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Why Didn't You Use A Condom?!? by Riwo11(f): 8:35pm On Sep 06, 2017
If you don't love her why did you have sex with her?
Why did you get her pregnant if you are not going to marry her?
These are some of the questions "women" ask men when their fellow woman gets pregnant
As far as you were not forced to lay on your back, you were not forced to open your legs, you were not forced to give a man BJ, kiss and romance him then why do you have to blame the man for getting you pregnant like he climbed you without your permission. All those times you allowed him without condom you didn't know you were playing a role to be a mother, and now that you are pregnant you want to blame the man and even want to force him to marry you.
Listen, a man doesn't owe you marriage or anything even if you have his child, he owes his child everything... So if you like allow him without Condom hoping to get married to him you are on your own. Gone are those days oh.
The blame game needs to stop.
Women have the following options when it comes to Birth Control:
Abstinence
Birth Control Implant (Implanon and Nexplanon)
Birth Control Pills
Birth Control Vaginal Ring (NuvaRing)
Female Condom
Morning-After Pill (Emergency Contraception) etc
Women can use ovulation tests/kits to gauge ovulation
All those various methods of control and power yet we still have narcissistic, unaccountable and irresponsible women that will still say "he should have worn a condom."
We men have to choose from a very limited list while you have a plethora of choices?!! You couldn't utilize ONE option? Not one! Yet you'll chalk pregnancy up as the man's failure to wear a condom.
Insist on a condom if you are not ready, or get your own condom... If you feel it's wrong to carry female condom you have every right to insist on no condom no sex because the truth is a woman suffers it more if pregnancy occurs, not the man. Withdrawal method can get you pregnant. "I won't cum inside" can get you pregnant, "Let me just use it to rub the tip" can get you pregnant. Sperm travels very fast just like Buhari.
When you eventually get pregnant, your man do not owe you marriage, he owes his child everything. If he decides to marry you, fine.
Women should be responsible for the man they choose to sleep with.
If a woman chooses to lay with a man that doesn't wear a condom, especially and specifically when she isn't on any birth control what so ever, then any pregnancy that comes from this should also be blamed on her.
Women dispense sex, it's not the other way around. Men ask, women provide.
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Re: Why Didn't You Use A Condom?!? by kitogram(m): 8:45pm On Sep 06, 2017
Women sometimes, are their own worst enemy.

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Re: Why Didn't You Use A Condom?!? by Damibiz(m): 8:59pm On Sep 06, 2017
Tell them,later them go the cry with u like say e no Sweet them when e de enter..,

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