chiteny:


I see you have absolutely no clue as to what mathematics is all about.

Just to give you a hint, it's about working with numbers accurately.

humblenature:
NOW LISTEN. i am going to advise you like one who has seen it all. do not.. i repeat do not ever have issues with ur dad. u can disown your mom but never you ever try shii with ur dad. you belong to ur dad. your mom may be good to u but she is of no use to u and she knows it. i advise u. your dad may not be d best dad but do not joke with him. besides, hoe does his relationship affect u? bros u b man o. no forget say one day u go double date. all men we are all thesame o. leave matter for mattiais. your mom is not innocent. leave them to settke dat thing. your love for ur mom is beclouding ur judgement. reply me first before i continue bros

HaneefahRN:


This comment is dripping with idiocy

Fawklicant:


Exactly. I used to get infuriated whenever one of my neighbours lashed out at his wife for a period. The man would just just insult her at the slightest provocation calling her all sorts of names, pig, idiot etc. And this ugleee man is married to a very pretty woman with a body to die for.
Well, my perception changed when I noticed that the woman is a serial cheat and the man was just lashing out to vent his frustaration and helplessness. This woman would take calls in the kitchen while observing the husband through the peephole and cut such calls whenever the man approached. She would leave the house giggling and smiling while talking on the phone immediately after hubby leaves.

She even made passes at people I know.

I cannot vouch for anybody, let alone a woman. They always have a way of playing victim everytime.

Benita27:
I've come to the realisation that when there're issues between parents, the "Mother" usually gets sympathy from the kids. There's no smoke without fire. That you haven't caught your mum cheating doesn't mean she may not have cheated on your dad ever. I don't support the domestic violence but this isn't your call but elders. It's disrespectful calling his bluff for him. Let an older person with more wisdom handle this issue, your actions could aggravate things.

The first paragraph of your letter shows you took your mother's side and your dad would see it that way. Why not write him another letter, telling him of the good times you all shared together as a family, and stating why you would love him to change and make things work between him and your mum. Do this then invite the elders to talk to them both.

Most marriages go through this phase over time 'cause "Love" isn't enough. What they need to live with is wisdom.

Midastorch:

yeah, that person cares less, i tried it it too on my dad,he got infuriated and keeps showing everybody the text message lyk i gave a Bleep. myself and my dad did not communicate to each other till lyk 3 years.....even till now i call him lyk once in every 6 months some of these old guys no just get brain.....

TonyeBarcanista:
Prosper is that you?

Donjazzy12:

You are a very very foolish child to want to confront your Dad this way. This is exactly why my friend believes that male children of today are completely useless and worthless. He has a daughter whom he dotes on and that girl loves her dad so much to the extent she can take a bullet for him. You on the other hand your Dad should have sold you to buy recharge card. You are completely worthless as a son! As far as I am concerned , if you are his only child , then he should count himself childless.

juman:


Many nigerian fathers are like that.

Mothers are the pillars that hold many households in nigeria. They pay the bills.
Many men are useless fathers.

Guyman02:
Have you ever thought of asking your father the things he would want your mum to start doing that will make him happy and if he will forgive your mum for any perceived wrong she might have done to him in the past.
Don't take sides with your mum as it will only anger your father.
The source of crisis could be a wrong done by your mum which you may not be aware of and which may have infuriated and humiliated him to the point that he finds succour with other women. For you to put all the blames on your father shows your bias probably because she pays most of your bills as you stated.

Tell your mom to be ready to make some serious sacrifices as may be prescribed by your father for a new beginning, it could be financial issues, emotional, psychological or spiritual or she continues to maintain her stand with no solution.

You said she is a born again Christian but there are several cases whereby some women would obey their pastors and disobey their husbands, would spend more time praying or in church activities than attending to the emotional needs of their husbands and this breeds suspicion even when she is innocent.
You are too young to carry this matter on your head.

YOUNGSTUNNA:

Thanks for seeing things differently, everyone else is crucifying me.
His mom is not a baby, she's the one to decide either to stay an endure or get kill by a lunatic husband.... or move out... children have no right to interfere in between else the create enmity within the family. the best he can do is sit both of them and talk sense into them, not siding mom cuz she pays 70% of the bills

Donjazzy12:

You are a very very foolish child to want to confront your Dad this way. This is exactly why my friend believes that male children of today are completely useless and worthless. He has a daughter whom he dotes on and that girl loves her dad so much to the extent she can take a bullet for him. You on the other hand your Dad should have sold you to buy recharge card. You are completely worthless as a son! As far as I am concerned , if you are his only child , then he should count himself childless.

ebby9z:


Why all these vituperation? The young man came here for nature advice and you're there judging him as if you fully comprehend what he has gone through. I'll say you're the immature child here and not the boy.

Alero3Arubi:

You even try to sit both of them down.
Me I wont.
I don't have strength to talk to any of them.
They chose themselves and believed they couldn't live without each other.
Let them live with their choices.
Either by separating or by choosing to endure the loveless marriage.
I can't carry wahala of another person on top my head Abeg.

Donjazzy12:

I am sure you think like him. Foolish male children with no sense of wisdom at all. May your children disrespect you and team up with their mum against you. You as so childish, it make me wanna vomit!

Prosper24:


Maybe i should wait until after the said family meeting by next month.

If he skips the meeting this time

Or

Continue with his current behavior then I'm done with him.


The most painful thing is, one will keep managing in school while your dad will be sponsoring other women and their children. It pains..


This man has been doing this for years especially when he was still working.


Now he is only receiving pension, why can't him call himself to order instead he is fornicating and sponsoring other women while at the same time accusing my mom of the same fornication.

We have a lot of financial needs.

My dad had money, he was balling but now no investment, incomplete house. The few furnitures we have in the house my mom bought them all.

He married late and close to 30years older than my mom.


That man is a complete failure. So sorry to say but he has refused to take correction.

ebby9z:


Oh. I thought you sane. Sorry for trying to redeem you. Pls, don't quote me again. Slink back into your dank, musty psychiatry cell where your older generations lived their lives and sired you.

Donjazzy12:

And you think you made sense? May your own son disrespect you the way this foolish boy is disrespecting his father on social media. Keep supporting stupish, childish and idiotic male children. Your own curse is still doing press up!

ebby9z:


Only if your wisdom could be closer to your age ; you would have comprehended that I wasn't supporting the boy ( Check out another comment I made on the issue) I was merely telling you to not denigrate the boy that harshly and should have advised him maturely instead of reporting to insults and name calling.

But it seems you weren't properly trained on manners and civility hence your oral diarrhea at everybody you come across. Pls, address it, it's an issue that could ruin your generation's destiny.

P. S I'm normally not a confrontational person in both life and online. But you extremely annoyed me by your incessant albeit unnecessary insult and abuses, especially when you don't fully understand the issue on ground.
Go and sin no more-and grow up. You can't be a child forever.

dominique:


I totally regret quoting you. It's very obvious that you're a demented human being, imagine justifying infidelity and inhumane treatment towards your fellow human because she came from him rib. Do the world a favour and dont procreate.

humblenature:
I thank God for using you to vindicate me.. foul mouthed creatures. evil like their mother eve. tell me. did God create woman? did he breathe life into her? the answer is no.. woman was formed from d rib of man. she is breathing the life of man.God never created her like he created man. so listen man is the bringer of life so u belong to ur dad. the air you breathe is your dads life. bro i repeat, never ever you succumb to womens ways. they easily evoke pity but dont be decieved. many people are in prison today because of the wily ways of women . beware. even adam was destroyed by a woman and everything the world is facing today is because of eve a woman. bros.. i advise you to call your dad aside and ask him to tell you what he knows dat u dont know.. i am sure he will tell you enough to full your ears. instead of running from him, move closer to him.

humblenature:
LISTEN EVERYBODY. let me educate u all before some ignorant ignoramus come here and spew trash. SATAN is the ruler of this world . and he hates anything male. he loves females so much because eve obeyed .since then he has formed a relationship with women that has flourished over the years. why do u think there is mammy water , queen of coast? do u hear king of coast?.why is the word witch popular than wizard? why is jezeebel and delilah very popular in bible? listen God uses men , satan uses women . believe it or not. thats why u hear pastors and reverend fathers and nkt pastoresses and reverend mothers. devil is not happy with man(male) because man is Gods direct creation. woman was only made from man. hence d weakness. let me educste u more. why do u think we celeberate women more than men here on earth? womens day, mothers day, different music eulogizing women even after men have suffered too.? its because devil supports them once you serve devik devil will promote you here on earth. whenever u see a man and woman quarelling, never support the woman. woman are not meant to talk were a man is. they were made from the bone of our bones and from the flesh of our flesh. we are lord and master over them . they dont have a say when we are around .and in family matters , they are under thier husband. and that is were they belong. even when the man is bad. they shuld either pray to God for chsnge but never stand uo to him. and so also his offsprings.. so pls dont decieve yourselves that times have changed. Gods word has never changed. the life woman breathes is not directky from God like he did to the male, but they breathe the life of the male through his rib.. woman be warned. una dey talk too much.

Prosper24:


After carring out my research and investigations about the happenings in our family which has over the years been a threat to the unity, progress and stability of our coexistence as one family, i beg to state that:





1) Because you have decided for over 4 years now to frustrate, humiliate and disorganize my mother who happens to be your wife with all kinds of accusations,insults and disgrace for a reason best known to you. And:

2) Because you have derived more pleasure in carrying the bordens of your concubines and that of their children to the detriment of your own family even when you are aware of the sufferings and debts in your family.

I want to make it clear that as a result of this, i have taken it upon myself not minding how it will effect me to suspend anything that has to do with the both of us till futher notice to enable you have more finance and less opposition to continue with those activities of yours that gives you pleasure but i find disgraceful, irritating and odious to me.

Thank you.....

Please Don't mind my English and focus on the write up, na vex i dey use right all this stuff...