lady will turn you into an idiot especially for these new generation own. And they'd even laugh in your face. So naturally, when you continue chasing, you're inadvertently relegating yourself to a simp. 3. Chasing ladies in the olden days may represent Virtue and quality of the women. Nowadays, its meaningless. Whether you chase or not, if she didn't agree in the beginning, there's a very slim chance she'd agree later. 4. There are other ways to get ladies nowadays rather than chasing. Chasing isn't the currency anymore. Its money and sweet talking as well as toxic characteristics. 5. Chasing used to be sweet but now, being toxic and abusive is what most women find adorable. Any hint of being gentle will will send you to friend zone To everyone what works for them. 18 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by GanagiBitrus: 3:01pm |
Most things have been monetised including love & sex. &it's not just about ladies. Afterall, there will be no supply without demand. 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by esthel(f): 3:01pm |
Priorities change, people got busier. Chasing is for teenagers and early 20s. 17 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by joromii: 3:01pm |
The Wokeness thing is disturbing everybody. Plus sometimes I just see testimonies of men in marriage. Only 5% of them are positive and 50% of the 5% are newly wedded. So i just look at the end product and be like no worry 11 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by Sonnobax15(m): 3:01pm |
 These bannies doesn't worth the chase at all... If you as a guyman use that time to learn how to ride a forklift,it's just a matter of time before one Chinese company for this country go employ you 20 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by amadaamy: 3:01pm |
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| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by free2ryhme: 3:01pm |
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| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by SalamRushdie: 3:02pm |
Most of them into hookup 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by TGreatGatsby: 3:03pm |
Now wey everywhere bloody shey person go dey try impress person wey go still dey ask u "who send u?". Because after collecting your wooing things, someone who does not like you will most likely not end up loving you. 6 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by sylve11: 3:05pm |
ebubeson: It seems you're referring to me. I normally weigh all of the aforementioned points. I just get discouraged. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by Skillsnigeria: 3:05pm |
Hmmm |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by victorVIC1(m): 3:06pm |
May be because I was so busy with my career but before I got married, I was barely resilient when it comes to dating or relationship. Once you try making things unnecessarily complex, I simply block you and move on without looking back. When I asked my current wife out, she told me to give her some time. Fast forward to 3 weeks, I no hear anything. The day wey I say I go block her, I saw a chat from her. I married her within one year of dating. Ladies, make na dey calm down with na snoozing games. Men wey mean business no get time for back and forths 20 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by merits(m): 3:06pm |
ebubeson: Me the way I look when sighted anything under skirts.
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| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by Kennitrust(m): 3:06pm |
“I don't think there's anyone whose posts offend my spirit like Reno Omokri. I wonder if he thinks there's anyone that believes he's not getting paid to drag Peter Obi everyday. This is a 51-year old man we're talking about o. And the best thing they thought he was good for is online foot soldier job. Like, there's no bigger sign that they don't rate you than to give you an online dragger job. How he does it with a straight face and show up everyday without shame is the real mystery. There's nothing he can't connect to and use to drag Peter Obi. *Kidnappers abduct 3 people in Nassarawa* Reno: "In 1905, Peter Obi's grandfather said this and that." *America elects a new President." Reno: "Congratulations America. Hope Peter Obi can see the meaning of this and that." *Woman gives birth in Osun state.* Reno: "Has Peter Obi said anything about this?" The Peter Obi that he drags everyday was a two-time governor at the age of 44. He was the a board member and later Chairman of Fidelity Bank between age 37 and 41. I wonder if he thinks there's any world where he and Peter Obi are mates in any way. I don't even think the people paying him rate him like that. They gave him a job that even the ponmo-empowered Ronu-ists of the South West would not do. Make you dey do online foot soldier at 51 years old. This was a man that got caught with his pants down as SA on New Media to President Goodluck Jonathan. He was so dumb that he created a fake profile called Wendel Simlin to attack Sanusi Lamido who was the CBN Governor then and left loads of footprints. Only for dem Omojuwa, Ogundamisi and co to catch the mumu and drag his ignorant ass to the public. At 51, he's still the same Wendel Simlin that got caught and is now being used to do foot soldier work.” — James Ogunjimi 🖊️ 8 Likes |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by Angelfrost(m): 3:06pm |
At the risk of sounding weird, I have never understood why men chase or desperately pursue women like their lives depend on it. Even the amazing woman I have been married to for long, I never chased her upandan... Matter of fact, she even made the first move. For me, if there is no mutual connection from an initial meeting, I bounce...! As for billing, dem never born that girl or lady. The moment I perceive the tiniest scent of materialism or greed, I'm gone faster than a shadow in darkness. Men that desperately chase ladies lack testosterone and dignity. Chase God and Success... A serious lady or serious ladies will chase you in return. 19 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Why Men No Longer Chase Women For Long by oyinkel(m): 3:06pm |
The thing I noticed is that..... The more you value a lady, the less she values you. Ignore them and they will come to you. It's that simple. 16 Likes |
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