Ujujoan:

You are such a cheap loser. A sorry excuse for a man. You are looking for an excuse to shelve your responsibility abi?

Maybe you should go for a intimacy change!

bennygee:

Another mugu stung by a sharp lagos babes.take heart and learn from Tai2

nikkykay:

Come hw much have you invested or spent that can quantify the what she has lost for you?you guys look at the money and the material things you invest on which is short term but u dont look at the aspect of the ladies that they lose more in the sense that their value depreciate which is long term.
You guys are so selfish

Ujujoan:

You are such a cheap loser. A sorry excuse for a man. You are looking for an excuse to shelve your responsibility abi?

Maybe you should go for a intimacy change!

pro01:

How come a great deal of women are never grateful (in the end) for all the resources a man commits on them during a relationship? No matter how little or great your 'investment' on them, all is bound to come to nought. In the event of a break up (induced, perhaps, by her discovery of a higher bidder), they scorn you and cynically remember only your shortcomings. Remind them of all the good, and all the effort and resources you wasted on them, their demonic response would be something like this: "and so what? Whats the big deal there? Didnt i also invest my time (& body)? Hiss. Cos you bought me some stuff I won't hear word. There are men who buy new cars and houses for their women and yet they don't talk."

Why oh Why are most women like this? So, my brothers, beware of that girl you're depleting your account for. When you break up, you will not get even a simple 'THANK YOU'.

pro01:

How come a great deal of women are never grateful (in the end) for all the resources a man commits on them during a relationship? No matter how little or great your 'investment' on them, all is bound to come to nought. In the event of a break up (induced, perhaps, by her discovery of a higher bidder), they scorn you and cynically remember only your shortcomings. Remind them of all the good, and all the effort and resources you wasted on them, their demonic response would be something like this: "and so what? Whats the big deal there? Didnt i also invest my time (& body)? Hiss. Cos you bought me some stuff I won't hear word. There are men who buy new cars and houses for their women and yet they don't talk."
Why oh Why are most women like this? So, my brothers, beware of that girl you're depleting your account for. When you break up, you will not get even a simple 'THANK YOU'.

pro01:

How come a great deal of women are never grateful (in the end) for all the resources a man commits on them during a relationship? No matter how little or great your 'investment' on them, all is bound to come to nought. In the event of a break up (induced, perhaps, by her discovery of a higher bidder), they scorn you and cynically remember only your shortcomings. Remind them of all the good, and all the effort and resources you wasted on them, their demonic response would be something like this: "and so what? Whats the big deal there? Didnt i also invest my time (& body)? Hiss. Cos you bought me some stuff I won't hear word. There are men who buy new cars and houses for their women and yet they don't talk."

Why oh Why are most women like this? So, my brothers, beware of that girl you're depleting your account for. When you break up, you will not get even a simple 'THANK YOU'.

whitelexi:

Sorry folks but i have to agree with the OPs school of thought, not cos he's talking of women but cos i've seen the same trend and it only spikes into one direction with naija girls.
The OP mentioned all these happening when a relationship ends, but dude, it happens even when the wooing starts and runs a smooth curve throughout the lifecycle of the relationship.

Funny enough, it seems prevalent with those girls who constantly ask themselves what always goes wrong with their relationships. . . Those ones that want to rule their men. . . They usually end up single for long spells for the same reason, and little wonder why

Experience has taught me not to spend on silly stuff anymore. . . Just do the necessary, those ones that wont even dent your cashflow, maintenance funding, small gifts, nothing more! cos if u go beyond that u become a cash cow.
They will milk u to the extent that your mum or family wont even come into the picture anymore. . . Its all a learning curve, mine was very straight and fast!

_{Call Credit, Perfumes, wrist watches, Mobile phones, Digital Cameras, Laptops, Gold jewelery, house rent, cars, house. . . The list is endless!}

pro01:

How come a great deal of women are never grateful (in the end) for all the resources a man commits on them during a relationship? No matter how little or great your 'investment' on them, all is bound to come to nought. In the event of a break up (induced, perhaps, by her discovery of a higher bidder), they scorn you and cynically remember only your shortcomings. Remind them of all the good, and all the effort and resources you wasted on them, their demonic response would be something like this: "and so what? Whats the big deal there? Didnt i also invest my time (& body)? Hiss. Cos you bought me some stuff I won't hear word. There are men who buy new cars and houses for their women and yet they don't talk."

Why oh Why are most women like this? So, my brothers, beware of that girl you're depleting your account for. When you break up, you will not get even a simple 'THANK YOU'.

poceda:

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Of cos. Typical male. Always sticking together even when they are wrong. My brother no amount of money spent can measure up to what you gain in a relationship. Be you male or female.

Mai Suya:


If you break up, that is. . .

BTW since when did a relationship become a one sided monetary investment? She invested--her emotion, her body or what not--and you invested as well. Its a two way thing; If at any point in time either partner feels that the r/ship is not yielding the expected dividend, then he/she should be at liberty to move on, no strings attached.

How come a great deal of women are never grateful (in the end) for all the resources a man commits on them during a relationship? No matter how little or great your 'investment' on them, all is bound to come to nought. In the event of a break up (induced, perhaps, by her discovery of a higher bidder), they scorn you and cynically remember only your shortcomings. Remind them of all the good, and all the effort and resources you wasted on them, their demonic response would be something like this: "and so what? Whats the big deal there? Didnt i also invest my time (& body)? Hiss. Cos you bought me some stuff I won't hear word. There are men who buy new cars and houses for their women and yet they don't talk."

pro01:

Rubbish. What do i gain other than intimacy (which i can always get OUTSIDE a relationship far cheaper)? Why don't women do the spending let us see; i'd surely change my opinion then. All these clever by half (il)logic sickens me.


Really, if i were a woman to spend money on you, then you would have to play my role as well. First I will stretch on the bed with newspaper or the remote control while you do the cooking, washing, cleanup and put water for me to take my bath. After that you will serve me my meals no matter how tired you are after the days work. Oh dont forget I will be needing Intimacy before I go to bed. Will you really do all that? Besides I get to say what goes on around and dictate the tune of the relationship. I dont really see you picking up after me no matter the amount of money I spend do you know why? Cos thats not your God given role.
Might i add, Havent you ever taken, borrowed, stolen or recieved anything from a woman before?  Do you say thank you to them after you break up?
Besides would you proudly come out to your guys and say, Oh i just had cheaper intimacy[i][/i] from outside?[joint] the same way you would proudly show off your woman to your friends?

Ujujoan:

You are such a cheap loser. A sorry excuse for a man. You are looking for an excuse to shelve your responsibility abi?

Maybe you should go for a intimacy change!

whitelexi:

Sorry folks but i have to agree with the OPs school of thought, not cos he's talking of women but cos i've seen the same trend and it only spikes into one direction with naija girls.
The OP mentioned all these happening when a relationship ends, but dude, it happens even when the wooing starts and runs a smooth curve throughout the lifecycle of the relationship.

Funny enough, it seems prevalent with those girls who constantly ask themselves what always goes wrong with their relationships. . . Those ones that want to rule their men. . . They usually end up single for long spells for the same reason, and little wonder why

Experience has taught me not to spend on silly stuff anymore. . . Just do the necessary, those ones that wont even dent your cashflow, maintenance funding, small gifts, nothing more! cos if u go beyond that u become a cash cow.
They will milk u to the extent that your mum or family wont even come into the picture anymore. . . Its all a learning curve, mine was very straight and fast!

_{Call Credit, Perfumes, wrist watches, Mobile phones, Digital Cameras, Laptops, Gold jewelery, house rent, cars, house. . . The list is endless!}

lord krato:

We all know that u are for responsibility in men, we know.look on the net we have what i call cybercharacter,please don't let it transfuse into your person if that does, wahala dey,