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Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by axeman85(m): 10:45am On Feb 25, 2010
@poster

sorry to hear that but lying doesnt pay at all there is a saying that no mater how long you keep lieing someday the truth will cath up with it. for those that re telling you there are 1billion people out there truly they are but ow mny of them can be the same way ur guy is.so if he is worth your energy and wahal then go and plead with him and hoprfully he will forgive you. as lng as you are sure you dont have anymore skeletons in your cupboard, plead and tell him the reason you didnt tell the whole truth in the first place.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by ruskiee(m): 11:08am On Feb 25, 2010
chic ah!:

@ ruskiee am nt a desperado. Those were d mistakes i made in d past. I was actualy searching 4 tru love. Nd nw dt i found one, i cant possibly let go. It aint dt easy.

Who said you were a desperado.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by chicah(f): 12:15pm On Feb 25, 2010
U said i shud move on 2 d nxt person. Only desperados do dt. Jump 4rm one man 2 another. indirectly u said dt.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by galatico(m): 1:39pm On Feb 25, 2010
Duniverse:

she did well by lying because if am or if i were the guy and she told me at first that she has dated three girls in ma area i will take her to be a slot honestly.

I'd be glad she was honest to me . Honesty matters alot in relationship .
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by chicah(f): 10:36pm On Feb 25, 2010
Tanks, av learnt my lessons though. I believe sometins actually happen 4 us 2 learn.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by chicah(f): 11:18pm On Feb 26, 2010
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Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by ec3l(m): 7:35am On Feb 27, 2010
Well lying was wrong but we all do that, right advice is: dont get caught.
But since u r a lover, let's talk like lovers.
This guy left coz he's lost his trust in u, and now he feels insecure in the relationship.
If he loved u like u wrote, chance is he still does.
Though he's walked out of the relationship, u r still in his mind and hence, he'd still be keeping tabs at u, unconsciously.
So what u got to deal with now is earning his trust again.
So show him u realize your mistakes,U just need another chance to make it right, and your gonna be here till he's ready to give u that chance, your not going anywhere.
U never wanted to wrong him, but u did and that's only coz u didnt wanna loose him,couldnt imagine life without him.
If u can assure him u'd be real this time, he'll b back.
your love will always win if its real. Truth is, its not everyday a guy meets true love, so when he does, he cherishes it.
Show him u r that true love.
Dont appear desparate, some of us could use that against u.
Anyways, i'm always here if he's shut the door finally. Wink.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by hollandis(f): 7:56am On Feb 27, 2010
@chic ah-Gosh u were sccrewing 4 guys in one neigbourhood,u r such a LovePeddler.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by chicah(f): 11:33am On Feb 27, 2010
@ ec3l tanks alot. I thinks dt wt am gonna do. @ hollandis i asked 4 an advice nt dis n if u dnt have1 bal out instead of leavn a senseles comment here. besides i dint date d 3 guys at same time,dey wer jst r/s gone bad. And am nt a LovePeddler, watch ur tounge.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by ec3l(m): 11:52am On Feb 27, 2010
U mean sticking wit him or hooking u wit me?
Just kidding, lol
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by chicah(f): 1:26pm On Feb 27, 2010
Oh no there u go again! STICK WIT HIM of course.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by ec3l(m): 2:44pm On Feb 27, 2010
I didnt say anything oooo, but if he wont accept ur sincere-straight-from-the-heart-repentance, u could always try me na,
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by ec3l(m): 2:45pm On Feb 27, 2010
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Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by chicah(f): 4:14pm On Feb 27, 2010
Dont worry, il get bk 2 u once i try out ur advice. Bt den, i sincerely pray dt it works out! Lol
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by ec3l(m): 4:23pm On Feb 27, 2010
Yeah?
Ok, u cant believe d content of d prayer already welling up in my heart.
Damn i'm selfish, lol
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by uchenageme(m): 5:16pm On Feb 27, 2010
Babes! u ppl r wonderful, dating four guys from the same area, how did u manage dat, either u r too hot or u r a slot angry. bt for the lying everyone lies once in a while
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by Nobody: 3:58am On Feb 28, 2010
chic ah!:

well i really screwed up i should say cos i dated like three guys in his area 2 years before i met him. he got to find out and asked me but i lied, not cos i wanted to lie but cos i was scared to loose him. though after a while i told him all the truth but then he thought i still had somethings am hiding from him. that was where the whole misunderstanding started. he became so insecure to the extent that he told me to cut off with all my male friends and actually followed me about every where i went. he loved me i know and i loved him too. then we had a little misunderstanding cos he kept accusing me of things that i could not even imagine myself doing. on one of these occasions i got angry and sent him an abusive text message. well when he refused to call me for like a week which is unlike him, i decided to call to find out what the problem was, he then told me point blank that it was over. reason, he does not trust me and never will. he has tried to but just could not. that i always keep him on his toes. i actually never cheated on him for once! well to cut everything short, i still love him and never want to loose him. he doesn't take my calls anymore. pls guys in the house, how do i get him back. he changed my life and i don't know how to get him to trust me again. i need him in my life.pls help!

HOLD ON! HOLD UP! You mean to tell me that he is mad because of your PAST with other guys a wa di backside?! Are you serious? It's like this I have been in your shoes kind of still am, lol I wont get into details.  I know what you feel for him is strong but ms lady he suffers from insecurity on SEVERAL levels! He's not taking your calls now? What type of twisted male ego is this? It's simple any time a man treats you as if you are loose, untrust worthy or a cheat trust and believe it is a reflection of HIMSELF. You don't need to be in a relationship with some one like that. My current bf told me that I must drop all of my guy friends and distant male relatives do you think I did? ABSOLUTELY NOT. You control YOU. And YOU are NOT a slut, you are a young lady who'se had a few exs and things never worked out thats all.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by chicah(f): 8:35am On Feb 28, 2010
Tank u very mch my sister. Well av come 2 believe dt if hes 4 me, he wil definetly come back. He cals me once in while nw. Said we shud remain friends.
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by chicah(f): 1:24pm On Feb 28, 2010
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Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by chicah(f): 4:02pm On Mar 02, 2010
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by Busybody2(f): 4:50pm On Mar 02, 2010
How can he love you yet not trust you to the extent that he follows you everywhere and checks up on you all the time and has stopped you from having any male friend undecided Berra free yourself and move on like some have said, before he works his way back into your life and you become a caged bird undecided
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by whitelexi(m): 4:53pm On Mar 02, 2010
^^^Busy_body in the form of her life!!! grin grin grin
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by Busybody2(f): 4:57pm On Mar 02, 2010
^^^ Hello Mr W for Whisky shocked Thought you'd travelled to M and relocated and decided not to come back again tongue Where have you been, good to see you around, i can see U has been taking care of you wink cheesy grin cheesy
Re: Please How Do I Get Him Back? by Emperoh(m): 5:54pm On Mar 02, 2010
Try ur luck with him. . . .just like ecl said, thats ur best option!!
If he doesn't take u back, pls get over him and move on!!!

He just drilled u for some other guy. . . . ecl maybe!!! lol!!!

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