nice.

Mr true control Op. I have come here jst to pay my gratitude, U're jst a genius Nigeria's D̶̲̥̅̊'angelo, My ex gf came to my house, Not only did I sleep with her, I gave her jst 5h as t fare bck, Someone dt will av complained b4, And thnk God I av koboko control, I wacked her well, She called me 14 times as missed call and I didn't pick, When I eventually picked she was so goody goody on the fun, She was damn scared that I didn't want to talk to her, I had to calm her down, This is a girl that alredi has a fiance oooo, Infact Op u're too much, I remain loyal sir, I wish we could make this a guys only section, Make babes no dey know this MAGIC

Tee_Jay: No point reading the post, why would anyone want to control another human being? This craze for control is the very reason there is witchcraft and all the sort?
If you are worthy of respect she will give it to you, if she is just naturally troublesome then dont marry her all this talk of control is just pure madness

mumu like you.

kandiikane: I like to make a guy THINK he is in control. .


Anyways, I like a guy who is in control, that to me is what I call "manly" having control in everything.
There is difference between forced control and subtle control. .
@OP, you have not opened that thread you said you will open"women, how to keep your man" some women on here don't know how to keep their men.


Men control your women, I can promise you right now although they will say "oh no, not at all" women want men in control. It is in our blood.
As a man you should be in control of everything, not forced control but subtle control.

seriously, are you she-male?

Bump... New guys should this.

platinumnk:

LOL



I never thought Id hear this from a Nigerian man, you're not nigerian

Go and marry Akata, then!



Frawzey

2012 and mofos ARE STILL trying to control and get a woman.

Mrs.Chima:
2012 and mofos ARE STILL trying to control and get a woman.

True control works. Those who practice know what they preach.

tai2:

True control works. Those who practice know what they preach.

You are right...it is easier to control a dummy. Having fun?

Mrs.Chima:


You are right...it is easier to control a dummy. Having fun?

Dummies not really, just that all women like mind games. The moment you show them don't have time for that bull they turn right round, if they don't, then this brother bounces. Life's too short for drama.Why bother when you can get drama-free elsewhere? You dig?

tai2:

Dummies not really, just that all women like mind games. The moment you show them don't have time for that bull they turn right round, if they don't, then this brother bounces. Life's too short for drama.Why bother when you can get drama-free elsewhere? You dig?

Tai2, abeg leave Mrs. Chima. Every lady that has seen this thread always frown at it but psychologically this works. Or may be they do not understand the concept of your article.

TAI2 is not saying a guy should carry cain and start beating his woman, he is not saying a woman should be turned into a slave but a man should act maturedly and be good at handling his own emotions. Too much of anything is bad... And truely, it is. The girl I used to call severally back in 2008/2009 complained that I do not call or text her often anymore. You see? But here is someone I used to call almost everyday, gave her money and never had sex with because thats not why I was into the relationship.

I had been with her for almost a year before she got admission and all of a sudden, she had intimacy with a guy at school. She did a lot of terrible things to that when I summed up everything, the pointers indicated that she does not love me and so I moved on.

By 2011-2012 she started begging me and wanting to come back but I couldn't take her back. Initially, I thought of just using and dumping her as a way to pay her back but I felt it's best I don't even dare it. I called her and told her that I can't marry her(I know it's the main reason for coming back) and I also told her that the least that could happen if I go with it is intimacy and nothing because I don't have any plan for her. But I don't have an evil mind and don't want to hurt her that's why I had to let her know. Many guys would have jumped in bed with her but not me. I can't even live with the thought of her sleeping with another guy while we dated and others whom I may not know.

Till date, her action changed the way I view Nigerian ladies. Not all ladies are like that and I agree but this has created an auto-perception in me.

I also had an experience with two other girls after her and I tell you, acting nice was a wrong thing to do.

One girl I used to call often and I think I bought her stuff on two occassion and she start acting funny. Omo, I just kept my distance and stopped calling her. After a while, na she begin call me o after series of "flash" and after about 3 months,asking me when am I coming back blah blah. I called her once and after 3 months, I didn't call her again. And she started calling and saying I don't don't call, I saw her "flashes," I didn't call blah blah blah.

Guys, giving a lady too much attention is wrong IMO.

12 inches!:
Mr true control Op. I have come here jst to pay my gratitude, U're jst a genius Nigeria's D̶̲̥̅̊'angelo, My ex gf came to my house, Not only did I sleep with her, I gave her jst 5h as t fare bck, Someone dt will av complained b4, And thnk God I av koboko control, I wacked her well, She called me 14 times as missed call and I didn't pick, When I eventually picked she was so goody goody on the fun, She was damn scared that I didn't want to talk to her, I had to calm her down, This is a girl that alredi has a fiance oooo, Infact Op u're too much, I remain loyal sir, I wish we could make this a guys only section, Make babes no dey know this MAGIC

Bro, it's a psychological thing. Mind game.

smh @ title.

MsDarkSkin: smh @ title.

Lol...that's the beauty of opinions, everyone's free to have 'em

MsDarkSkin: smh @ title.

I think it's best that ladies don't comment on this thread. They will not agree to it but are guilty of the act. Mstchw

tai2:

Lol...that's the beauty of opinions, everyone's free to have 'em

When did I say otherwise??

2sexy: I think it's best that ladies don't comment on this thread. They will not agree to it but are guilty of the act. Mstchw

Fyi...i never read the thread lmao.

I think you two need to reread my post or quote the post you really intended to because me smh at the title does not call for the attitudes...lol.

But it says a lot though......

Nice write up

..this is probably one of the best, if not the best post ever on romance section for guys. Tai2, you are a genius!

tai2:

Dummies not really, just that all women like mind games. The moment you show them don't have time for that bull they turn right round, if they don't, then this brother bounces. Life's too short for drama.Why bother when you can get drama-free elsewhere? You dig?

You are right...dummies need love too! Thank you for providing that service for them.

You are useful after all.

LMAO@it is a mind game.

I can see a few guys ain't getting no TOTO.

Mrs.Chima:
LMAO@it is a mind game.

I can see a few guys ain't getting no TOTO.

Really?

Mrs.Chima:
LMAO@control your women like cattle

Need a cattle first to practice.

What da Bleep is wrong with your brain woman?! Your comments are always offpoint! 'Cattle' mtcheeewww.......

Yeecar:
What da Bleep is wrong with your brain woman?! Your comments are always offpoint! 'Cattle' mtcheeewww.......

When a woman is always on edge and bitter, chances are that she isn't getting any or she isn't getting it good. Mrs.Chima needs koboko control...lol

tai2:

When a woman is always on edge and bitter, chances are that she isn't getting any or she isn't getting it good. Mrs.Chima needs koboko control...lol

Of course, you would say that I am bitter because I DISAGREED AND CHALLENGED your pliant arse. Get over it.

I am on the edge laughing? I have no issues nor complaints at home TRUST. I suggest you get you some business.

I guess English language varies from country to country.

Yeecar:
What da Bleep is wrong with your brain woman?! Your comments are always offpoint! 'Cattle' mtcheeewww.......

To a brainless dumb arse...it will always be off point.

You are not catching feelings are you?

2sexy: Really?

Really!!!!

i went thru this tread and i was like woaw! we have guys that stil think like this? and people wonder why there is so much bitterness in this country! some people even talk of real control in marriage! it's very obvious a lot of guys don't know wat love is about. pls read 1cor13:1-8, it's one of my favourite Bible passages. some christians even agreed to the OP. it has been said that people ll be desperately wicked and here we are. a guy even boasted that he ended his relationship on val's day! another boasted that he slept wit someone's fiancee and later they ll wonder why things re not working for them or why they re miserable in their marriages. ladies have to pray hard that God gives them their own man b'cos d heart of man is desperately wicked. a poster said something i like so much, if u change from a nice guy to a control guy cos a gal hurt u then my dear, the hurt is controllin u and u re not in control of anything cos when u don't express urself fully, u can never live life to the fullest. i'm also very grateful for this thread, i knew the treasure i had but such treads widen my opened eyes and help me to appreciate God's gracious gift to me. i ll text him tonight to appreciate him again! the Bible says 'he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord' and i believe it applies to women too! in the Nigeria of today wit such mindset flying about, a virtous woman who finds a faithful man who genuinely loves her is blessed of the Lord!

Lol...it's good you're appreciating God's gift in your life but when dealing with these females sometimes devilish tact is required. Them no know God, thus control measures are required.

tai2: Lol...it's good you're appreciating God's gift in your life but when dealing with these females sometimes devilish tact is required. Them no know God, thus control measures are required.

thank God u know ur tactics are devilish! the fact that some men are bad, dogs etc doesn't mean i become a bi*tch! it means i prayerfully and commonsensically choose a guy! al d guys complainin and agreein wit al this bullocks, ow did their relationship start? my dear, ur 'theory' can only work in a loveless relationship/marriage. if a man genuinely loves a woman, it shows! everybody knows it and it's the woman's loss if she let's d guy go. i'm not saying women are perfect, i'm sayin that instead of u becoming a monster that can't express love b'cos u want to be 'in control', look for the gal that suit ur ideas! al this fake control and real control bull don't work wit me. as a poster said, pres. lincoln taught his son to be gentle on gentle pple and be tough on tough pple! when pple treat me well or say nice things about me, i try hard not to fail them! i pray and strive to be d best for them. my advice for u is too look for a gal that is virtous and u'll not be afraid to express urself to her. i have lived a life where i don't show my emotions, i don't cry, i try not to feel and my dear, it's empty and draining! i wouldn't trade this life where i can tell my guy anything or express myself and vice versa for anything in this world! God created us wit a hunger for certain things and like it or not, til u fulfill them, u can never be satisfied! a real control man may be happy in his relationship but a man that expresses himself fully ll have joy! one is temporary and depends on situations another is permanent no matter the circumstances! go figure the one u want! have a splendid day.

Poster, why do you want to control her? don't you trust her? if not you can have headache because if she wants to cheat on you she will and without your knowledge. I truly believe that when you're with someone you should'nt try to control her, but support her and complete her ( same for guys) or else you can be very sad