MaziObinnaokija:
Those days of "DOXOLOGY",CARDS,LETTERS,even though u have water for house,you still carry 🪣 go public tap to fetch water just to see your Nkechi,Bose;Aisha

Bla Bla Bla Bla Bla...if so, Doxology

Angelfrost:


I am just average looking brother...!

It takes serious focus and dignity to be a man who is respected enough not to be stressed by any lady.

You just need to prioritise your future and personal growth.

Ladies will bill and stress those who they believe they can manipulate with their bodies... Choose not to be a simp.

There are guys that ladies truly like and can even hint or chase, or at the very least give off signals to.

When you meet the lady that likes and respects you, you will know.

no be lie shaa, because my guy nasoo woman dey run after am ooo and Dem no dey really demand from am, I no come no may be na as e grab and waiting dey under am.

MrCuteAndLoaded:


Then relocate my guy! Go to Enugu, Lagos or Calabar where dem.plenty! You are the man here ! You are lone wolf! You are in charge! I had the same problem when I was in Ado Ekiti until I moved to Ibadan where plenty women dey wait , dey beg! Lagos is even worse! They are like maggots! Women plenty o so no go dull unasef!

You're making sense. I will look to the East.

MaziObinnaokija:
Those days of "DOXOLOGY",CARDS,LETTERS,even though u have water for house,you still carry 🪣 go public tap to fetch water just to see your Nkechi,Bose;Aisha

But now, money don make some mothers they welcome any guys that come around to see their daughters

I don't know why a woman from a humble background wanting more equates unfairness and bad character. Men go for beautiful educated women that are higher than their status all the time too.

It's not a crime for a man to go for more, but supposedly it's a crime for a woman to want more than she was born into.

Did you as a man from a humble background ever go to school and decide you will stay at your parents level? Or you went back home to marry from amongst your girls, even if you did, what about the many men that always go for women on the level they grew to, not the level they came from? They are not materialistic right? But the women who dare look above their status are? Dey whine yourself there.

alizma:
Lol, where have you heard of it that a man intentionally set out to look for liability? Where it happens, the man is considered as having mental issue. Those days when a girl says she loves you, you spend money manly during valentine and Christmas but now, once a girl say she loves you, know that you have adopted an orphan. First thing in the morning she will ask for what to eat, the moment she finished eating and gain strength, she will tell you her house rent has expired or that she has been staying with a friend that has been maltreaing her since and now that you the saviour has arrived, she thinks it's time to rent a house, shishi, she no get o. Thereafter she go remind you of her cream, clothes, shoe, school fee, and the moment you respond contrary to her expectations, quarrel don start, remember she asked for food first,that is to give her the necessary strength.

Nothing in life is permanent. Change is constant..! Moreso, there are more women than men and the women are increasing by the day

ebubeson:
In the past, to get a lady you like, it may take three months, a year, weeks etc. for her to say Yes, and it may come with pains, rejections, efforts, begging, assurance etc. before she says YES. And in those days, a lady saying Yes to you may sound like a big win and a joyous encounter.

Why is hard-to-get partly "dead" or almost dying? Why do men generally no longer chase women with efforts.

(1) Lack of Decency in Several Ladies: The rate at which several ladies sleep around might make several men not chase them with effort. Why chase a lady with effort when another guy might sleep with her easily, probably without spending a dime.

(2) Lack of Virtue in Several Ladies: Several ladies have little or nothing virtuous to offer. Some club, smoke sisha, do hookup, behave arrogantly sometimes, cheat etc. So when a man weighs these options, instead of him focusing on building a good relationship with a lady, he may just focus on sex and pleasure.

(3) Quest for Money and Material Things Amongst Ladies: The quest for material things and money amongst some ladies might scare several men. Even some ladies who are not from well-to-do backgrounds may appear so demanding. For some ladies to probably prefer yahoo boys to a responsible salary earner shows part of their nature.

95% of Nigerian women are after money and material things. (BIRTHDAY, SCHOOL FEES, MOTHER IS SICK. FATHER IS SICK, BIRTHDAY AGAIN WHICH IN MOST CASES ITS TWICE A YEAR, THATS THE MOST ANNOYING ONE CAUSE IT'S BEEN TURNED TO A MILKING INDUSTRY AMONGST MANY OTHERS. It's either you are paying the bills or no relationship. They have degraded themselves so much that men DON'T respect them anymore.

I remember then when there was no handset to call a lady. If you meet a girl then the chances of seeing her again na die unless you know where she stays. For a girl to say yes then you must have put in some work towards that. It was victory then. Now, just get her number and everything else follows.

AbuTwins:
Inasmuch as i agree with you that a lot is wrong with our ladies, a lot is also wrong with our men!
The society in general is so upside down!

We now have more of:
1. Feminism.
2. Baby mama-ism/Baby daddy-ism.
3. Misogyny.
4. Immorality plus lack of virtue (A man can have several baby-mamas and still marry one woman. He can divorce her and remarry another).
5. "Get rich quickly or die" mentality.
6. People not even knowing exactly what they want in the opposite sex.
7. Gender Equality ladies.

Very well said.

Cruzmaster:
I go suffer get money, come dey beg one olosho to date me? I met a girl online she came and I knack her both in pussy and asshole same day. Those ladies no geh value again. Just geh money

Na hook up girl you carry, those ones no get value again.
An average decent girl won't Bleep you on first meeting, unless you have been close to her online for a long period of time.

As I big reach, I do not mind chasing a woman, but she must be virtuous.

Infact chasing a widow who was married as a virgin is virtuous because she lost her virginity to her late husband, a man who paid her bride price and complied with religious, cultural and legal duty.

But to chase a girl that her only achievement in life is ''I am a fine girl"', lack manners, a double-digit or even worse, tripple digit body counts, have series of abortions with high taste masked as ''high standards'' is an insult to masculinity.

The very fact that I will chase a woman that lots of men have seen her unclothedness makes my stomach sour.

Give me a young, attractive, virgin with good character, and I will chase her. I promise. I don't mind chasing, but I do not want to chase nonsense.

As a man, I didn't fail myself, which also means that I will not fail you. I worked hard and can beat my chest that I can give you a 1% lifestyle, and for that, I deserve a woman who did not fail herself either, by preserving her virtue, since it hurts to think that you have had sex with folks that will call me sir, and I can pay their salary for years without feeling it.

You people should just download Tinder and come back and ask why any sane nigerian man would want to chase a nigerian banny you dont know from adam lol

Men have weak system of support in old age unlike women. Your money should be contributed to investments that shore up your future

YellowbaMoslem:


Na hook up girl you carry, those ones no get value again.
An average decent girl won't Bleep you on first meeting, unless you have been close to her online for a long period of time.

I doubt. I intentionally did not give her money. Only Tfare and yet she come another time

YellowbaMoslem:


Na hook up girl you carry, those ones no get value again.
An average decent girl won't Bleep you on first meeting, unless you have been close to her online for a long period of time.

So far u know how to sweet tongue them, u will definitely knack her.

The more you control your crave for sex the nore women become irrelevant.