Once, in the hereafter

braine:
I'd say 0 times.

But then...

...in as much as I think cheating is horrible, I feel we'll have to deal with it whether we like it or not. Almost every girl I've dated cheated which led to breakups. Now it's like we have to accept it, else one may stay single forever.

and is it a crime to be single?

declaro:


You can forgive your spouse once for cheating. For me, I will definitely forgive but I will never marry her again, never.

hmmm, but you know at times you can never tell till it happens?

well I feel that a wife that cheats on a husband does it bcs she isn't always being satisfied in bed or wants to punish d husband or it's her occupation (that's how she met d man),especially when he's an infidel. so a husband who forgives is aware of these reasons and will allow her.

"but cheating has always been men's birthright bcs e no easy to b man ooooo(guys: quote and unquote)" anonymous
and forgiveness will b a lady's duty ,remember : forgive us ds day as we forgive our trespassers

Sexual Faithfulness is anti-animal instinct and actually anti-nature. I do not approve or disapprove anything. People should observe nature and act in accordance with the rules of the animal kingdom.

God Forgives, I Don't.

trulybenjay001:
well I feel that a wife that cheats on a husband does it bcs she isn't always being satisfied in bed or wants to punish d husband or it's her occupation (that's how she met d man),especially when he's an infidel. so a husband who forgives is aware of these reasons and will allow her.

"but cheating has always been men's birthright bcs e no easy to b man ooooo(guys: quote and unquote)" anonymous
and forgiveness will b a lady's duty ,remember : forgive us ds day as we forgive our trespassers

there is no excuse for cheating..none!!!

There is a great difference between male and female creation. In my own opinion, men are not naturally created for only one woman, as it has always been from the onset. Solomon had how many wives and concubines? will you call that cheating? Islam permits up to four wives for a man, if he is capable, at least he would date first before ending into another marriage, during the courtship, could that be referred to as cheating? A man's life span is much more longer than that of a woman. All men are naturally polygamous in nature, therefore it is very difficult for one woman to satisfy a man throughout his entire life.

NOT EVEN ONCE

Cheating and forgiveness don't usually work hand in hand. Even if I want love you dearly, I am not sure I'd be able to take you back as a wife. I'd begin to see you as filth and thrash on one hand, and would always suspect you when you do certain things. The thought of having to worry if you are with another man and having sex, is something I can't deal with and allow my brain to worry over. So, I'd rather let you go and have my sanity intact than forgive and kill myself with high blood pressure. No one is worth that stress joor.

A man can be forgiven.. . A woman should not.. .

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MzHolly:
I cheat back as revenge always

Please call on me whenever he cheats. I'll help you with revenge

Many times now. So far no be the first driller, then I expect anything to happen.

SIGNS YOU ARE STILL IN LOVE WITH YOUR EX

Take a look at this list of signs that you are not over your ex, and find out if you really are about him, or not ...

1. You get caught almost texting him


For many women, erasing their phone number is the best option. But you can know it by heart. What kind of defeats the whole purpose.

I mean really, how many times have you written a long and sincere message - only to think about it later and decide to eliminate it?

Or worse ... in a moment of irrationality, send it to him?

If you are still thinking of him enough to write messages to him and send jolts of emotion through you, it means that you are not on him.

You will overcome it over time, but for now you will have to concentrate on yourself.


2. You want him to see you
If you come to places on purpose because you know he will be there, that is a huge sign that you are still not over on him.
Even if you go to a party that you know is going to be with another guy to try to make him jealous, all you're going to do is end up getting sad when you see him feeling happy.

The only way to overcome this temptation is to keep yourself occupied in your own life and not try to be where you are or be seen by him.

Otherwise, you are just taking the break and taking more and more time to overcome it.

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babyfaceafrica:
and is it a crime to be single?

Man was not created to be alone.

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I'm a forgiving person I also make mistakes so I too will need to be forgiven but if I love you I will compromise but it doesn't mean you have found a weak person and you can continue

muller101:
Nonsense thread

Have anyone cheated on you more than once and you forgave

It's not a Nonsense thread.

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There are complex factors and situations that could cause those that truly love you (In your confirmation &
theirs) to cheat on you.

However you should watch out for their Genuine remorse, extra efforts to make things right & also play back a memory of their worth to you.

After weighing all these & they're checked correctly.

It's Okay to Forgive but Once.

MzHolly:
I cheat back as revenge always

It is your pussssy that will bear the brunt.

If i love the man i believe that i can forgive. But then i will probably use him for ritual.

That's the truth,your spoke my mind.

kimbraa:
Actually, there are forgivable crimes even in law that all that requires is a fine for the offender of such laws for normalcy to return, while there are grievous crimes that the offender needs put in jail for life, and I see cheating in marriage as one of such crimes.

By the reason of that union, cheating shouldn't be part of it.

The moment a spouse cheats, there's 99.9% possibility that he'd do it again, and the moment you forgive you're opening the door to be cheated on 'cause he'd assume that after pleading if caught you're likely to forgive. The moment you do it twice it becomes a norm for him to cheat with reckless abandon.

I can't forgive a cheating man and can't be with one.

same as me I WILL NEVER FORGIVE A CHEATING WOMAN:>

if it is more than once, believe me it will continue because it has turned to attitude as your spouse will always have it at the back of his or her mind that you are a legend when it comes to forgiving

lol @ comments here... Nigerians do not really have forgiven spirits!

Wetin konsaign me

Depends!!

If he is a broke ass, do not forgive!! I repeat; dump his broke ass ASAP.

If he is rich AND GENEROUS = 70 X 7.

infinitely

so long she's game. I'm always ready.