@David- My mom says the man is the "head" but cannot function without the woman,
but my mom AND my dad are both very traditonal

I am still 50/50!

platinumnk:

@David- My mom says the man is the "head" but cannot function without the woman,
but my mom AND my dad are both very traditonal

I am still 50/50!

WiseWoman
If it were an exam, I woulda awarded her an A* grade

chic2pimp:

WiseWoman
If it were an exam, I woulda awarded her an A* grade

im not my mom
50/50

platinumnk:

im not my mom
50/50

you mom knows best my dear. You should listen to her more often
There is a reason why my mom and dad have lasted this long while you there I say it. . . . . .

platinumnk:

Actually if you do that, you would never keep me for long. If you areso stuck on showing you have no love, why should we stick around to change it? Are we Ms. Fix-it-all? Would leave the man right where I found him. He doesnt have to show it early, but show that its there at least. Not some stiff uptight, when Im openly affectionate. 

sorry, u can not catch me on that affectionate boy street, that is a sure way to fail as u girls can not tell what is good even if it bit u in the face. that being said, u will sure find me on the lover boy street and that my friend is a straight path to success 

chic2pimp:

you mom knows best my dear. You should listen to her more often
There is a reason why my mom and dad have lasted this long while you there I say it. . . . . .

bah humbug! I respect my man with 50/50 I dont see the big deal

na2day?:

sorry, u can not catch me on that affectionate boy street, that is a sure way to fail as u girls can not tell what is good even if it bit u in the face. that being said, u will sure find me on the lover boy street and that my friend is a straight path to success 

And a Guy wont know a good girl if it bit you on the azz. You guys chase the next hot thing on the street then complain about your pocketbooks, when u brag about your trophies to your pals.
If a guy cant show it to me that Im worth it, then Drop it him like a bad habit. Who needs such? We can be friends yes, but lovers? [b]LOVE[/b]ers? they no sabi that word again 
I can spoil myself well well na, whats the point of a man, a good bang up job? Keep him as a friend Not someone you give your all to, because he sure is not willing to do so for you 
Change a man. .  for wat 

platinumnk:

bah humbug! I respect my man with 50/50 I dont see the big deal
And a Guy wont know a good girl if it bit you on the azz. You guys chase the next hot thing on the street then complain about your pocketbooks, when u brag about your trophies to your pals.
If a guy cant show it to me that Im worth it, then Drop it him like a bad habit. Who needs such? We can be friends yes, but lovers? [b]LOVE[/b]ers? they no sabi that word again 
I can spoil myself well well na, whats the point of a man, a good bang up job? Keep him as a friend Not someone you give your all to, because he sure is not willing to do so for you 
Change a man. .  for wat 

that's ur first major mistake. i dont chase girls with my pocketbooks, i chase them on credit and if she ain't worth it i ain't paying, so u got me mixed up with some other dude

U got her served!

Bad boi

I had to comment on this topic cause it is 100% fact. I meet this girl 2 years ago spend almost my lifesaving on her and what do i get?
I am not BF material WTF? why are u telling me so late after choping my money. Because i have been under her foot for the two years there is no trill in dating me i have nothing to offer. This is the 1 girl i singled out to love off all the girl i talk to she is the one i didnt want to lose and what happened she is the one i never got.

olalekanhs:

I had to comment on this topic cause it is 100% fact. I meet this girl 2 years ago spend almost my lifesaving on her and what do i get?
I am not BF material WTF? why are u telling me so late after choping my money. Because i have been under her foot for the two years there is no trill in dating me i have nothing to offer. This is the 1 girl i singled out to love off all the girl i talk to she is the one i didnt want to lose and what happened she is the one i never got.

kpele, such is life

olalekanhs:

I had to comment on this topic cause it is 100% fact. I meet this girl 2 years ago spend almost my lifesaving on her and what do i get?
I am not BF material WTF? why are u telling me so late after choping my money. Because i have been under her foot for the two years there is no trill in dating me i have nothing to offer. This is the 1 girl i singled out to love off all the girl i talk to she is the one i didnt want to lose and what happened she is the one i never got.

smfh! did you get some revenge? payback is a b word

@ poster
true words but theres is always a woman a guy go fall mugu for, tis inevitable we just have to restrict to dat woman, not to every sade,nkechi or fatima

i follow no rules when it comes to women but they still keep coming in dozens.just know who u are and get a life and u ll not bother chasing or trying to keep women,they ll be the ones wishing they could have u for keeps.

@tychee69

Congratulations on your freedom. If she cries forget it. They cry one minute you pity them reel them back in and its the same nonsense all over again. Better you cut her off now than spend your life in misery. Focus on your goals and relegate all the emotional wahala to the back seat. In the next relationship seek true control. Forget the text messages she's sending and calls she's making. They're mostly out of self-pity. I admire your guts choosing the Feb 14th date, you're on the right track. Scorched earth policy all the way. Some fool is on another thread talking about how some chick wants to ruin him financially. A perpetual mugu! Please brothers enlighten him in the way of true control and the rule of 10%.

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Lol, I have true control so I get love and don't need pity. I sleep well @ night knowing I am the master of my domain. The peace I feel can only be described in Buddhist terms, perhaps as Nirvana.Most of the women shouting here do not have men and the rest are in true control relationships but are here fronting like something else. The few who have succeeded in trapping mugu's well more grease to their elbows. I only came here to share advice and teach my brethren how to avoid the road of MuGu-hood. He who has eyes let him read.

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Hi All,

This story on women is a big one especially guys who were not used to women when younger.
Using natural control works ine at the same time you want to respect her also. girls like guys who are confident, social and very open.
The control thing works especially if you want to maintain them and not see them walk away four weeks are the relationships began.

Controling them on bed, controling them relationship wise and surprising them will go a long way in ensuring they dont leave.

^^^^ This topic is so hot you had to register and post. kudos to tai2. Seun should organise something for tai2.

madlady:

^^^Do you know how bad your thread makes you look to some ppls, every girl over hear who reads it feels nothing but pity for you.

spoken like a true feminist! the rest of us are applauding him all the way. once u have been bitten u make sure it doesnt happen again and that my friend is a fact!

@madlady,why did u call ur self an insane enigma

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madlady:


To be truthful, I am not a feminist
My Father was the head of owe household, we respected the ground he walked on. He did not control or manipulate my Mother, he loved and respected her.

If my Husband treats me with respect he will get my full respect and honour in return.

Give unto Caesar what is due to Caesar.

Caesar is dead! what part of that dont u understand? ur dad married a good woman and thats why u are brought up the way u are today, if u dad had meet on of these NL girls, he wud have gone to his grave early

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madlady:


OK

hopefully u will at least measure up to ur mom

To all critics of this post especially , Her royal madness, Madlady, I don't know wat u guys are criticising the wisdom of Tai2 who drank from the well of adam ,
My phone has not stopped ringing and my mailbox is full of messages.
Every guy should never loose his grip in any relationship, let  them know who wears the pants, the last time I checked  pants are still men's clothing,  

tychee69:

To all critics of this post especially , Her royal madness, Madlady, I don't know wat u guys are criticising the wisdom of Tai2 who drank from the well of adam ,
My phone has not stopped ringing and my mailbox is full of messages.
Every guy should never loose his grip in any relationship, let  them know who wears the pants, the last time I checked  pants are still men's clothing,  

i heard that!

Lol, all these women watch too much Africa Magic, too much Rita Dominic on TV and some mugu's want to let them get away with it. Brethren spread the message, those times are over.

If you are a man and you have never falling Mugu atleast once you must be Gay, has a problem or just a mastubator
.Once you get hurt u would get wise an bury your weak attibutes. Women are cold hearted yet they wanted to be treated like
an animal and given a suasuage regularly. Did some one say Dog?. Yes. they love that master / owner relationship. And they
reinforce there desire by submitting to controlling guys.

Did i mention that there nothing wrong with me i a very educated Naija boy. I was a fool thinking this girl was an exception.
Because the attention i gave her made her feel more important than me, just is a self esteem boaster for her. But
we will see who will get the last laugh. When i finish i would be inducted "Men are pigs" hall of fame.