The economy has affected everyone especially our girls.

Chevrolet076:


I dont agree

Oya give your points.

I go suffer get money, come dey beg one olosho to date me? I met a girl online she came and I knack her both in pussy and asshole same day. Those ladies no geh value again. Just geh money

EmperorCaesar:


Your number 1 is very valid

Why have a crush on a lady/chase a lady that's been used as a cum bag by some random guys that are several steps below you? Thats dumb


Cant really relate to your other points cause i feel we tend to gravitate towards only the same kind of people(Sexual Imprint) and somehow I have never been attracted to such women...dem no dey see me too

Generally, Social media has exposed the shallow reasoning of most women to us, demystified most women manipulation tactics, given us more options, which in turn makes running after just one woman a nobrainer

Una mouth too bad.

But you're making a lot of sense.

Sometimes when you find yourself in a location where girls are scarce, you are left with nothing but to chase the cheap girls (in this area, they are hot cakes)

For instance, it's very difficult to see a virgin/decent girl in any ijaw riverine area. Not as if there aren't, anyway.

It's not uncommon to see the guys in these areas wifeing próstitutes who move to those areas to do their jobs.

When you find yourself in such places, you'll have no choice but to go the same route like other guys.

Na MONEY we dey CHASE

MaziObinnaokija:
Those days of "DOXOLOGY",CARDS,LETTERS,even though u have water for house,you still carry 🪣 go public tap to fetch water just to see your Nkechi,Bose;Aisha

You are a legend

One of the most painful thing in the world is for a gal to make you wait for her pekus that she gave another guy freely on the first date 😂

AbuTwins:


Inasmuch as i agree with you that a lot is wrong with our ladies, a lot is also wrong with our men!
The society in general is so upside down!

We now have more of:
1. Feminism.
2. Baby mama-ism/Baby daddy-ism.
3. Misogyny.
4. Immorality plus lack of virtue (A man can have several baby-mamas and still marry one woman. He can divorce her and remarry another).
5. "Get rich quickly or die" mentality.
6. People not even knowing exactly what they want in the opposite sex.

I mean! Men have been blamed to the extent that it has misguided women. It's a matter of time before we see who is right and wrong. Men used to die to get married to women because they had honor. Today, anything goes and women think they are empowered.

I just saw a tweet where a 40yo is doing OF and she's proud of it. Women want freedom, even in marriages they want freedom. Let them enjoy what freedom gives them.

buttlover:
The thing tire me. To even say hi don de weak me.

Just saying hi can elicit I am hungry from some of them.

Majority of ladies are damaged and when a Man who's in need of a real woman finds one, it looks like a miracle to him.

As a lady if you are reading this, please be different from them positively

Cool

ednut1:
One of the most painful thing in the world is for a gal to make you wait for her pekus that she gave another guy freely on the first date 😂

E mean say she no rate you at all. Its very easy to identify such women. Once they don't return your energy or give poor vibes forget it and move on.

I wonder why some men still fail to get this trick. I must get her mentality. No be o ly you and her dey market. Go another store.

God forbid I chase a woman for long, God will not be happy with me cos He created them VERY MANY, CHEAP & EASILY ACCESSIBLE.

Real men don't chase women, they come to us & we choose

Chasing a lady for friendship, dating or relationship is not the best use of any reasonable man's time. A wise man would use that time to chase his goals, purpose or ambitions. Men who are highly ambitious will have no time to spare to chase ladies. Chasing a lady is a big distraction and waste of precious time. Resist it no matter what. Time is money - only for high value men.

MaziObinnaokija:
Those days of "DOXOLOGY",CARDS,LETTERS,even though u have water for house,you still carry 🪣 go public tap to fetch water just to see your Nkechi,Bose;Aisha

I regret doing that , that very stupid of me

ebubeson:
In the past, to get a lady you like, it may take three months, a year, weeks etc. for her to say Yes, and it may come with pains, rejections, efforts, begging, assurance etc. before she says YES. And in those days, a lady saying Yes to you may sound like a big win and a joyous encounter.

Speak for yourself. The men in my orbit still woo women

papyjaypaul:


I mean! Men have been blamed to the extent that it has misguided women. It's a matter of time before we see who is right and wrong. Men used to die to get married to women because they had honor. Today, anything goes and women think they are empowered.

I just saw a tweet where a 40yo is doing OF and she's proud of it. Women want freedom, even in marriages they want freedom. Let them enjoy what freedom gives them.

I hear some Africans now celebrate divorce in saner climes...

Hope they get what they want sha!

ebubeson:
In the past, to get a lady you like, it may take three months, a year, weeks etc. for her to say Yes, and it may come with pains, rejections, efforts, begging, assurance etc. before she says YES. And in those days, a lady saying Yes to you may sound like a big win and a joyous encounter.

Why is hard-to-get partly "dead" or almost dying? Why do men generally no longer chase women with efforts.

(1) Lack of Decency in Several Ladies: The rate at which several ladies sleep around might make several men not chase them with effort. Why chase a lady with effort when another guy might sleep with her easily, probably without spending a dime.

(2) Lack of Virtue in Several Ladies: Several ladies have little or nothing virtuous to offer. Some club, smoke sisha, do hookup, behave arrogantly sometimes, cheat etc. So when a man weighs these options, instead of him focusing on building a good relationship with a lady, he may just focus on sex and pleasure.

(3) Quest for Money and Material Things Amongst Ladies: The quest for material things and money amongst some ladies might scare several men. Even some ladies who are not from well-to-do backgrounds may appear so demanding. For some ladies to probably prefer yahoo boys to a responsible salary earner shows part of their nature.

It's not worth the chasing when you even know that girl you are chasing is simply empty and can easily flirt with many guys as possible so there is no special thing there, you only chase after something special and priceless with much value

AbuTwins:

I hear some Africans now celebrate divorce in saner climes...
Hope they get what they want sha!

Sebi our mothers dem na mumu? Na dem collect abuse to stay in marriage? I don't believe in toxic marriages and abuse but the way women have used the same paint to paint all relationships and their solution is to fix the problem in a woman's way, we go DE here to find out. Biology is a bad construct because men and women have different biology and men have an advantage women don't have there but let's not talk about it. Time is a good measure of consequences.

Last last we go marry, if we no marry atlease we go have baby mama for kids. If you are luck to have good girl you will have peace of mind, no stress of billing or demanding for luxurious life.

Creamypie:
In my teenage period, I dey write love letter, but now, na them dey call me, even those wey I no know b4. The supply is 10 times more than demand, plus bad character plus sapa girls, plus hook up.them matter too plenty

Lengthy matter.

papyjaypaul:


Sebi our mothers dem na mumu? Na dem collect abuse to stay in marriage? I don't believe in toxic marriages and abuse but the way women have used the same paint to paint all relationships and their solution is to fix the problem in a woman's way, we go DE here to find out. Biology is a bad construct because men and women have different biology and men have an advantage women don't have there but let's not talk about it. Time is a good measure of consequences.

GENDER EQUALITY!

Blitzking:
Makes no sense chasing a lady for long..its tiring and not worth it hen she go stippbgive you headache..probably cheat on you. Etc

Chevrolet076:


I don't agree with your submission


Not chasing after women for long is more of because

1. There are far plenty ladies that'd say Yes and not stress you
2. A lady will turn you into an idiot especially for these new generation own. And they'd even laugh in your face. So naturally, when you continue chasing, you're inadvertently relegating yourself to a simp.
3. Chasing ladies in the olden days may represent Virtue and quality of the women. Nowadays, its meaningless. Whether you chase or not, if she didn't agree in the beginning, there's a very slim chance she'd agree later.
4. There are other ways to get ladies nowadays rather than chasing. Chasing isn't the currency anymore. Its money and sweet talking as well as toxic characteristics.
5. Chasing used to be sweet but now, being toxic and abusive is what most women find adorable. Any hint of being gentle will will send you to friend zone


To everyone what works for them.

Men who have things going on in life don’t chase.

Angelfrost:
At the risk of sounding weird, I have never understood why men chase or desperately pursue women like their lives depend on it.

Even the amazing woman I have been married to for long, I never chased her upandan... Matter of fact, she even made the first move.

For me, if there is no mutual connection from an initial meeting, I bounce...!

As for billing, dem never born that girl or lady. The moment I perceive the tiniest scent of materialism or greed, I'm gone faster than a shadow in darkness.

Men that desperately chase ladies lack testosterone and dignity.

Chase God and Success... A serious lady or serious ladies will chase you in return.

Frost!

Lack of standard with men also


Dont be like biblical adam..that say "the woman you gave me made me" cuz deep down you are not innocent, you wish to be like God yourself.

Many of you men have a fetish for the baddies. Or are this girls fucking themself and paying themself? . Were are the men spoiling them rotten. And i dont want to hear simp. Until you add yourself davido or wizkid cuz they are the wine for me specialist i will spray you my money.

Me I no dey toast woman again... How can you be begging liability to be your friend? If sac full just call any one and take her out... After the buzz you bang.. Simple and short.

Abi o

When social media has made mess of human dignity and morality...

Even the most holy looking girl is still suspicious in our current world.

Hence, the devaluation

ebubeson:
In the past, to get a lady you like, it may take three months, a year, weeks etc. for her to say Yes, and it may come with pains, rejections, efforts, begging, assurance etc. before she says YES. And in those days, a lady saying Yes to you may sound like a big win and a joyous encounter.

Why is hard-to-get partly "dead" or almost dying? Why do men generally no longer chase women with efforts.

(1) Lack of Decency in Several Ladies: The rate at which several ladies sleep around might make several men not chase them with effort. Why chase a lady with effort when another guy might sleep with her easily, probably without spending a dime.

(2) Lack of Virtue in Several Ladies: Several ladies have little or nothing virtuous to offer. Some club, smoke sisha, do hookup, behave arrogantly sometimes, cheat etc. So when a man weighs these options, instead of him focusing on building a good relationship with a lady, he may just focus on sex and pleasure.

(3) Quest for Money and Material Things Amongst Ladies: The quest for material things and money amongst some ladies might scare several men. Even some ladies who are not from well-to-do backgrounds may appear so demanding. For some ladies to probably prefer yahoo boys to a responsible salary earner shows part of their nature.

all this one na plenty grammar.

why not just summarise it as pride and strong headedness of ladies of today?

Who chasing help?

Creamypie:
In my teenage period, I dey write love letter, but now, na them dey call me, even those wey I no know b4. The supply is 10 times more than demand, plus bad character plus sapa girls, plus hook up.them matter too plenty

I think there are too many available girls this days…
Just too many… girls everywhere, different specs and shapes

These days the ladies are the ones chasing. It is a shame